Tripp here from TrippAdvice.com, teaching you how to get the girl while still being
your genuine self.
Today, we're talking about the three biggest mistakes when texting a girl.
If you make mistakes texting a girl that you like, it could cost you a date and a meetup,
which by the way is the goal here.
Don't forget that.
More on that in a minute.
You want to make sure that your text game is solid so that every girl you get a number
from is dying to meet up with you.
Let's go over the three biggest mistakes that most guys make when texting a girl.
Not only have I made these mistakes myself, but I've worked with hundreds of students
who make the same mistakes every single time.
Let's fix these for good.
Mistake number one, using too many emoticons or not using enough emoticons.
The options these days are endless with these emoticons.
I want you to be very careful when you use these.
It's very possible to go overboard and send too many.
If you do, you can come up very strange or very immature.
Let's keep these to a bare minimum.
The same time, a lot of guys won't send any at all.
Sending a wink face or a smiley faces, believe it or not is a very powerful flirting tool
when texting.
If you send something to a girl that's teasing her, you can throw in a smiley face to soften
the blow and make it more jokey as well.
Again, use these wisely.
Mistake number two, not asking the girl out.
A lot of guys will text and text and not ever asked a girl out on a date.
This is a common problem that I get and I'm frustrated by seeing it.
You have the girl's number, she has to be somewhat interested in you, so you need to
make a clear plan to ask her out.
Create a time, a place and go for it.
The point of texting is to meet up with her.
You need to always be moving the relationship between you and the girl forward, or else
it will die.
Get the number, text, call, and get her on a date, which leads me to mistake number three.
Don't always ask the girl out over text.
You guys are texting a lot.
There's a good conversation going back and forth, you should drop the texting and give
her a call.
In fact, here's a good trick.
Call her mid text conversation.
9/10 she'll pick up and then you can continue the conversation there and ask her out.
This will help too because she will think you're more confident by doing it over the
phone rather than doing it by text.
Mistake number four, sending dick pics.
Here's my advice.
Don't do it.
No exceptions.
Mistake number five, waiting too long to respond.
There's some interesting advice going on around the internet that waiting double the amount
of time to text a girl and she texted you.
Don't look so far into this.
Respond as your time allows it.
When you start looking too far into texting response time, you're going to make yourself
go insane, which will lead you to feeling less present and more nervous.
Throw any texting timing concepts out the window.
Mistake number six, writing paragraphs of text.
These days, it's easy to send very long text messages to girls because our phones allow
it.
You only want to do it when the conversation calls for it, and you guys have escalated
conversation to that point.
Otherwise, if you do texting paragraphs to each other, get on the phone.
It will make a way better connection and get her more attracted if you have these conversations
with your voice rather than via text.
At that point, like I said earlier, this would be a good time to ask her out on a date.
Do you make any mistakes when texting or have any other questions on the best methods to
text a girl?
I want you to write your comments down below and let's hear from you.
If you want to learn more about how to talk to girls, and powerfully seduce them once
you meet up with them, check out my Super Seduction Course right here on the screen
or down below in the description.
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