manny mua is the perfect example of taking a mental health break and
learning absolutely nothing what is up everybody this is Chris from the rewired
soul where we talk about the problem but focus on the solution and if you're new
to my channel my channel is all about mental health and what I'd like to do is
pull different topics from the YouTube community to try to teach you how to
improve your mental and emotional well-being so the end that stuff make
sure you subscribe and bring that notification bell and today's video is
brought to you by my book rewire your anger alright so Manny is under a bunch
of fire once again and in my book rewire your anger and talk about a lot of
things like quit causing your own problems
apologizing how to apologize the right way how they quit apologizing so much
because it causing your own damn problems all of that so if you can
relate to anything that may MUA is going through make sure you pick a copy of
rewire your anger it's linked down in the description below also a couple
updates I will have the physical copies of this book available on Amazon this
week so if you want to check back in with that everybody who wanted the
audiobook I posted about this I'm a community page and Twitter and things
like that but anyways I don't have the resources to do the audio version myself
with my voice I know a lot of you love the smooth sound of my voice but I'm
probably going to hire a narrator to do it and just get it done and maybe I'll
redo it later with my voice but it was a lot more complicated than just self
publishing a book like I did before so anyways that'll be coming very soon
as well alright so yeah let's talk about many MUA he's under a bunch of
backlash right now because what happened with a copyright claim he filed against
tea spill and for those of you who are new to my channel I'm not a drama
channel I want you to learn from other people's mistakes and understand what's
going on like I used to be Manny anyway I used to cause a bunch of
my own problems so to give you a little backstory for those of you who aren't
all up in the beauty guru stuff last year manny MUA had a bunch of backlash
last thousands of subscribers for some stuff
that happened with laura-leigh and Gabriel Zamora and Jeffrey star and
Nikita Dragon was kind of up in the mix so in an effort to kind of reset and
realized what he did he took a break from YouTube a mental health break watch
if if you will and so they talked about all the time on my channel is that we
need mental health breaks I should just filmed a video with my mom about
self-care and improving your well-being but here's the problem with mental
health breaks so many people do it the wrong way
and when many anyway came back I said only time will tell but I don't think he
learned much from his mental health break and what he's dealing with right
now is a perfect example of it all right so he came back you know he's been just
kind of doing his own thing and basically what happened was I don't even
know the names of this stuff first and he took the morphe concealer is a
foundation oh-so-close foundation and all that and people said
it was you know a fake review and there's all this stuff about it well
anyways tea spill is a tea channel right and she talked about it and she used
clips from Mannymua and what Manny MUA did was he filed a copyright claim against it so
what happens is as many thing gets all the revenue from tea spill and something
I tweeted about the other day it's like when when are people gonna learn like
you're like most of time like this is you know just a jerk move like it's not
gonna end well for you right so a ton of stuff happened a ton of stuff more
people were covering it and this has been kind of a big topic lately I know a
lot of you have wanted me to talk about Veronica Wang and shook bang because
something happened similar with that so I guess the first thing that we'll talk
about what anger management is like this is the reason why you don't do things
out of spite out of revenge it comes back and it bites you in the butt so
hard this is one of the reasons one of the many many reasons why Tana Khan
failed okay tannaz entire motive behind creating Tana Khan was out of spite
towards VidCon when you do something out of anger when you do something to be
petty when you do something to get revenge it doesn't look well alright
like we have to ask ourselves on a regular basis
I want to be who I want to be portrayed as what do I want people to see me as
what are my values right and and obviously tennis motives were messed up
but like Manny Manny he found that claim out of out of anger out of frustration
and all that and now it's blowing back in his face this is why this is why you
guys like there's such a misconception that mental health means a lack of
mental illness you guys one of the reasons I wrote rewire your anger is
because anger management is a huge part of mental health not having your anger
and emotions under control can cause so so many problems in your life we see it
happen on a regular basis me this happened so many times I have left jobs
out of anger I've left relationships out of anger
I've got into fights with friends and family out of anger I have done so many
things out of anger that made my life worse so whenever you're doing something
here's a great rule of thumb I do it with every single video that I create
check your motives check your motives check your motives check your motives
why am I doing this right so when I was talking about this
situation over on Twitter a fellow comic commentary not commentary but another
content creator talked about this and said they've been on both sides of this
they've had to file claims and they've had claims filed against them right and
again like that's cool like the copyright claim system is in place to
make sure people don't steal your stuff right so like for example when I started
blowing up with Shane Dawson series that some of you amazing subscribers told me
that there was a channel that was literally taking my videos and my
thumbnails and just re uploading them they were just taking them and trying to
reach up load them that's not cool so thank goodness for the copyright claim
system I was able to get those videos taken down right but when we live in a
world of YouTube where there's a lot of commentary and we're covering news or
whatever it is like just filing it for no reason it is a problem right because
people have the right to discuss situations they have the right this is
what they call fair use okay they have the right to do that so when you're just
being Petty and saying oh no I don't want it and you just go to take it down
like that's petty it's unjust and it's an in manage
situation it was out of anger alright so anyways many came out on Twitter
and he basically said this I'll put screenshots on so he's saying hey guys
wanted to come on here and address the copyright strike that place on T spills
