- So you went on a date with him,
but you're kind of on the fence.
You're not feeling it.
(upbeat music)
And you're wondering, hmm,
shall I go on a second date or not?
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why you should give a guy a second chance even
if you did not feel the spark on the first date,
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So here comes my reason number.
Infatuation fades over time.
There is the saying love at first sight
or I feel butterflies in my tummy.
This is what infatuation is.
You are keen on the way he looks, he's handsome,
and he's just your type.
You got that spark when you laid eyes on him.
Most of the time when this happen,
you start seeing everything he does
with rose-colored glasses.
He can do no wrong and you definitely want to see him again.
You are not that worried about his character at the moment
because right now, he is your eye candy, but what happens
when you keep going out with him
and you become his girlfriend and you get used to his looks
and your routine sets in just like everyone else
and what you have left is his character
which you maybe failed to consider
because you had too much spark at the beginning?
Ladies, do not let the infatuation fool you.
The second reason is he is doing everything right.
So you met him online, he messaged you, he pursued you,
and you exchanged numbers.
He called when he said he would
and he asked you on a proper date.
The conversation over the phone went smoothly,
and you connected and had so much in common.
Fast forward to your date, you notice he's not the height
you hoped for, but he showed up at the coffee shop
before you on time.
He did not cancel the date.
He paid for the meal and the conversation went even better
than over the phone.
He walked you back to your car
and asked to get together again.
When you got home, you realized you enjoyed
his company tremendously, but you had no spark,
no butterflies in your stomach.
You ask yourself, do I go on that second date or no?
The answer, ladies, is yes.
Why would you not give him a second date
when a man treats you the way you should be treated?
Do not ditch him just yet.
Give him a few more chances.
What do you have to lose, okay?
Number three, sparks can come after months,
and I definitely experienced that myself
after I think even years.
Ladies, would you believe that you can start feeling a spark
for someone after a few months?
Yes, if you give a man a chance to prove himself to you,
taking it slow and getting to know him.
You may start seeing a side of him
that you can start finding very attractive.
This is how it starts.
It's beyond skin deep.
It naturally takes a man a couple of months
to really fall in love with you as we fall in love
through spending quality time with you.
This is when they will also be giving you their best.
Also, when you do not feel the spark right away,
you immediately become a challenge to your guy.
You're naturally not going to be chasing him.
This will put you in the high-value woman category
in his eyes, so it's a win-win, my queens.
Number four, because it's not the real him anyways.
Let me explain.
On the first date, most men will work hard to try
and impress you as that is his job.
They will say everything that they think you want to hear.
So most of it cannot be really taken seriously.
If you feel that spark right away, most of the time,
you will get sucked into all their impressions.
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to know the game, and if you want to learn games
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since it is what we do all the time, and ladies,
if you do feel that spark, do not let the spark take over
and let it be the guide that he is the one,
and here comes number five.
It has nothing to do with the relationship.
If you let the spark guide you into finding the one,
you're being misled as it has nothing
to do with a quality relationship.
As I mentioned before, the spark fades and then you are left
with a character and it is his character
and your common interests, his respect for you,
and his long-term commitment
that will determine the relationship
and not the spark that you have on your first date.
It is a very thrilling feeling to feel the spark on day one,
but it does not mean that you are a match.
People do grow on you, so do give it a good chance,
and for guys who are watching and you feel
like your girl is on the fence, like she's not sure,
I would just tell you never give up because we, as women,
find it so hot when the guy is persistent
and doesn't give up on you.
So ladies, these are my five reasons you do not need
to feel that spark on the first date.
I'd love to hear from you, ladies, have you been
in a relationship where in the beginning,
the spark was not full on and how did that relationship go?
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Thank you for watching.
Kisses from Manchester.