Hey guys, drew Canole!
I am here with my good friend Neale Godfrey, author of Money Doesn’t Grow on Trees.
It’s been great having you in this video series.
Thank you for coming out today.
Thank you.
Yeah.
Today we are talking about something that has been a part of my life and it’s this
conversation that we have in our own mind around scarcity.
We’re going to show you some tips, tools and tactics to break free from that.
If your finances are not in order, your emotional level is not where you want it to be, your
health is not where you want it to be.
Mindset scarcity, when does it show up?
And what can we do about it?
It’s a fear and it really comes from when we were little girls.
The good girl syndrome.
For girls, if you got good grades and you did the right thing and you were quiet and
you were passive and you didn’t set the cat on fire, you were loved and revered.
It worked, it absolutely worked.
We take into adulthood thought that we’re always trying to please everybody else.
Yeah.
The abundance and the security comes from your own self-worth.
You are your vision.
Yeah!
And your audience can do it.
But you got to let it go.
You got to give up what you’ve always done in the comfort zone and get into the growth
zone.
Yeah that is number one.
Number two, you actually need to put yourself first and not feel guilty about that.
Just like when you wake up in the morning and go I’m going to eat right, I’m going
to exercise, I’m going to do what’s right for me.
You need to have the same mindset with money, I am going to be able to provide.
I am not asking anyone to sacrifice but I count to just like you empower people to make
those choices with their health.
I want people to make their choices with their money.
So if you’re the type of a person that saves a lot what are the pros and cons for that?
Okay you know what happens and you know the extreme saver personality.
That is a fear, it’s a phobia and actually it’s harder to get the saver to spend that
it gets the spender to save which is amazing because the spender figures it out right away.
Whoa!
You mean if I save I get bigger stuff.
Obviously you don’t want either extreme, what you want is a financial personality right
in the middle.
You kind of know who you are.
Are you a saver, spender?
I’m a spender.
When we are in a relationship, for some reason we always pick up somebody who’s the opposite
so you know what?
The strife begins and then we get so wed to our own financial personality we think we’re
right and therefore they’re wrong and the friction starts so you know what?
Talk about with your partner what your financial personality is?
It’s not going to be about the money, it’s about the idea of how you’re sharing it,
how you are?
Are you coming authentically to the world and you can change that financial personality
so that you are balanced right in the middle.
A joyful saver, just spend on the things that you want the way you want.
I have affirmations that I say about money and they work like literally I say in the
shower, money comes in easily and frequently, it’s like a tidal wave and I see it in my
mind, I feel it in my body I get goosebumps thinking about it and sure enough there it
is and absolutely and I do too.
We all need that because if you don’t have that intention you know what?
You become a victim to it.
Yeah.
And then the next day happens and then it’s this and it’s too late.
And I think that’s important because when your vision is strong enough, scarcity can’t
exist.
So if you’re anchored and rooted in your vision like you are with your life and what
you’re creating in the world with the books that you’ve written, there’s no time for
scarcity.
There’s no room, there’s no room in my life to feel that way, there’s no room in
your life.
You just have to start changing that mindset bad then you go do it, intention, plan and
action you can do it.
You got it.
Thank you so much for coming on Neale.
This has been absolutely incredible let us know, big thumbs up, leave a comment below
if you want to see Neale back on FitLife TV.
This is absolutely incredible and make sure you get her book Money Doesn’t Grow on Trees.
It’ s absolutely incredible and I love how simple it is and it’s really time to look
in the mirror and take a good look at what you’re doing and why it’s showing up over
and over and over in your life and make a change.
I’m Drew Canole, I’m Neale Godfrey as always remember we’re in this together.
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