(PD) Hi!
Hi!
Can you tell me about your type?
My type?
What's my type?
(PD) Bad boys.
Eh! Really meh?
How you know?
In secondary school, I like bad boys.
The naughty kind you know.
The nerds, I don't like.
You skip school, skip CCA.
Like wah I feel like you very attractive.
In secondary school!
In JC, I liked the nerds.
In University, I don't categorise between nerds and bad boys anymore.
Because I feel in University, you're a grown-up already.
You're a mix of both.
So yeah, I had different phases.
I liked bad boys, I liked nerds.
Then now I just don't know what my type is,
because I haven't dated in so long.
If I need to marry that person,
the closest to my type would be Fauzi.
He can take care of me, then he can be quite funny.
He's taller than me.
He can also carry a conversation very well.
So I don't need to say anything.
Just hear him talk can already.
There's a feeling when you know you can vibe with someone.
When you watch Love Island, "This person's got that vibe that I like".
I'm like what?
It does not make any sense!
But you know it does kinda make sense.
My ideal type is someone who has,
something they want to achieve in their life.
I don't like when my partner is too clingy.
When they want me to,
basically narrate my entire life to them every moment of the day.
I cannot!
I cannot cope with that pressure.
I really would like someone who has their own career.
They have their own life to lead.
They should run parallel to my life.
When you parallel, it's like you're holding hands.
You'll walk together.
If not, you'll walk into each other.
That's stupid, that doesn't work, right?
Not like parallel universe.
Even though I feel like my partner will only exist in a parallel universe.
I'm going to be single for the rest of my life.
Preferably that guy is quite artsy.
You don't have to be super into what I like.
So abstract and stuff like that, no need.
But you have to have an appreciation for the arts.
I like to take photos or I like to watch musicals.
You cannot come and tell me,
"Oh wow that's a waste of money", that kind of thing.
No. That kind of guys? No go.
Ever met such a guy. Ew.
I cannot.
The person told me straight up in my face,
"You're going to watch a musical? Wah damn waste money!"
You then waste money.
I don't have a type.
I have so many type,
I eat a lot of things then I feel like I have a lot of type.
(PD) Huh?
I have so many types I literally...
I literally eat everything.
(PD) Eh I not talking about food.
I know...
But I mean, boys are food.
My type is people who are quite intelligent.
TSL don't really have my type.
Really! I don't think TSL have.
I can mix three people.
John, Dion and Hafeez.
I know Hafeez is very...
Oh my god. I don't want to tell him this.
I hope he never sees this!
Click away Hafeez.
But I think Hafeez is a very witty guy.
You can throw him any scenario,
he'll come back with a funny comment or a quirk.
John is the teacher type.
He's always going on about,
"Oh do you know this fun fact about giant squids?"
You know that kind of random thing that you can pull out of nowhere.
John is really that kind of person.
Dion, it's the way he can hold conversations,
and the way he views people.
I think it's the way he's super sensitive to the way people think and feel.
And I think that makes me feel very heard and seen when I talk to him.
The ideal type is someone who is,
short hair, sporty, can hold a conversation with me.
But, I've come to realise that I cannot objectify people like that.
So, my type has shifted to,
whoever I can form genuine connection with.
The ideal type for me is that the guy has to be lean.
That means tall and slim.
If my ideal type smokes right...
I feel like visually it's damn hot.
Habitually not good.
But visually damn hot.
Full sleeve tattoo.
Oh my god.
Damn hot.
If he can dance or sing...
That's also damn sexy.
If the guy has a very low, husky deep voice...
Wow.
Basically I'm describing Axel.
Just without the tattoos and the deep voice and the singing and the dancing.
But that's fine.
Yeah that's fine.
Handsome bur not too handsome.
Geeky with a streak of bad boy.
Same religion.
Fun-loving.
Preferably a creative person.
Taller than me.
Puts in effort to dress at least as much as I do.
Cannot be too chapalang (messy).
But cannot be too fancy.
Just nice.
Previously when I was in my early 20s,
I like guys who are like,
good-looking, a bit buff, play basketball.
Like "ooo" so cool.
But when I put myself back into the dating game,
I dated such guys.
They were the most boring guys ever.
Got no sense of humor.
They only know how to talk about themselves.
How do I put this?
Nice to see, but not nice to talk to.
From then on my type evolved to,
someone who is humorous,
and somebody who is a family man.
Oh my gosh, it's like totally showing my age.
I think one ideal type, or non-deal type would be,
a girl who is taller than me.
I think my personality or character is I want to be someone who,
takes care of the other person.
So I think visually, in my head,
I don't think I will be able to,
do that if the person is taller than me.
I don't know, it's just an inside-my-head kinda thing.
I think it's quite fun to have a dynamic,
where you can just disturb one another.
As long as we can banter,
doesn't get upset too easily.
Yea, I think it would be good for me.
Someone who's not me.
Or someone who is very different from me.
Because I think I'm quite loud when it comes to my circle of friends,
but then in actual life, I'm actually quite introverted.
So the person has to be someone who likes to speak.
Needs to be very caring.
Needs to be able to know how to cook, because I can't.
Needs to be able to do basic chores.
Like sweeping,
mopping,
ironing clothes,
making breakfast.
The most ideal is like,
let me defrost then after I chill already,
got coffee and biscuit.
Enough already for me.
So, motherly figure. Like the qualities of a mother.
Because I'm very close to my mum,
so if the person exhibits how my mum cares for me,
like tough love and a mixture of caring, motherly type of actions.
You're my type.
My type is Brenda.
Brenda she's an Ah Lian, she will scold you.
But she can also be a sexy dancer.
She can like do all this.
Then she can also cook.
The way she cares for people around her,
very nice.
My ideal type are the anime husbands that will never exist in real life.
*coughs*
The Korean/Chinese/Taiwanese boy face,
with the center parting hair that is like wavy.
And then the dressing is like,
a bit over sized kind of fits,
like sweaters.
The best one is if they have tattoos!
Then you're like *ded*.
That's in terms of visual-wise, my ideal type.
People also like to say that,
these people if you transfer it to Singapore context,
look like Ah Bengs.
Fair and I agree.
I tend to like that direction also.
It'll be great if we like the same things.
For example, same taste in music.
Or maybe like to watch the same animes. You know?
Oh my god, if they watch the same animes as me that's amazing.
If a guy goes out of his way to do something for me,
without me asking, I'm like *ded again*.
Like fainted already okay!
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