Okay, now some of you, you might see the video title and you think this is cheesy Casey,
you're actually going to do a text breakdown and you're actually going to stoop to that
level.
You're also going to wear this Arctic tundra polar hat.
The answer is yes to both of them.
Okay, here's why.
First off, number one, here's what you got to understand.
You can watch every single video about masculinity and stoicism that you want, you can do all
this stuff on YouTube, if you can't apply it live in an action to the people you want
to date, the Companions you want to see, in my opinion, you're wasting a whole bunch of
time.
Okay, so for those of you who actually want to have a really good dating life, yes, that
would involve talking to the women you have interest in.
So today, I'm going to actually show you my Houdini level magic camera, I'm going to give
you my live text breakdown.
Okay, this is directly what I'm saying to her.
And this is why I'm saying it, don't let the hat distract you.
Okay, I live in North Dakota, and it's cold out and it's January.
So I'm wearing it and I spent a lot of money on this hat to get I'll put each interaction
each message up on the screen right here and I'll show you what I said all the way from
open all the way to number and how to set up date how to set up FaceTime all that stuff.
This interaction is about a month, month and a half old and I'm going to show you this
because it's been in my archive and I've wanted to record this for a long time.
So here goes get super cute girl I opened with what made pull up girl swipe right so
I called her pull up girl because in her pictures there's one she's doing pull ups.
I thought it was funny.
You don't have to have anything elaborate on the open truthfully, if you are seeing
women and you're matching with them online.
If they find you attractive chances are they will reply no matter how the open is.
So keep that in mind a lot of you you have to progress to being high value you have to
progress to making yourself attractive.
That includes having good pictures that includes actually building a good body that includes
having a good social circle like there's nothing that can make up for that aspect.
So keep that in mind.
I opened with what made pull up girl swipe right she goes Say that again.
Question Mark Oh pull up girl in quotes.
lol my bad read that totally wrong.
I go yes.
lol like your pic of you doing pull ups?
She was yes, I get that now.
Okay, so this is basic chitchat back and forth.
These messages are all happening.
I would say within probably 1020 seconds apart.
We're actually going back and forth on this app.
I heard her message.
She was yes, I get that.
Now I go.
Oh, Thank gosh, what made you swipe right on me.
Okay, instantly, you're gonna see that I get tested.
Okay.
Every guy will get tested, especially the more attractive the woman is, the more she's
going to test you to make sure you're actually high value.
If you guys thought you were cute.
Was it a mistake that I did?
Kay most guys hear a lot of times they would try to backpedal or qualify Oh no, it wasn't
a mistake, or they try to prove themselves to her.
I'm not trying to do any of that care.
So I go Yeah, one big giant mistake winky face.
Ha.
She goes honesty is key, I suppose.
Now instantly.
What I did here is I told her what type of girls I like.
So I go I'm into women who gym and look fit.
I like that.
Okay.
So the reason why I said that, that I'm into women who gym and look fit is because she
had a picture of her doing pull ups.
She looks fit, right?
She looks really healthy.
And what I did was I gave her like a bonus point or a brownie saying like, Yeah, I'm
into you because of XYZ because you did this.
I'm not just into you just because you're cute.
Like I'm into you.
Because it looks like you have some sort of lifestyle.
It looks like you are this type.
Okay, the reason why I frame things that way, is because girls want to feel like you like
them for who they are.
They do not want to ever just feel like you like them for their looks.
Okay, that's oftentimes superficial.
And if she feels like you just like her because she's hot or because of her looks, she's going
to want to run away she's going to not want to talk to you.
And this is just how they operate.
She wants to feel wanted, but she wants to feel wanted for far more than just like physicalities
or beauty because then she might get hurt.
She might get heartbroken.
She might be led on just for you know, just for you to sleep with her.
Don't do that.
Okay, so what you want to do is you want to make sure you find things about the girl you
actually liked that makes them them on the inside.
If you can do that she's going to be much more trusting towards you and want to actually
talk to you.
So she goes love the gym, my therapy.
I go so what's a girl like you on Tinder for exactly.
And here's where it gets pretty funny.
