Hey, what's up guys, it's Victor here
And today we decided to ask Chinese girls a really interesting question
How should a guy approach them in Chinese?
What kind of phrases should he say?
What kind of phrases can you use in Chinese to talk to a girl?
And I hope this video will be helpful for you if you come here, if you come to China and try to talk to girls
And
Before jumping into the video, as always, don't forget to turn on YouTube subtitles, I guess
Because I think we will be using some Chinese here while talking to girls, so
And let's jump into the video
If a guy sees you for the first time and he doesn't know what to say, what should he say to you?
Give me your contact information
Give me your contact information?
For the first time when a guy sees a girl he should say "give me your contact information"?
Oh, the first phrase?
Yes, the first phrase
The first phrase...
Hey girl...
Please, wait a second
Hey, girl! Please, wait a second
Yes, you look pretty
You look pretty!
Actually if a guy likes a girl he would be very shy to say something...
Too shy to talk? So, a guy shouldn't talk to a girl if he likes her? Got it!
Actually, the interesting thing is that except for this camera we have other cameras shooting us all around
But these are not our cameras
These are just people shooting...like...randomly
Maybe a guy could start with "Hello, my name is..." and introduce himself to a girl
You should say you name first
And after it...
So, for example, I just say "My name is Victor"
Yes, and after it "let's exchange contact information!"
"Let's exchange contact information!"
Ah, "let's contact each other", got it
"I'll see you on the phone"
Ok, ok
We are shooting an interview right now
So...
So, if a guys sees a girl for the first time what should he say to her?
A guy?
I mean if a guy sees a girl and likes her, what should he say to her?
Who says what? I didn't understand
If a guy sees us, what should he say...
Yes, yes, yes
Do you think that a guy... Oh, let's go there
So, what do you think about... be careful...
What if a guy... For example, I see a girl and don't know how to talk to her, what would you suggest me to say to her?
If a guy sees a girl, what should he say to her?
Chinese guys in the Northeast of China are more direct...
So if they see a girl they can just say: "Hey, girl, can I add your WeChat?"
Oh, like this!
Be careful, be careful
OK, what do you guys think?
I think...
But we don't know each other...
Do you think so as well?
I think I haven't had this kind of situations... I don't know
That's why you don't initiate conversations with guys!
Do you think a guy should ask questons like "How old are you?", "Are you a student?"
Should a guy ask questions or just say like "Oh, you are so pretty, can I add your WeChat?"
Yes, guys can say "You are so pretty, can I add your WeChat?"
So you do think that saying "You are so pretty, can I add your WeChat" is a pretty good method?"
Usually guys can say it but we don't think it's a really good way to start a conversation
Oh, you don't think it's a good way...
Yes, I think a guy can use a better phrase for attracting a girl
So, what if you ask "Are you a student?" and then ask a bunch of questions, is it a good way to start a conversation?
If you see me, what would you say to me?
If I see you, I would say "Can I take an interview from you?”
(awkward laughter)
I would say, like "Are you a student?"
"What do you study?"
Yes
Yes, it's pretty good
"What do you study?" or "Are you a student?"
Yes, if you are on campus, you can ask about major, hobby - these are all good ways to initiate a conversation
Because I think it's too sudden if you ask for a girl's WeChat right after you see her
Yes, it's true
You can ask "What do you study?" or ask for directions, these phrases are pretty good, so a girl may respond well, I think
Yeah, and for those of you Chinese learners who want to start a conversation with a Chinese person
Not only with a girl
You can just ask some questions, for example
If this person looks like a student, you can ask "Are you a student?"
You can ask "Are you a student?"
You can ask "Are you a student?
Next phrase... You can ask "How old are you?"
"How old are you?"
This is the next phrase you can ask
What should a guy say to a girl if he sees her for the first time?
"Hey, girl!"
Just like this?
So, what should he say next?
"Can I add your WeChat?"
Actually... So, the interesting thing about this street market is that there are no foreigners, except for us
Can I take an interview from you?
Really quick!
Everybody is rejecting and stuff...
Look, look, look, that's so funny, they come back, they come back
It's just... we ask...I mean...If a guy talks to a Chinese girl...
What should he say first?
Except for "Hello", what can he say?
"Do you have a boyfriend?"
"Do you have a boyfriend?", just like this?
Is it the best phrase?
And what should he say after "Hello, do you have a boyfriend?"?
Let me think...
Would you be my girlfriend?
Hello, can I take an interview from you? We are shooting an interview
You have already taken an interview from me in the BBR club
She said that I had already taken an interview from her...
So...
Can I take an interview from you once again?
No, I have your WeChat
You have my...
She said that she had my WeChat (awkward laughter)
So this is when you know that you hustle
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