Would you like to know how to give your man a perfect blow job?
How to blow his mind and take him to the heights of pleasure he's never experienced before with anybody else?
Then watch till the end because I have some powerful tips and techniques for you!
My name is Helena Nista and I am a sex therapist and a Tantra practitioner.
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I fairly often hear from my male clients that they don't like getting blow jobs from their partners.
And that in itself should blow your mind because men everywhere claim that
there's nothing better than a blow job.
Or that even bad blow jobs are still a great experience.
I mean, someone is sucking your cock. Come on!
However, it turns out that many men prefer to turn down an offer of oral sex from their partners
and let me tell you why because this is something that I was very curious about.
It turns out that high percentage of women give very poor blow jobs.
I had to do a bit of digging and questioning to get to the bottom of this issue because
most men can't quite put a finger on what a bad BJ actually means.
So after questioning many men over the years - both my clients and my lovers
I'm bringing you all the answers.
Way before I became a sex therapist, I used to have this casual lover who was once telling me
about the amazing oral sex sessions he used to get from this particular lady.
I became curious and asked him about details!
It turns out that she wasn't using any particular technique or skill. She was simply really into it!
It seems that she absolutely loved giving head and her enthusiasm was making all the difference for him.
Techniques are great and I'll get to them in a moment.
But they really are secondary when it comes to great blow jobs.
It's much more about mindset: about your approach to his cock and your attitude about fellatio.
So next time you're treating him to some oral sex, I want you to imagine that you're making out with his cock.
Just the way you would approach a very passionate, loving, amazing kiss with your beloved,
I want you to kiss, lick and suck his cock the same way.
The inside of your mouth is very sensitive and can enjoy a variety of sensations.
So treat his penis as a beautiful treat you get to play with.
Don't do it just for his pleasure! Learn to love it, enjoy it and get amazing pleasure from it for yourself as well!
Some women can actually orgasm from deep throating. So let go of any resistant thoughts about giving a blow job
and give it your all so that YOU can enjoy it as well!
Which brings me to deep throating. A lot of men absolutely love it
so it is a skill worth mastering. Many women can struggle with the gag reflex when taking the penis
all the way in. But the more you relax your throat while breathing deeply, the easier this will get.
And the feeling of his cock growing harder and harder in your mouth while you're taking him in deep, is just divine!
This one might sound strange at first, but I cannot stress enough how important it is.
Most men that complain of bad blow jobs tell me that their partners just try to get them off.
And that sense of rush and pressure is in most cases very off-putting.
Many women resort to blow jobs or hand jobs when they're not in a mood for sex.
But stroking your partner for the sake of getting him off your back or getting him off quickly
just kills the mood and takes away the joy of this beautiful experience.
So do it for the pleasure of it... take your time and slow the fuck down. Or don't do it at all!
Forcing a sexual experience won't serve either of you in the long term.
All men are different and all cocks are different.
Don't assume that your current lover will enjoy everything that your last partner did.
Ask questions! Say "do you like when I do this and this?"
"Do you like when I suck your balls, when I tickle your perineum, when I lick your shaft?"
"What else do you enjoy? How can I make it even more perfect for you?"
Another little tip is to ask him to show you how he masturbates
so that you can see exactly his favourite speed, pressure and pleasure spots.
Men are very visual and like to watch the woman in the act of giving him oral sex.
Looking back at him while sucking his cock can be extremely hot for both you and him.
Be careful and make sure to cover your teeth with your lips. Even a moment of pain can ruin his ecstatic blow job experience.
It's definitely fun to keep your mouth moving up and down the shaft of his penis
but there are so many other things you can do!
Play with variety. Keep alternating the speed of your movements, the depth of your oral stimulation.
Don't forget that he's got balls and that they also adore touch either with your mouth or with your hands.
You can lick them, you can suck them, you can caress them...
Just make sure to check in with him as well because testicles can be sensitive at times.
Be curious, keep experimenting, watch his responses, ask questions...
That's the best path towards the most masterful blow job of all time...
Use your hand to support the base of his penis while you're using your mouth, your lips and your tongue
to play with the head. You can also stroke his balls, his perineum and his anus with your fingers
while your mouth is deliciously exploring his cock.
Final two points: remember that STI's can be transmitted through oral sex so use a condom
if you're with a casual lover. And gentlemen, don't forget that hygiene is of utmost importance
when somebody is giving you oral sex. Don't put her off by an unfresh cock.
Make sure that you're clean, particularly the area of the foreskin and the head.
I hope that you loved this video and that it gave you plenty of ideas. If it did, please give it a 'like'.
And please comment below with your best tips for a masterful blow job.
I respond personally to all of the comments and I can't wait to read yours.
Thank you so much for watching and I look forward to seeing you in my next video!