She goes, just a delusion or just a delusional girl thinking she'll find something worthwhile
on Tinder with a clown emoji, so go okay, define worthwhile for me.
Now here it's funny because she articulates exactly what she wants.
Now not a lot of not a lot of people do this right.
She's seems very confident.
She was a man who knows what he wants is confident but not cocky, is ready to settle down.
Isn't intimidated, easy and has goals a unicorn basically.
Okay, so she painted the pink except for perfect dream guy, okay, and I rewarded her for being
able to articulate it in that detail.
Okay, so instead of fighting her on that, or instead of anything, I went with it, okay,
I gave her like another bonus point I go, Oh, wow, a direct woman who knows what she
wants.
Okay, as if I'm impressed.
Once again, the frame I'm calling from his higher value case, she's winning me over based
off her replies, and you'll see how I take this even a step further and a little bit.
She goes, sounds silly.
I know.
And I go very few women I've ever talked to are able to articulate it like that bonus
points to you.
She goes, isn't that what life's all about having an end goal of some sort, rather than
going through random motions.
return return.
I'm in the wrong place, aren't I?
Instantly I go no, no, keep talking.
You're doing a good job.
Winky face genuinely impressed so far.
Once again, what's the frame I'm coming from?
She's winning me over.
Okay.
First, it's because she can do pull ups.
Secondly, it's because Jim has her therapy and she's fit and likes to go to the gym.
Okay.
Third is because she can articulate what she wants to notice each step of the way.
I'm basically leading her to feel as if not only do I have options, but also like she's
winning me over.
So it feels like a win for her if it only feels like a win for me.
And I'm trying to please penalize her supplicate to her.
It's not going to work out and she's not going to like that dynamic.
Okay.
So she goes, or excuse me, so I go, No, no, keep talking.
You're doing a good job genuinely impressed.
She goes, you use the correct your bonus points to use.
So now look at that.
reciprocation just happened.
I've used the term bonus points.
Now she's using the term bonus points.
If anytime a girl is talking to you, and similar language that you're speaking in, that means
she likes you, okay, she's fitting your frame and you're actually rubbing off on her.
That's a very good sign of reciprocation.
If you can have reciprocation and interactions usually means that the girl likes you.
Now, I forgot to read this part.
But you're actually going to see super important information in that text she sent.
She goes, I'm actually a teacher.
See, that's important.
I forgot to read that part.
But why would that be important?
Because the only person who would know someone's job occupation is somebody who actually knows
the other person.
So what that means is, you're going to notice if she is willing to say, Hey, this is my
occupation.
She's feeling like we're talking, I know this guy, I want him to know about me, I want this
guy to know about my life.
This is good.
If she's moving it slightly logistically forward for you as if you two already know each other,
and she's giving you insight into her life.
That means she probably likes you.
Okay, it means she's opening up to you.
So I forgot to read that line.
But it's also important.
So now show how to progress to a phone off the app, or go pro to me wants to actually
talk to you on the phone.
You seem interesting.
What are you doing right now?
She goes, I'd consider myself interesting.
Thank you.
I'm currently at my friend's house.
But I'm off of work for a while.
And we'll have lots of time.
Just to show you how interesting I am another time smiley face.
So she said she's busy.
I go love that.
What's your number?
I'll text you.
Okay, so she gives her number and I'll blur that out.
She goes, I don't throw out my number easily.
So consider yourself lucky.
Now think of that one interaction for a second.
I don't throw it out easy.
So consider yourself lucky.
Why would she say that?
Well, she's going to say that so that way, it seems like she's doing me a favor.
Or once again, she's trying to gain leverage in the interaction.
That is a test.
These are tests you have to spot because they come clear as day and you have to be able
to articulate them.
Now another thing too, if you're meeting women online, the first thing you want to do once
you get the number either heart the message okay on the dating app, so she gets a notification
saying that you got it and then texted right away.
Don't play this crap where you have to wait XYZ time or you're gonna play games, like
just shoot her text and say, Hey, it's me or hey, you know, blah, blah, blah.
I'll show you what I did.
So she said I don't give them my number easily.
So consider yourself lucky.
