right and that i had an interview with diane sawyer uh... aim on good morning
america and she opened up about her uh...
relationship with chris proud and all the trouble she went through without the
domestic violence cases a really really
that interview and i think they it is but i what i'm looking forward to is the
diane sawyer fix all diane sawyer uh... does her very very typical facial
exposure and i i i am felicity yet but incase economy hama predicted this so we
get this in some poor
so let's see how it goes ok is diane sawyer with priya
since we saw that picture a person and any lead and battered women everywhere
tomorrow she will described in detail what happened in the car with chris
brown and it requires few weeks after she decided to go back to him it was a
mistake she says the and sent the wrong message to so many young girls injuring
the same thing
bucket bellows existed
and what he had a little stressful so powerful
sol-gel once of little girl from the kind highlander barbados she had dreams
your way into one of the biggest careers in music
starting at age sixteen really would have more number one songs than any
other artist in this decade in the multi-million dollar bank account indoor
smith deals a fashion star
and then one night her equally famous boyfriend chris brown
beat her so badly
the whole world was shocked to discover if there was a secret life
the honors his she was a shame and willing to speak until now with those of
us who thought
how could it happen to someone so strong
and stuff
this happened to me
tightening cosby's
i didn't really
this happened to me thank you happen to anybody their allot of winner-take-all
who've experience why i did
nine the public
start
immediately really difficult
despotic only got here cause my at a bit of pregnancy
just keep expose is something that
you know buddy
wants anybody to know
stall hairy and the whole world
plantation
because
lot people sir
thing and i have to kind of person i've found along with that person
fest embarrassing
as he does seem that that's the type of person
that i fell in love me
itself
far in that
saw unconditional
diamondback an average i think it takes a woman's seven times before she leaves
e army
actually
one that to happen
that's not what i want to teach people various but began people
i'm i'm a human being
and
people put me on very unrealistic pedestal
and
all of these expectation them not perfect
also it's pretty natural
for that to be the first reaction
completely normal took go back
start lying to yourself
many
the physical wounds galway eat you want this thing to go away this is a memory
dot one-half ever again tomorrow she will tell us what happened after
submitting bruised battered
and quite sure what back and what other girls she hopes will here
when i realized
my selfish decision for love
bruxelles
busse into some
young girl kitten
shields
i cannot
i could not be easy with that
attendant would be that pal responsible for telling them
go back chris if it if chris never hit me again to post to see
their boyfriend lol
who's to say that they want
chili's grill and these are
these are young girls
tuesday re-elect
how much
and impact hound these girls names
until that happens
until that happens there was a leak communism a cacophony
special length sort myself out of the situation
and i can see that any young girl was going to domestic violence
react off of left
f left
to come out of
the situation and look at it
thirty percent
and for what it really is and then make your decision
because bloodless self-reliant
uh... anna by
bikers you by like her but more
in at the part that i like instead hit
uh... the lesson
uh... the issues given other girls uh... inadvertently even
so serious
inaction it definitely felt gesture responsibility now to do that
and she seems very heartfelt here obviously
and so
that's very big dipper
and which is a vote on a human being is strode came from an island barbados you
want to get they insist that i mentioned i from
as far as i know from the prepare family that's use the payments that are et
cetera
and so she's gonna have normal human reactions
but she fought those
to get beyond acres about less than the that it's gonna leave another or
probably right and you know i realize why you like her so much more
because
she did not act out of the motion
she put her emotions aside i mean innale long-run ranging para motions aside and
she acted logically when cell and that's a very difficult thing to do as a woman
because women are usually uh... very emotional situations and had it's very
hard to kind of
ignore the way you feel toward someone when you're deeply in love looking now
let me at jumper america's his them is an important point
your of motions in your mind messes with you yeah like it business as a gradual
personal called cognitive dissonance
so uh... if someone intlo says is that your mind trisomy two things that don't
fit
into something that is logical right set out things that don't fit here are
i think i'm a smart person and i'm going out with this chris brown eyed selective
but then he beat me real back those two things don't match
so she's gotta make the match that's called kind of business
sewage mesa matches all will be he did it for a lot
uh... or it's ok it was a reason why he did it and i still love him i'm just
gonna sit with him because i love somehow them
mine rationalize is right and then you don't you nothing after looks
consciously or logically
so you think all my god
i love him and i gotta go back right but it's actually your mind fucking with or
tape it's it its
all things are going on in your head
so and it's a hell of a thing to fight that it really exactly right uh... in
the emotions elevated by perot's organize ok and so that's why did a lot
of times will drive you back in a really respect their strength
going away from right you know what let me say one more thing about that look
she takes her role as a role model seriously
well as a lot of other celebrities female celebrities don't take that role
seriously you know she didn't choose to be a role model she ended up that way
because she's a public figure right and instead of saying hi to choose this so i
don't care were you know what kind of role model and to these girls like other
people like britney spears we do
she's saying you know what people look up to me i'd need to set an example i'm
gonna do the right thing regardless of how i feel emotionally aren't there
um... as of the thing that i was thinking spiegel's she's going to go
saying that
uh... i wanna make sure that this again
can do with these little girls as you were just talking about
um... that's fine and will probably be home all evening when tragedy
but uh... because of one
are essentially at
i could sense from your look that you're skeptical about someone but i couldn't
figure out why yet what it would have to like she's been
and that is all speculation she is getting told us last minute you
psychiatrist she finally got help from a list
and in the approach it with you know your reality
there's two of your rosa dot t_ over sixty or girls who with the boyfriend
and that he's beaten up you have to stay away from this guy
because they're going to go back to their boyfriends yet to be a reminder
the missing in their lives
or their whatever kind of he's been able to and all that
we have to get affected your human
your a regular person right now
do this for you
but the home of the people right now don't do it because you have you been a
role model for them too because you want to get the anymore because you deserve
the net savalas and one of my sister could be thinking
this mess it up at the most part mission is to realize that emotion it start with
you first but we're buying the house and
you can be robot before you yourself to get a fuck ups level and you need to use
the word about them you have all different complex hit yourself
deal with it because it's better for you
we know that a few they'll be fine to have all worked out to start with the
self well you know uh... i'd of course i agree with both for them and for
yourself and care is a good point because
the concert i had listened to towards end of that was that
it's almost as if she still loves is she talks about and i don't do it for a lot
of f love
right but it doesn't you didn't quite seem to me that she got over it
and that i'm concerned the jazz write that
she's doing it for other people right but that in fact she still
has fears again it's a speculation i and you know i cared as negative point
because he if you pay paid close attention to the interview there was one
point where she says even if chris never hit me again who's to say that these
other boyfriends i can hit there
you know croats right so he's kind of already analyze whether or not he's
going to hit her again in the future
right and luck getting over love it is a very difficult thing it's not something
where you can say okay mind shutoff i'm not in love with that guy anymore it's a
fasteners bill magic one where you say
go ahead
now there's no magic line so it takes a lot i don't think that she's over him
come on
okay neighbors here some other good things and she said it happened to me i
didn't do it it happened to me
and it's embarrassing but it is what it is very so i like that
final two thoughts on it
the headline on this story was
arianna says who's been eight or nine times that's not what you said
that isn't what you can see a diane sawyer is that it happens on average
seven times before woman leaves he said no eight or nine times
on average is that he did
so if you saw that headline is not true visa solely on ice