This video is about "Why I Hate Narcissists!" I'm going to reveal my fundamental reasons
behind why I despise narcissists so much... To find out more please stay tuned
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I got the inspiration to create this video when I met up with a friend of mine
who had endured narcissistic abuse his entire life.... his parents were narcissists... all of his
friends growing up narcissists... and even his ex-wife who he divorced was a narcissist!
He sighed in disbelief as he couldn't believe what he had to endure his entire life
but thankfully he eventually walked away from all these people. Unless you've truly experienced a
narcissist and recognize those red flags and what a toxic person is like... it's really hard to relate!
But not for me, I like my friend have endured many narcissists in my lifetime and it's hard to miss
these sort of people and see these red flags when they're actually staring blankly in your face...
I said to "God I really hate narcissists!" "Me too," he said "me too..." We live in a world where narcissism
is rising and not slowing down. We can blame the media... we can certainly blame social media
we can blame bad parents or absent parents or anyone and anything. And of course all of that
factors and all these things have bred the modern day narcissist = the sort of Kim Kardashian type if
a female or maybe a Kanye West type if a male and funnily enough those two ended up getting married
in real life! The truth is when I see young or even older people = I see narcissists everywhere... I hear
about them all the time and their bad behavior and you can even read it on the news! Narcissism
is not slowing down and as much as I would want the world to be all sunshine and rainbows and
everyone singing "kumbaya" sadly that's not the case. There are mean nasty and toxic people out in this
world and if you're not careful and you let them in they can destroy your life... so please be careful...
With that being said and after giving it some much careful thought here is why I personally hate
narcissists... if you're enjoying this video please hit the like button for the YouTube algorithm and
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Typically the rudest people and most disrespectful people I've ever met in my life
have all been narcissists (and I think you kind of know the definition of what a rude person is)
I was raised by my parents to be well-mannered, behaved, respectful and kind to others...
Of course I've had my low moments, I've made plenty of mistakes
but 9 times out of 10 I pride myself in being compassionate and kind to people...
Narcissists don't think this way... they are rule breakers... literally they will break the law to get
their own way.... they believe they are better than other people and are somehow holy and special...
they have no discipline, no decorum and absolutely zero respect for anyone else besides themselves....
If you ever want to figure out a narcissist on a first date notice how they treat servers and
waiters in bars and restaurants. Whilst it is their job to serve you food drinks etc
they're still human beings, they deserve as much respect as anyone else!
I grew up in hospitality (hence why I feel compassionate about this)
I have seen and known personally waiting staff all my life and they're some of the friendliest
most fun wonderful people you could meet! But narcissists treat these people horrendously... they
click their fingers...they don't make eye contact.... they make snap judgements...they talk down to servers!
A narcissistic woman I went on a date once did this to a waiter - she treated him so badly that I
saw him sobbing before coming back out to take her order... "How dare you treat that guy like that?!"
I asked her "Guy?!" she said "he's a waiter... waiters are beneath me! He does whatever I ask
and gives me whatever I want!" she insisted. So therefore in my opinion narcissists are incredibly
rude and basically in my opinion the opposite of me - who is not a rude person! Now speaking from
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Yes it might be blatantly obvious but narcissists are just toxic people! What's the
definition of a toxic person? A toxic person is anyone whose behavior adds negativity and upset
to your life! Many times people who are toxic are dealing with their own stresses and traumas -
to do this they act in ways that don't present them in the best light and upset
everyone else in their path. I'm 35 (at the point of me recording this and the year is 2022 for reference)
but up until the age of 29 naively and foolishly I didn't have a clue about toxic people and
how much of a detrimental effect they can have on my life!
That all changed when I dated a narcissist and had a serious relationship with several years with her
When I first met the narcissist (who became my serious girlfriend) not to exaggerate
I was riding high! My business was booming at the time, I looked pretty good, I was in
good shape, I felt amazing, my social life buzzing everything and anything was going well in my life!
Towards the end of that relationship (and I must stress I'm not lying or exaggerating here) here's
what happened = my business went under...I looked tired, drained, dreadful... I felt horrendous...I put on
a ton of weight... my social life was non-existent...I was arguing with everybody because I was agitated
short, angry and a mess! Toxic people can destroy your life and you if you're not careful
Good people (genuine healthy ones however) do not make this happen! They bring you up when
you're down and they grow together with you and mature with you.... if that's the path you're on... you
become a better person overall! Have you ever seen people you think "you know what when I'm with them
I want to do better! They inspire me to be better! Inspire me to feel good about myself and so on..."
Whereas narcissists are toxic and I absolutely hate that about them!
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You will never have a good honest genuine conversation with a narcissist
ever! That's why I hate them because they never act on what they say
meaning = I say what needs to be said! I risk everything telling my truth! I'll always
convey my thoughts, feelings, emotions... I'm not one to back down to anyone... Whereas narcissists
are so difficult and stubborn to talk to they only make things worse. Narcissists are notorious liars
and will play every trick in the book to make you believe the BS that they tell you! They're so
good and manipulative that even if you caught them red-handed with their pants down somehow
you'll still end up taking the blame! I don't lie... I hate BSing... I like to live in the real world!
Whereas narcissists are delusional and live in a fantasy world - one they insist and believe to
everyone else that they need to be a part of and that they're in charge of this fantasy world!
If you have like me dated a narcissist there's nothing worse than opening up emotionally to
them because frankly they don't care about you or your feelings or whatever you have to say...
You could be on your hands and knees begging for some form of understanding or empathy but the
reality is they don't want to care or listen. I've been there and that cuts like a knife trust me
also save your time energy and peace by never arguing with a narcissist because you're never
going to win! They'll never agree with you... they'll never understand....they'll never be compassionate
they're never going to see things from your side... they're never going to back down... they can get
really aggressive and they'll get really personal! They'll say really nasty things... you'll be like
"sorry i'm going through a hard time" "I don't care!" "Well do you know what my mental health
is really low...." "I don't care!" I absolutely hate, despise with a passion speaking to a narcissist...
it drives me insane because I'm such an honest person and communicator and they're just not...
The last reason I hate narcissists so much is frankly they just make your life
miserable and a living hell! Here are some guarantees = they will create drama... they will
create problems for you... they will create unnecessary amounts of stress
they will create animosity towards you and those around you... they will create pain... they will
create suffering... they will create resentment and frustration... they will create some serious feuds
they will trigger anxiety of course... they'll trigger arguments and utter misery
and the sick and twisted thing about all of that and more is like a moth to a flame they feed all
off all this as well! It's their narcissistic supply which is a drug they are addicted to
Think back to that conversation with me and my friend right at the beginning of this video - we
sat there pondering the awful narcissists that have made our lives a living hell
you will never meet a person who is genuinely happy and healthy who regularly entertains, dates
or is married to a narcissist! These people do not exist and if they're trying to tell
you they're happy it's delusion, a lie and pure fantasy! They make out all as well but really
they are lying to you! I despise narcissists because the more you let them in the more they
destroy your life and make it miserable...when life should be joyous, happy, peaceful and so pleasant...