Women want to feel special.
So I opened with this.
You guys will love this.
I go I don't ask for women's numbers often so consider yourself chosen.
I go Casey, by the way, winky face.
Jen.
She complimented me on that and she goes smooth, very smooth.
I go well, thank you.
She goes you're very welcome.
I go save my number.
I'm sure we'll be in touch I'll save yours as sassy teacher.
This because she said on her bio that she's a teacher she teaches like preschool or something
like that.
So go I'll save yours a sassy teacher.
Once again, you can see reciprocation happens she validates it.
I show a screenshot where I put sassy little thing as the
the contact.
She was love it.
I'll save yours under undecided but interested in quotes and she goes kidding.
Now even that language play right there.
Think about think about that right there.
What does that tell you?
If she's willing to say, I'll save yours as undecided but interested?
What is that doing to you?
Like the fact that she's even able to articulate that and verbally verbalize that.
Most men are one over so easy.
Okay, they are so one over the girl knows she has all the leverage Cade they're just
super pleasing.
They want her so bad.
They're saying anything they're sending all these emojis and all this.
This fake romantic crap that turns them off.
Now here we have a girl.
Okay, where she goes, I will literally save yours as undecided but interested she's referring
to me as being undecided.
But I'm interested.
What is that doing?
I talked to you in a couple of videos I'll put the card right here on the top of the
screen.
That is called the what if factor?
If a girl sits in the what if factor?
What if he likes me?
What if he doesn't that right there is where chemistry and tension is built.
you're needing to have that for any sort of romantic endeavor that you go on.
Okay, the fact that she can articulate that says one thing Casey, you did your job correctly.
Gay you showed interest but you're not to pleasing K, she doesn't even know if you fully
like her yet.
Okay, she is trying to put up a frame to win me over.
So this is the interactions that you have to go through.
And what you want to do is you want to progress it out of the apps, you want to get it to
the phone, okay?
And you want to look at it to the next step of logistics.
And here's the example I always tell guys, guys say this if she had investment, like
if you're worried about flakes if you're worried about girls not wanting to go on dates, here's
how you got to look at this.
If she went on a date with her mom.
Okay, let's say she wanted to go grab lunch.
She had a she had a Sunday morning brunch date with her mom, okay?
What are her chances of flaking on that date or that time to meet up with her mom, chances
are, it's slim to none or even zero.
The reason being is because she has built a relationship with her mom, and there's investment
there.
She's invested in her mom, her mom's invested in her.
The reason why I FaceTime The reason why I want to make those connections with the girls
that I'm seeing or that I've talked to is because the sooner and the quicker you can
make it so that way they feel like they are talking to Casey Kay, insert your name in
that sentence, the sooner they feel like, Hey, I am making a connection with John or
Frank or Henry, the sooner that they feel it's like that.
And not just a guy online, the quicker you're now looked at as a real person, and you're
going to have higher leverage and higher level priority.
Okay, these are steps of escalation.
And to take this even further, here's what I want you to do, I want you to go down below
and I want you to check out the MBT webinar what I've produced over the past three to
five years okay with my inner circle is we've had 1000s of men learn MBT which is a term
that I've coined all the way back to 2020.
Now, which is masculine behavioral techniques, okay.
And what I've done is I've simplified these language patterns.
I've, I've simplified these conversations, I have simplified basically these interactions
down to specific step by step structure, and rinse and repeat processes that any guy can
use, and then any guy can follow.
And the reason why I did that is because I know that the stuff that I'm good at does
not come second nature does not come like it firsthand to most guys, to most guys, they
have to learn this.
And that's why I've templated everything.
I've broken everything down into an exact step by step science that any guy can come
into rinse and repeat, get results, okay, and learn what to say and how to say it.
And that is so critically important.
You know, over the years, not only with the hundreds or even 1000s of testimonials that
I've gotten, has this process proved time and time again that it works, and it helps
fix guys dating lives.
I mean, the cool thing about it is like it's actually easy to follow gait, regardless of
height, regardless of weight, regardless of income, regardless of like, who you are, and
status and all that you're still going to have to know the hardcore logistics.
