Dayna: You see a girl walking aroundwith a legit Chanel robot arm,
obviously you're going to look.
Like I can go like this. I can go like this, I can go like this.
I don't care when people stare because I know I look good.
On dating apps I'm very open about the fact that I have one arm.
Just matched with this really beautiful girl. And I asked her to come to clubs tonight.
I am a little bit nervous.
Is she going to like me? Bye.
Hey Nick, Hi, don't get this plethora of tampons please.
Sorry.
Okay, now I'm ready. Just kidding I'm not ready.
I feel like a YouTuber that's like a lot of you guys have been asking.
This is my morning routine.
So I was born missing my left arm. Like below the elbow.
My dad always says the doctor went 10 fingers, 10 toes, wait.
So I got a prosthetic like right when I was a baby
and my parents said I ripped it off right away and they were like, okay,
we're not going to make her wear this, obviously,
it's in her way. And I'd be like **** this,
rip it off. Don't use it.
Let go, let go, see like I am still learning to use it.
So sometimes she could be like a little Renegade.
This moment, come on, stop.
One of the most challenging parts of growing up with one arm
is when people would assume that I can't do things.
So whether it was like me wanting to try like a rock climbing wall,
like a school fair, like take a dance class.
When people would assume that I couldn't do things or needed help,
that really hurt.
I mean, for sure it affected my self esteem.
But I also think the fact that I was born this way, didn't really give me a choice.
A lot of people would just come up to me and like touch my arm
or ask me about it and it was never ever malicious.
But it certainly did make me uncomfortable and embarrassed.
I was prosthetic free and totally happy until I was 23.
And then I saw this prosthetic called the Bebionic.
So it's really honestly just a matter of open and close for the
majority of actions that are doing. Come on spin around.
And it looks more complicated than it is but it's really,
I'm just, you know, squeezing harder.
So that's another thing that makes this arm like a little more advanced.
is that I can, like lightly grab something
or tightly grab something.
And I need to clean it off.
Her name is Tatyana. My old arm was named Judy.
There she goes.
So I'm going to flex my muscles upwards to spin.
So if I learn how to move my muscles in different ways, I can go like this.
I can go like this. I can go like this. Tatyana is like a little slutty.
She really loves to have fun.
She would like definitely be doing tequila shots.
That's like her drink of choice.
When I didn't wear a bionic arm people will be like what
happened to your arm? And I'd be like I got hungry.
Like I usually just like use it to prank people.
with my roommates would like, leave it in the shower, into people's beds and stuff.
and like, put my weave around it.
Now it's kind of just like girl love your arm
or like you look like a robot and I'm like, yes.
I mean, I'm a huge weave girl.
I had fake hair since I was like 16
because I dyed my hair blonde and like fried it all off.
But I just oh my god, my straightener hasn't been on this whole time.
I don't care when people stare because I know I look good.
Yeah, I think it's a mood, bye.
You see a girl walking around with a legit Chanel robot arm, obviously you're going to look.
My bionic arm makes me feel sexy as hell.
There's just like something so kinky and like fetish about
being kind of like a femborg or like a cyborg.
Hi, hi.
Having a disability shouldn't stop you from having a good sex life,
even though some things might be a little different for you,
you are still totally deserving of pleasure.
I just wish that women would fetishise Me the way men do.
I would love it if a girl’s like that’s so **** hot.
I'd be like, yeah, like let's go out.
To grow up with only the narrative that you can overcome something
or that you're going to inspire people is really limiting and kind of like unsexy.
It's always the men that are give me a bionic *****, and I'm like,
I'd rather go to the dentist.
To open those conversations and it makes a lot of people less scared
to be curious about having sex with disabled people.
I think sometimes I get like sexual questions like will you use it in bed?
and I'm like, like, I'm too nervous because like, it's like, it's
such a fragile piece of mechanics. With dating my bionic arm is a part of it,
and I never hide it in any of my dating app profile pictures.
I actually just matched with this really beautiful girl.
FS: Okay. Dayna: And I asked her to come to
cubs tonight, and I'm going to drag you with me.
I am definitely nervous becauseI think she's so hot.
You know I’ll do like some parents impressions.
You know how that gets people going like oh, my mom says
'Dayna you better not take your breasts out.'
That usually you know makes people fall in love with me.
The worst was like when I went on that date with a girl
that kept calling me everyone [Inaudible].
For like the most part I really do love myself
unless I like eat too much salt and my face is really bloated.
So we're at Cubbyhole, my favourite lesbian bar in all the land.
I think a lot of people would assume that I get nervous before a date.
If they're going to react poorly to my arm, but like,
in reality, like I'm just like you like I'm worrying like,
does my breath smell? Like do my boobs look okay?
Like, do I look skinny in this outfit?
I’m a little bit nervous. being on camera is kind of terrifying, so we'll see.
Thank you. Cheers. Clare: Cheers.
I want other people to know that my disability
can be funny and can be a lot of other things than
just challenging or inspiring. Not cute.
Sometimes I get half price at the nail salon.
Like there are so many like little funny moments and being disabled
that kind of make the challenges worth it.
It’s like I'll have the balls to ask her out and then I'll
and then I'll just put it on camera. It's like really up to you.
the vampire look.
Clare: I think Dayna is extremely hot.
She's extremely funny and really, really talented.
It went really well. I don't think it's over yet.
Dayna: I hope so. I think I'm just going to go for it and ask at the end of this one.
Clare: There will absolutely be a second date. If Dayna’s down,
I wish I hope she is but I would like to hang out with her.
Dayna: I'm never going to grow a limb so I might as well ***** enjoy
this and embrace it and be myself.
As a child like, I wouldn't be so shook that all the
things that I thought would make me stick out in a negative way,
being gay, like having a disability are all the things that like make me, and give me a story to tell.