What's going on, Tripp Kramer here from www. trippadvice.com. I feel like whenever I talk
about texting, it's almost like a PSA, like a public service announcement because I have to
remind guys and I'm gonna remind you to help you out here about what texting is really all about.
It's like I have to convince you here and I'll do my best to do so. Texting is all about getting
them to meet up. Now don't worry. I'm going to help you with that today. I'm going to give you a
really great word that gets a response. And you're going to have to understand how to use it. So make
sure you don't just look at the comments and find the word because it's not going to make any sense.
But the idea here is you want to get responses and then use those responses to meet up and not
to get to know her. A lot of guys... and it's not your fault by the way. I totally understand.
People are communicating now so much through texting, through DM'ing, through Facebook
messaging, through Snapchat and it's all some sort of text message instead of in person.
We communicate here a lot. And then through all that communication, we think it's normal
to then flirt with her or get to know her or have full conversations. And listen, I've been guilty
too. You sit on your phone, you text and you get to know someone instead of picking up the phone.
So you think texting is about attraction. However, we are not wired as humans to become attracted to
someone over this thing. We're not wired to do so. We are wired to be attracted in person. Phones,
texting, this is all new technology. Attraction happens when you're in person, when a woman can
really sense who you are, get an idea of your personality. And all this is done through your
sub communications. The way that you hold yourself, the way that you talk to her,
the way that you use a downward inflection in your tonality so it's more powerful and
more commanding. All that good stuff. It's all done in person. I don't want you to use texting
to get to know or try to build attraction. Instead we're going to use texting to
meet up with her. Here's what I want you to do. I want you to use this word if you're having trouble
getting a response. If you're trying to get her attention and it's not working out.
Understand by the way that there's nothing you can say to a woman that's going to get her to respond
and then go "wow, I like this guy." The idea is, we're going to get her attention, we're
going to text her. But then after that, we're going to go for the meet up. Here's the word.
You're going to put "wow..." or ellipses. "Wow..." That's what you're gonna text her.
What this text is, it's a little gimmicky. It's a little fun. It builds intrigue. It
gets the person that you're texting interested in responding back. They're going to be like wow,
what's going on? They might throw you a question mark or give you a little question mark on the wow
if you're using an iPhone or they might say oh, what's up or what happened or what's going on?
You should also I should mention here, you got to have something to backup that wow.
If you just say "wow..." and they respond and then you ask them out, it's gonna be like whoa,
what just happened here? You have to have something to back up the wow. What can you say?
You can say something like I just saw the craziest movie. Or I just... you know X, Y, and Z. Really
any activity and it doesn't have to be that crazy. It's like "wow..." And she responds and you say
oh, I just did this thing. Or I just cooked the most amazing meal. Or I just saw the weirdest
thing on TV. Any action or activity that you did could be something. Of course you can come up with
your own thing. Maybe there's something that is a really big wow. But that's the cool thing about
this text message. You send that, it gets you to respond and then you mention the thing that's
wow to you and then get her to respond after that. And if she doesn't respond to that... well,
whether she does or not respond to that, right after that you're going to say "well, you know
what, we should hang out sometime" or we should hang out sometime, we should go grab a drink.
We should hang out some time. You should come over, I can cook some dinner. Whatever it is,
you're going to ask her out. You're going to say wow, she'll respond. You might respond one more
time after that and then after that you're going to then go for the close. Will this work 100% of
the time? Of course not. This is more for guys who have yet to ask a girl out and want to get them to
respond to a text and then finally go for it. This is more for those guys who are thinking like oh
man, I haven't done that yet. I haven't asked her out. If you've already asked her out this wow text
message, no text message is going to work. She's not interested. Which is fine, you move on and
you meet other women who are interested. This is a little bit more for those guys who are like okay,
I need to text her. I want to do a little bit of intrigue to get her to text back, to make things
a little fun. And then go for the close because I should have done that before. That's going to
work best for those people. And then you find out if she's interested or not interested. If you want
to know if she's interested, you're going to want to ask her out and then find out. I'm working with
a coaching client right now. And we were talking about the girl he was texting and meet up with.
They met up and they had a great first date and slept together. And then the next day, he texted
her "hey I had a great time", whatever. And then he said that she responded with a little thumbs up
on the text message. And he says oh wow, that's a really low interest response.
I said we don't look for low interest responses. The only interest we're looking for is if she is
agreeing to meet up over text. This blew his mind a little bit. This also made things a little bit
easier and less stressful. Don't worry about looking for signs. Don't worry about looking
for good text messages or bad text messages, the best text messages you're gonna get is her
agreeing to meet up with you, but then actually doing it. I want to hear from you. I know this is
not going to work for everyone. It's not a magic pill. There is no such thing as one of those.
I want you to use this and then in the comments below, I want you to let us know if it worked.
Meaning she replied and you asked her out. I want to see a bunch of these. Use this right
now. Let's see if it works. If you want to get some more really awesome text messages, I have "7
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