And that's what I don't think enough guys are actually talking about is like, Hey, I'm
doing all this stuff.
I'm leveling up my life.
I'm on my purpose.
Casey, I'm trying to make more money.
Casey, how do I convey myself in a way that's attractive to women?
How do I speak the right language?
And how do I use the right sort of behavioral patterns?
So that way she likes me.
Okay, that is so key.
And that is so crucial.
Notice all of the layering, notice all of the lines that I was showing you play by play
of why I say them and how I say them, and what emotional responses I'm getting, and
how I'm getting her to qualify, but not only that, I'm making it seem like I am not necessarily
want over to easy.
This is all a skill.
And I'm going to tell you this, I've met guys who are six foot tall, gay 200 pounds plus
full of muscle.
They can't have a conversation with a girl.
They can't do it.
They're not good at it.
They get nervous.
They sit on the couch, she feels awkward, right?
There's not chemistry, there's no tension.
Okay, and then all of a sudden, you know what, she goes out he's he's hot, but I didn't really
like him.
Okay, and then you know, what happens is that guy probably the interaction doesn't go anywhere.
Let's put this in reverse.
I've seen guys who make millions of dollars per year still struggle with ego and insecure
Do you still never feel like they're enough around women and then you know what happens.
They're out taking these vacations are spending way too much money that they don't need to
be all because what they're trying to do is put on a facade that they are something when
deep down they're not.
And what I want you to realize is I want you to realize this, this stuff is far easier
than most people make it.
But you have to understand MBT you have to understand masculine behavioral techniques,
because these do not go outdated.
This does not go out of style.
This doesn't change depending on what new app or platform is out there.
And you know, what, I don't care what the latest and greatest trends are, when it comes
to dating or what people are doing.
I don't care what sugar sites or whatever the crap people are doing.
I don't care this stuff works.
And I watched this work every single day with my clients.
And because of that, I want you to go down below.
I want you to check out that webinar, I want you to see if it's for you.
And I want you to see if you truly resonate with the other guys that you're seeing on
that screen.
And I know that that that presentation alone is going to provide massive impact in your
life.
Whether you decide to come on board with us on that mission or not.
So I go Aren't you so funny?
If you have any saved send me a cute pic and I'll set it as your profile image.
She goes slow your roll KC patience is a virtue we have time winky face once again.
This is a test she didn't fit the framers she didn't comply.
I go while you're well trained a girl with game she goes a girl with game but not a player
a winner with another wink.
Okay, I go so if you're a teacher, why do you have so much time off right now?
She was I was an intern.
Basically, I was a full time teacher and had my own classroom, but was doing it for my
free time.
Basically, my last day today was or today was my last day I graduated college, the 15th
Then I'll have my own classroom again and getting paid this time.
Now one thing about this interaction to look at the length of her message and also look
how she is giving me more insight into her life.
So you can consider this logistics.
Kay, she's opening up.
This is good if ever they're willing to do this, right?
It means that they're inching forward the level of investment gave him here you can
probably even start to talk on the phone with her or anything like that because she's starting
to open up.
Okay, so I flipped the script on it.
Anytime a girl likes to talk about money or something like that, like she's referring
to her job.
I make a joke, right?
I'm saying something along the lines of so you'll be my rich sugar mama and you can pay
for everything including my truck.
They laugh obviously they're like haha, exactly.
Now I'll be fine.
Kay that she goes into more logistical talk of what she'll make.
Now what I'm doing here.
Okay, once she has moved it out, or once we've moved it out of the back and forth flirtation
and now we're into specific, you know, talking as far as logistics, I'm learning about her
I'm learning about her life.
Okay, what I'm doing now is I'm moving the interaction to logistics where I can FaceTime
or talk to her on the phone.
So that way I have next level investment so I can take her out on a date sometime.
So guys what I really want you to see and pay attention with this is that language matters.
Okay?
And language patterns matter.
Okay, and without proper language patterns, especially like in today's day and age, it
is extremely hard to make the type of connections that you need.
That is exactly why I created MBT and truthfully, that is why I make these types of videos on
a weekly basis for all of you.
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