What's going on? Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com. Today,
I want to talk to you about the 3 things that you should never be telling a woman.
These are things that are going to ultimately be bad for the potential relationship and it's
going to hurt attraction. I want to help you prevent saying these things so you don't have
to do cleanup work after. Let's prevent the problem, instead of having the problem and then
having to go back and try to fix it and figure out a solution. This is stuff that a non needy,
smart, stoic, alpha kind of guy is going to make sure that he doesn't say. These are the things
that that kind of guy does not talk about. Let's go into those right now. The first one is this...
you want to make sure that you never tell a woman how many women you've slept with. Why? Because
this is going to hurt you either way. There's going to be some judgment formed on her end
that's going to potentially falsely judge who you are based on how many women you've slept with.
And that can be anywhere from you've never slept with anyone, zero people, all the way to the fact
that you've slept with, I don't know, 500 - 1,000 women. Anywhere in between that she's
going to be judging you based on how many women, whatever, whatever the number is, she's going to
think something of you. And let's just think about it this way. It only has the potential to hurt.
It doesn't help. There's no number you're gonna say that helps. And I talked about this on my
TikTok channel, if you want to check out my TikTok just go to Tripp Advice and type that in
and search for it. But I talked about this and I had some guys comment and they said "no man,
I told her, I slept with 98 girls or 100 girls and she was more into me.
I mean, okay, great. I'm not saying that story isn't true. Maybe that is a true statement for
something that happened with that person. I'd like to call that the exception. But that can also blow
up in your face. If you tell her how many women that you've slept with, then you say it's like 100
women or 150 women, something crazy like that, she might judge you for that and say "oh God,
this guy's a player" and start to distance herself from you. Don't think that just because one person
has an experience, it's going to be the same thing for you. I should add, you don't want to find
out how many men she's slept with either because that information shouldn't matter to you either.
You don't have to worry like "oh, I want to know because if she slept with 50 or 100 guys
then you know she's a slut and I don't want to be with that kind of woman. First of all, that's a
double standard, judgmental thing of you to even put on someone like that. And she's probably not
going to end up telling you the truth if she did sleep with a lot of men. So you're not even going
to know that information anyways. It's information you don't need. Just stay away from this topic of
conversation all together. And here's a little tip. If she asks you just say "you know what,
I think that information is irrelevant and I don't think we should have that discussion."
Just say it like that. Any way you want, doesn't matter. Just say that you don't have this
discussion and you prefer to keep that private. Next, here's something you don't want to do,
especially in the very beginning of dating her. You don't want to tell her
how much you like her. And you don't want to tell her how excited you are to see her again.
The reason why is because you want to allow a little bit of room to chase.
And I know that a lot of guys, whenever I say stuff like this, they go "that's gamey. Tripp,
that's gamey. Why can I just be myself and tell her?" Well, you can go ahead and be yourself and
tell her, but it's going to turn her off because this is the way that it works with female nature.
By all means, you can be yourself and say everything you want and completely word vomit
and you're going to suffer the consequences. I'm trying to help you here. Plus, you have to realize
this isn't as gamey as you think it is. People think it's gamey not to say those things. It's
like, well, you're still asking her out. You're still physically escalating with her. You're
still having sex with her. Assuming these things are happening. Those things are still going on.
How is this gamey? Just because you're not saying these things to her, but you're still showing your
actions. Stay away from this word vomit of showing too much affection and instead do it with your non
verbals. I guess we can say verbal because maybe you're asking her out. But again, it's about the
actions that speak louder than words and once we start to put those words into play like "I
like you. I like you." And I understand it's gonna slip from time to time, but I'm trying to get you
to the other end where hopefully you don't say too much. "I like you. I can't wait to see you again."
It's just going to push her away because we don't want to show any sort of neediness which is one
of the most unattractive traits. Here's the next one. And there's a bunch of these but I wanted to
give you the 3 biggest ones. The next one is you don't want to tell her how much money you make.
And this is the same idea as before when I said sleeping with women. Whether it's zero or 1,000,
you don't want to say it. Whether you're making millions of dollars per year or you're making
$10,000 per year, and you're completely broke or on welfare or whatever... you don't want to
tell her how much you make. This can come up in different ways. One, maybe you're a person who is
just telling her that information. Or two, maybe she asks you. If she asks you, and hey, maybe
that comes up. That's a little bit of a yellow flag. I don't know why she'd be asking you that.
So if she's asking you just say "I'd rather keep that private." And also, I'd be worried
about that person. But mainly, I don't want you to think that you have to say this to her.
Information that's just not needed. She doesn't need to count your money. She doesn't need to know
how well you're doing. She'll know how well or not well you're doing based on your lifestyle.
If you're that concerned about her knowing how much money you make, or don't make,
she'll see it and there are ways to show her, even though I don't think that should be the plan
of action to get her attracted to you. But you don't need to say it. There's no reason to have
a conversation over it. And there's no reason for her to know that information because it's possible
in the future she could use it against you and we don't want to have that situation happen. Also
offering that information is going to look weak, like you're trying to show off in some sort of way
if you do make a good amount of money. There's no reason to give that information. And if you don't
make a lot of money that could work against you too because then she's like "oh, this guy only
makes so much." And then I don't know, maybe she just starts to become un-attracted to you. And I
get that maybe that's a way to filter someone out. But still, I wouldn't blame her if you're making
barely any money at all trying to make ends meet and she hears about that and becomes attracted.
That's female nature. She wants to be with a guy who has resources and who can provide in some way.
Let's keep that conversation out completely. A lot of guys are having trouble with meeting women. And
they feel like they're maybe confused when they hear me say some of these things like "wait, I'm
not supposed to talk about this and this. This is a lot of rules." All the rules come down to just a
few very basic, easy to understand concepts about how attraction works, how female nature works,
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attraction. Hope this helps. Press the like button if it did, and I'll see you on the next video.