A VIRAL
VIDEO HAS MADE ITS ROUNDS ON THE INTERNET FEATURING A WOMAN AT A
SANTA MONICA RESTAURANT LOSING HER PATIENCE WITH A COUPLE
THAT SHE FELT WAS DISPLAYING TOO MUCH AFFECTION.
SO LET'S TAKE A LOOK AT HER MELTDOWN AND THEN I'LL GIVE
YOU SOMEWHERE BACKGROUND TO THE STORY.
YOU'RE SUCH AN AIRHEAD.
YOU'RE SO DUMB.
YOU ARE
SEXUALLY HARASSING ME.
YOU AND THAT SLUT.
WELL, YOU ARE HARBORING A LOT OF SHIT.
I WOULD JUST LIKE TO ORDER.
WHAT YOU SHOULDN'T.
YOU SHOULDN'T BE HEARD -.
WELL YOU GO FUCK SOMEWHERE ELSE.
THIS IS NOT THE PLACE FOR THIS.
YOU'RE TRYING TO OVER SEXUALIZE YOURSELF BECAUSE I
LOVE MY BOYFRIEND AND HEíS MAKING OUT WITH ME.
YOU KNOW HOW
UNCOMFORTABLE AND RUDE YOU ARE.
YOU ARE SUCH A SLUT.
CAN YOU ñ I'M AMERICAN AND I HAVE RIGHTS.
YOU KNOW, GO BACK YOU RETARDED FOREIGN ASSHOLE.
HE'S MORE WANTED HERE THEN YOU ARE.
YOU LEAVE.
OKAY, WHEN I FIRST SAW THE VIDEO I WAS ENRAGED BECAUSE
FIRST OF ALL, OKAY, SOME PEOPLE
DON'T LIKE PDA.
THAT'S YOUR OPINION.
IF YOU DON'T LIKE IT,
DON'T WATCH.
THE BOYFRIEND WHO WAS FILMING THIS WHOLE MELTDOWN
POSTED ABOUT IT ON REDDIT TO KIND OF EXPLAIN WHAT HAPPENED
AND APPARENTLY THEY WERE BEHIND
HER IN LINE WAITING TO ORDER AND HE WAS KIND OF HUGGING HIS
GIRLFRIEND FROM BEHIND.
I DIDN'T KNOW THEY WERE SLUTS LIKE THAT THOUGH.
I DON'T KNOW WHAT TRIGGERED HER.
THE WAY THAT SHE WAS
ACTING, BUT MY INITIAL REACTION WAS, I'M GOING TO BE HONEST, RAGE.
WELL, REALLY?
YEAH BECAUSE, LOOK, I PUT MYSELF IN EVERYONE'S SHOES IN
ALL OF THE STORIES IN ORDER TO KIND OF EXPLAIN WHERE I'M COMING
FROM WHEN I'M COMMENTING ON THEM.
I THOUGHT ABOUT STANDING
IN LINE WITH MY HUSBAND.
WEíRE VERY AFFECTIONATE WITH ONE ANOTHER.
DON'T I KNOW IT.
ALMOST UNBEARABLY SO.
IF YOU ARE IN A ROOM WITH HER, YOU BETTER WATCH OUT.
SHEíD KILL ME, RIGHT?
SO IF SOMEONE TURNED AROUND AND STARTED CALLING ME A SLUT AND
THEN STARTED TALKING ABOUT HOW CHRISTIAN DOESN'T BELONG BECAUSE
HE IS A FOREIGNER OR SOMETHING BECAUSE HE IS CUBAN, I DON'T
KNOW.
I WOULD LOSE MY MIND.
SO I REALLY COMMEND THE COUPLE
FOR KEEPING THEIR COOL AS THE
MELTDOWN WAS OCCURRING, BUT I LOOKED INTO THE STORY A LITTLE
FURTHER TO KIND OF UNDERSTAND WHO THIS WOMAN IS AND I WENT
FROM FEELING RAGE TOWARD HER TO
BEEN FEELING LIKE, MAN.
GO-AHEAD.
NOW YOU BURIED THE LEAD.
NOW I WANT TO KNOW WHAT HER STORY
IS.
WEíLL GET TO THAT IN A SECOND.
CAN PEOPLE WHO DO PUBLIC DISPLAYS OF AFFECTION
BE KIND OF ANNOYING?
COME ON.
THE ANSWER IS YES.
SHOULD YOU FLIP OUT ON THEM IN PUBLIC?
NO, OF COURSE NOT.
