All right, the time has come to talk about "shirtgate."
Yeah!
Let's watch.
Here we go.
Hi!
- Hi! - How are you?
[LAUGHS]
OK, there is no-- there--
there's no way.
Just-- I don't know why he's playing this shit, bro.
You guys look good!
Nothing? [LAUGHS]
Mitch!
Mitch, why did you change your shirt?
That's the better option?
So it's going to be a thing?
This was a thing, and you kind of changed it.
Speak your truth.
When-- when you buy someone a physical thing,
it's kind of like you're putting that on them,
and it's a responsibility that they have to take on.
I don't really like to buy people stuff that they might
not want or didn't ask for.
To me, it's kind of materialistic.
I think it's weird to not wear a shirt your wife gets you.
[LAUGHS]
Why couldn't you just wear the damn shirt?
I don't want to defend it, but I think at the time,
I just felt like I was being set up for something.
And so I sort of got extra defensive.
What could that have possibly been
that you were being set up for?
It's less about the shirt as it is about the trigger
of-- of me being forced to do stuff
I don't want to do and being put in these situations.
Do you think marriage requires you to do stuff
you don't want to do sometimes?
Yeah, absolutely.
OK.
It really bothered me that he would think that I
would set him up for something.
When you ask me, you know, why we said "no" on decision day,
I'm just going to bring up things like this.
Mm-hmm.
To be honest, in your defense, actually, I also felt like I
was being set up for something.
You just took it too far.
Yeah, I just overreacted--
Yeah.
--and I just felt like I was being trapped in a corner.
It's a fun joke.
And it wasn't a controlling, "let's control our husbands"
kind of a thing.
We were just trying to have a little fun joke on the guys,
you know?
I know I overreacted.
Nate, what about you?
Your thoughts on the shirt?
I was clueless.
I-- I saw somebody, like, wearing the same shirt,
and I was like, oh, damn, like, you got the same shirt, too?
Like, I had no-- no clue what was going on.
So she just got me a gift, and I was like, OK, I'll wear it.
Does anybody see the irony in the moment
that, Mitch, you said you don't want someone
to tell you how to look, but then you wanted
to tell your wife how to look?
Yikes.
That's not-- you know, it's not like I did tell her that.
You intimated that you would like her to wear less makeup.
You'd like her to be more beach girl.
You'd like her to dress a little differently.
So you see that that is kind of like the same type of thing?
I wouldn't buy her all the things that I kind of, like,
would want her to wear.
I just would never-- I would never do that.
I think it's--
I see your analogy, but it is--
it's a little different in my mind.
That's all.
It's not that far off.
Are you proud of the way Krysten handled it?
Krysten is immaculate, and I think that's why
they're completely opposite.
Because Mitch is so direct and gung-ho, and Krysten,
she's more tactful and decisive.
I'm proud of her.
Thanks, boo.
No problem.
Lindy, if you were in Krysten's shoes,
how would you have reacted?
I'd be like, well, [BLEEP] you and your shirt!
[LAUGHTER]
It would be a disaster, so.
[LAUGHTER]
What did this-- this teach you,
and do you think you would have never, ever
presented him with the shirt?
I'm being tactful, trying to answer.
I was just very much confused all the time.
He wouldn't wear the shirt I got him,
but that hat he always wears, he wears.
So I just can't--
I don't know.
I never know what is OK and what's not OK.
I also want to talk about who came up with the term
"bitch" instead of Mitch.
- Stacia. - Stacia!
I mean, it rhymes with my name, so it's been around.
- I think it's awesome. - Was it you?
No, I understand it's been around--
It slipped out one day.
She-- I was like, did she just say "bitch" and not Mitch?
It rhymes. [LAUGHTER]
Yeah. I mean, that's--
I think it slipped one time.
--that's been around my whole life.
[LAUGHS] - I-- did that hurt you?
I want to ask you, honestly, did it hurt your feelings?
It did surprise me and it did hurt a little bit, yeah.
[MUSIC PLAYING]
I'm sorry, Mitch, if I hurt your feelings.
Thank you, and I accept that.
And I do act like a bitch sometimes--
[LAUGHTER]
--so maybe I deserve it, you know.
Just own it.