channel I reached out to T spill and we resolved the issue and I removed the
strike place on her channel also guys I did it out of frustration and was
getting fat getting hundreds of hate comments people telling me to kill
myself and death threats over a foundation review I thought was good a
good job looking back I know I could have been more clear but people never
asked people to send me death threats alright this is like I can get into it
Mikey guys like the Internet's just a dumb place most the time people are
gonna say kill yourself you're gonna get death threats from like five-year-old
kids not literally five-year-old kids but
it's it's whatever like you guys one of the biggest rules of thumb that I have
is that flick causing your own problems I have an entire chapter dedicated this
in anger and rewire your anger quit causing your own problems because
so many of us we caused our own problems and then we play the victim right I see
people I see people online I'm not gonna name names but there's somebody who
comes to mind they they make these like sensational things to try to get viral
to try to get attention and stuff like that and recently they got a bunch of
public backlash and it caused a lot of mental health issues I'm sitting there
and I'm like quit causing your own problems and it was within weeks that
this person started doing it again and I'm sitting there I'm like did you not
learn anything did you not learn anything at all so you you ya you
watching this video sit back and ask yourself how many problems are you
causing on your own because we sit back and we think that the whole world's
against us why is everybody so mean to me I'm just this innocent little person
in the thing but we cause our own problems the other day I had somebody
come at me on Twitter right and then a bunch of my my fans or subscribers or
rewired soldiers right they came to my defense and they were having a an adult
debate right because I do not condone any kind of trash-talking threats
anything like that so I was monitoring this and people were debating because I
was staying out of right and this person says don't attack
me don't attack me right and I'm like what what were you expecting what did
you think that you were gonna come out here and everybody was gonna agree with
you right like here's what we we need to understand like not everybody is always
going to agree with us so part of our issue this is why I
promote mindfulness and meditation so much is that we feel so justified in our
terrible behaviors right like Manny mu a probably felt justified in doing that to
t spill he felt justified in that moment because
his head wasn't clear he was running off emotions we feel justified in doing this
and we think everybody's gonna agree with this and all these other things but
then when we get some Kody or we see that backlash were like oh alright you
know what I mean so it's really important that we get
this stuff under control all right but Manny himself said that he did this out
of spite he did this and a lot of anger which I talked about in the book as well
comes from fear right it comes from some place of fear and we get defensive
that's one of the ways that we we cope with the situation we get defensive
sometimes but what I'm saying is is learn from Manny's mistakes and when you
take a freaking mental health break for the love of God do something all right
all Manny did and now there's proof to what I assumed back then all Manny did
was take a break you know act like he was working on himself and he didn't he
didn't because if he did he'd have a therapist by now and he'd probably run
it by his therapist hey this channel did something you
really hurt my feelings what do you think I should do because no therapists
on the planet would say you know what you should do you should do something
penny and I guarantee the result no no therapist is ever gonna say that right
so like I've talked about in the past there are so many people who cannot
afford therapy they do not have the resources to afford therapy so when I
see millionaires like Manny MUA and other you know influencers who keep
living on their life by their own will their own thoughts their own decisions
and they're not getting therapy and then they keep getting this hellstorm that
comes their way I have very little empathy you have the resources to go see
a therapist and start getting your mind right and quit causing your own problems
like and and here's the thing - last part about this rant like you guys
wonder why I make so many videos about enabling
go watch mayonnaise comeback video his parents are some of the biggest enablers
on earth right because they're just like oh man he's just this man it's just that
like man he needs to go get professional help I'm not saying man he's like sick
or twisted or anything like that well I guess that's debatable depending on who
it is well his parents say why don't why don't you see a therapist why don't you
talk why don't you start doing this why don't you start working on yourself
right because this isn't just about Manny this is about you you might be
like slowly destroying your career that you've worked so hard on I don't care if
you're a freaking accountant I don't care if you're artist I don't care if
you work in retail I don't care what you do because if you don't get your anger
under control you're going to continue causing problems which are then going to
hurt you even more alright because the issue is and the reason why I talk about
this we all sit back and act confused how did this happen how did I get up in
this place right it's because we refused to work on our mental health so thank
you for watching this video thank you for watching any of my videos if you
have Sack through any of my videos it means that you are actually taking a
little bit of time to try to work on your mental health but like we always
say don't just talk about the problem focus on the solution I'm gonna be doing
some more videos on that because I'm getting sick and tired of seeing
comments where people are just trying to get the pity party and we don't we don't
play that here at the rewired soul start getting into the solution if you cannot
afford therapy come to learn our support groups on Facebook or on discord or even
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talk to your doctor talk to your insurance company see who they recommend
talk to friends see if they have a therapist that they can recommend my
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anger under control or you can pick up my book 5 bucks all right anyways let me
know down in the comments below how many times have you had your anger caused a
problem in your life alright how many times have you realized that you need to
get your anger under control are you going to continue to have problems in
your life alright let's have a conversation down below anyways that's
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