ITíS WHAT THE WORLD NEEDS, OKAY.
WE NEED MORE LOVE, DON'T GET ME WRONG.
I'M NOT A HIGHSCHOOLER WAITING IN LINE AT MAGIC MOUNTAIN
MAKING OUT WITH MY 16-YEAR-OLD BOYFRIEND, RIGHT?
I'M AN ADULT AND SO I KEEP THE MAKING OUT TO A MINIMUM AND
THE GROPING TO A MINIMUM.
YOU'RE IN SANTA MONICA DOING THIS BUSINESS.
I DON'T ACTUALLY DO ANY GROPING IN PUBLIC BUT WHAT I'M
TRYING TO SAY IS LOOK, I DON'T KNOW WHY PEOPLE GET SO OFFENDED
BY HANDHOLDING OR HUGGING.
I DO.
WHY?
I DON'T GET OFFENDED BY IT AT ALL AND YEAH, FROM TIME TO TIME I
HUG AND KISS MY WIFE IN PUBLIC.
I THINK IT IS OKAY.
IT'S BECAUSE
THEY HAVE SOME DEEP-SEATED PROBLEMS.
THEY ARE JEALOUS.
LOOK, I AM NOT TRYING TO BE OVERLY
CRITICAL BECAUSE SOMETIMES I GET
ANNOYED TOO AND I'M NOT JEALOUS SO I DON'T NEED TO TAR EVERYBODY
WITH THAT BUT YOU KNOW IF YOU'RE LONELY AND YOU GOT THIS COUPLE
THAT IS HAVING FUN AND KISSING IN FRONT OF YOU.
I'VE BEEN THERE.
ITíS GOING TO GET UNDER YOUR SKIN.
IN THE VIDEO I THOUGHT
SHE'S GOT ISSUES, MAN.
AT SOME POINT, I'M NOT SURPRISED,
I'M GOING TO FEEL BAD FOR HER.
SO TIM FRESH WHO IS ONE OF THE EMPLOYEES HERE WAS LIKE, DO
YOU THINK SHE IS ALL THERE?
KIND OF MAKING ME THINK ABOUT MY RAGE BEFORE I REACTED.
A BUNCH OF LIBERALS WORK THERE.
BLEEDING HEART LIBERALS AND I WAS LIKE NO, SHE SEEMS LIKE SHE
IS ALL THERE, SHE'S JUST CRAZY, SHE'S JUST MAD AND BITTER.
THEN I WAS LIKE OKAY, BEFORE I GO ON AIR LET ME ACTUALLY LOOK
INTO HER A LITTLE FURTHER.
HOW DID YOU EVEN FIND OUT ABOUT HER?
I DID SOME DEEP DIGGING.
THATíS GOOD JOURNALISM RIGHT THERE.
SHE HAS A TROUBLED PAST AND THERE ARE PEOPLE COMMENTED ON
THE STORY WHO KNEW HER PERSONALLY AND THEY TALK ABOUT
HOW SOMEWHERE IN HER EARLY 20S SHE STARTED TO SNAP AND SHE
SEEMED TO HAVE DELUSIONS AND THINGS LIKE THAT.
LITERALLY.
IT SEEMS LIKE SHE MIGHT AND LOOK THIS IS SPECULATION
BECAUSE I DON'T KNOW HER PERSONALLY.
SHE MIGHT HAVE SOME MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES AND SHE MIGHT
NEED HELP AND IT SEEMS AS THOUGH SHE IS NOT GETTING THE HELP
SHE NEEDS.
WITH THAT SAID, I ALSO FOUND OUT THAT SHE HERSELF IS EMPLOYED
AS A CAM GIRL.
I CAM GIRL?
I DON'T KNOW WHAT THAT IS.
YOU'RE A LIAR.
YOU KNOW WHAT I CAM GIRL IS.
THE WOMEN WHO DO SULTRY STUFF ON THE CAMERA AND GET PAID FOR IT.
OH, REALLY?
I'M SUCH A NOVICE.
I DID NOT KNOW.
I REALLY DIDN'T.
BY THE WAY, THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING A CAM GIRL
BUT THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG WITH HER CALLING THE GIRL IN
LINE A SLUT.
IT'S THE OLDEST THING IN THE WORLD AND SHE DOES THE RACIST
THING AGAINST SO-CALLED FOREIGNERS AS WELL.
PROJECTION, CONSERVATIVE 101.
WHAT BOTHERS YOU, PROJECT OUT TO OTHERS.
THERE ARE TWO MORALS I WANT TO GET OUT THERE.
NUMBER ONE IS
JUST TAKE A STEP BACK AND THINK BEFORE YOU REACT WHICH IS
SOMETHING I AM LEARNING TO DO.
I'M GIVING MYSELF A LITTLE BIT
OF CREDIT FOR THAT BECAUSE YOU DON'T KNOW.
SOMEONE MIGHT ACT
CRAZY.
THERE MIGHT BE SOME UNDERLYING ISSUE THAT WOULD MAKE
YOU FEEL A LITTLE EMPATHY FOR THEM IF YOU KNEW THEM AND KNEW
WHAT THEY WERE GOING THROUGH.
MORAL NUMBER TWO IS WE REALLY
NEED TO INVEST IN MENTAL HEALTH CARE IN THIS COUNTRY.
IT NEEDS
TO STOP BEING A TALKING POINT AFTER MASS SHOOTINGS AND IT
NEEDS TO BE SOMETHING THAT WE
ACTUALLY HONE IN ON AND ALLOCATE REAL RESOURCES TO BECAUSE IF SHE
DOES SUFFER FROM A MENTAL HEALTH ILLNESS, FIRST OF ALL ITíS
EXTREMELY EXPENSIVE TO DEAL WITH AND IF YOU DON'T HAVE THE
APPROPRIATE HEALTHCARE COVERAGE OR THE APPROPRIATE RESOURCES
YOU CAN'T GET THE HELP YOU NEED.
I
READ ABOUT HER ENTIRE HISTORY
AND HOW SHE WAS THIS VERY GOOD STUDENT WHO WAS STUDYING OCEAN
STUFF.
OCEAN STUFF?
OKAY.
OCEANOGRAPHY, IS THAT WHAT IT'S CALLED?
I DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT A CAM GIRL IS, WHAT DO I KNOW?
SOMETHING MUST'VE GONE WRONG AND I FEEL BAD FOR HER NOW.
YOUíRE SUCH A LIBERAL.
I HEAR YOU AND THIS REMINDS ME OF THE
GUY WHO WAS SINGING FOR TRUMP
AND WENT ON A 45 RALLY TOUR WITH HIM IN AND FOUND OUT THAT HE WAS
GONNA CUT MENTAL HEALTH AND THAT HIS SON DIED BECAUSE OF THE
ADDICTION AND THOSE ISSUES AND WAS DISGRUNTLED.
OKAY, I'M WITH
YOU.
I GET MY DANDER OFF TO.
IF SOMEONE WAS TELLING ME
STUFF LIKE THAT I THINK 50-50 CHANCE THAT I WOULD NOT HAVE
REACTED WELL, NOT ANYTHING PHYSICAL BUT I JUST WOULD SAY
SOME THINGS THAT WERE HURTFUL TO HER.
ESPECIALLY.
SOMEONE IS ATTACKING YOUR WIFE AND
CALLING HER A SLUT.
YES, THEREíS A GOOD CHANCE THAT WORDS WOULD'VE BEEN
EXCHANGED AND I'M KIND OF GOOD
AT THAT SO I COULD'VE DUG DEEP.
I SHOULDN'T DO THAT AND THIS IS
A GOOD STORY TO REMIND ME OF
THAT BECAUSE REALLY, AND I'VE TOLD MY KIDS THIS TOO.
WHEN YOU HAVE A BULLY, THERE'S ALMOST ALWAYS BECAUSE THEY ARE
SAD INSIDE.
ABSOLUTELY.
WHEN YOU SEE SOMEONE LIKE THAT I KNOW IT'S KIND OF FUNNY
IN THE BEGINNING AND IF YOU ARE THERE, WOULDNíT BE FUNNY AT ALL.
YOU WOULD BE ENRAGED.
AT THE END OF THE DAY, WE DON'T KNOW
SHE HAS MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES.
WE WANT TO BE FAIR TO HER, MAYBE
SHE'S PERFECTLY FINE AND SHE JUST LIKES TO BE A BELLIGERENT
CAM GIRL BUT THINKS HUGGING IS A SLUTTY THING TO DO.
WE
DON'T KNOW.
WEíRE NOT HER DOCTORS.
BUT IF SHE DOES NEED
HELP, I HOPE SHE GETS IT AND MAYBE THIS IS A GOOD MOMENT FOR
HER TO REALIZE THAT.
I HOPE
THAT WE ALL CAN BE A SOCIETY THAT INSTEAD OF SHUTTING
PEOPLE OUT, WE ACTUALLY HELP THEM.