- Can you unbutton three buttons from my shirt?
- Okay.
- Okay go for it.
- Virgin.
(laughing)
- My name is Britney Steffan and I am a sex therapist.
- I'm Sebastian and I'm the rock star of the world
aka I'm a drag superstar.
- [Interviewer] How old were you when you
lost your virginity?
- I waited until I was 22.
- [Interviewer] Was it special?
- Oh, no. (laughs)
- [Interviewer] Did you enjoy your first time?
- Yeah, everything was great.
Afterwards we saw National Treasure with Nicolas Cage
so it was a memorable night.
- [Interviewer] You're going to guess who's a virgin or not.
- Oh, lovely.
I hope they don't get mad at me.
- [Interviewer] Are you ready to meet these
wonderful people?
- Absolutely.
- [Interviewer] How well do you think you're going to do?
- I think I'm gonna do well because
I've prepared some questions.
- [Interviewer] Are they on your phone?
- They are on my phone.
- [Interviewer] Okay.
- So I'm gonna start off by asking you how old you are.
- 29.
- And then what's your sexual preference?
- I like women.
- We love women? - Yes
Okay, let me smell your breath.
- It smells like pussy.
- (laughs)
- Have you ever been in a relationship.
- Mmm-mm.
- Never been in a relationship?
- I've talked to people, I've just never, you know?
- Made it official.
- Would you go to a first date at someones house?
Or do you wait a while?
- Yeah, if I like them.
- Okay, yeah. I don't think you're a virgin.
- 29 year old that loves women is definitely not a virgin.
- I feel like you definitely been eating the box
for a while.
- Uh, no, I'm a virgin.
- You are?
- Yeah.
- What's going on with that?
- It's never like, the right time in life with people.
It's like I like a person, they don't like me.
- It's not like you're setting out to be a virgin,
you're keeping your virginity,
it's very important to you. - No I just feel like
- I'm not in a rush but if it works it works.
- So how would you lose your virginity?
What does that look like to you?
- If I allowed them to do oral to me?
- Gotcha.
- That would mean like oo, I really trust you.
- If I ate pussy I probably would be very skeptical
of whose I ate too, so.
- Right, because you know?
- That's make a lot of sense.
- Are you dating?
- No.
- What do you do for work?
- I'm a software engineer.
- How much money do you make being a software engineer?
- Like, 150,000 dollars a year.
- I don't think he's a virgin
because he makes 100,000 dollars a year and I'm pretty sure
any bitch would be throwing that pussy at them.
And if not then I will be.
- Can you unbutton three buttons from my shirt?
I'm consenting to this.
- Okay.
- Okay, go for it.
- Virgin. (laughs)
- [Interviewer] What's your answer?
- I am not a virgin.
- I'm trash.
I'm a trash human. (laughs)
How old were you when you lost your virginity?
- I was 19 but I haven't had sex in like the last 7 years.
- Oh wow, that's a piece of information.
That could change tonight.
My names Turquoise, how it's going?
- Uh, I have clammy hands.
- Fuck you.
(laughing)
- [Interviewer] Did you just make a pass?
- Yeah. (laughs)
- Oh did you?
- That's why you're single. - I haven't dated anyone
in forever.
That's why you're fucking single. (laughs)
- It's okay.
- We'll talk after.
- Right? - Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- Hi I'm Britney.
- I'm Colin.
- How old are you?
- Guess.
- 16.
Maybe 12.
- 12?
- Oh man, I'm 18.
- What's your sexual preference?
You like women, boys?
- I think I'm straight, yeah.
- He thinks he's straight.
That's what I thought when I was 12. (laughs)
- Did you date anyone in high school
or are you dating anyone now?
- A little bit not as much as most people.
- Have you ever kissed anyone before?
- Yes.
- Can you show me how you kiss on your hands?
So I can see how
experienced you are. - Okay.
- Yeah. I like that. I can do it like that, yeah.
Just I don't want to.
- Have you had time to develop any kinks?
- Yeah.
- Oh really?
- Do you feel comfortable sharing them?
It's with the internet.
- Not really.
- Okay no worries.
- I feel like he's a little sneaky.
Like he's taking bitches to the back at the parties
and fingering them and stuff.
(laughing)
- I don't think you're a virgin
because your openness to kink
makes me think you've gone past the vanilla sex
and moved on to some fun kinky stuff.
- You're correct.
- (screams) So when did you lose your virginity? (laughs)
Is that terrible to ask?
- No it's fine.
A few months ago.
- Oh really?
- Did you practice safe sex?
Were you informed about all of that?
- I did but I never got the talk from my parents about sex
so the internet was my teacher.
- Not the internet.
- Was it at school?
- It was in dorms.
Have you ever had dorm sex?
- I'm very experienced.
- Have you joined the mile high club?
- I'm not opposed to it if you wanna take me on a trip.
(laughing)
- Like I appreciate the offer.
- So, are you dating anybody?
- No.
- I've like dated people but not like
been in a relationship.
- How do you feel about threesomes with another women?
Would you be into that?
- No.
- You're not into that?
How do you feel about another guy?
- Definitely not.
- No trains are being ran on her?
- No.
- Damn it.
- Do you do foreplay and if you do what do you..
Like you know, nipple play, butt stuff?
Are you a virgin if you do butt stuff?
- [Interviewer] I'd say you're not a virgin
if you have butt sex. - Oh really, shit.
22 was not when I lost my virginity.
(laughing)
- Have you met anyone in person that you met online?
- Yes, like I would go on dates with people
that I've met online.
- Have you been to anyones house?
- Yeah.
- Overnight sleepovers?
- Basically.
- Yup, you're not a virgin.
- I'm gonna go with virgin.
- I don't think you're a virgin because you look like this
and you're not wearing a bra.
Are you wearing a bra? - No.
(laughing)
- [Interviewer] What's the answer?
- I'm a free nippled virgin.
- What?
- Man.
- Oh.
I am really good at this game.
- Why are you a virgin still?
- Well at first like, it was religious
I didn't want to go to hell or whatever.
Now that I'm older I just am waiting for like
the right person basically.
- Yup, definitely great to wait.
Definitely, great to know who you're gonna have
penetrate you.
(laughing)
- Well I wish you the best and whoever gets that flower
is going to be amazed.
- (laughs)
- Hello. - Hi, it's nice to meet you.
- Nice to meet you too.
- How old are you?
- I'm 21.
- 21.
- What do you do?
- I'm a stripper.
- You are? - Yes.
- Oh, that's great.
- You're a stripper.
Are you kidding me?
You're the coolest person in the entire world.
- I don't blame you girl.
I would do it.
I think its kinda fun.
- It's so fun. - To like get this money
from like desperate dudes.
- Also like, I really enjoy talking to people
and most of the job is talking to people.
- Oh, that's sweet.
See, you're a good girl.
I'm not, I'm a bad bitch.
- Have you dated anyone seriously?
- I've you know, tried and everything
but it never really ends up working out in the end.
- Because of the stripper thing I'm thinking that
you're not a virgin.
- [Interviewer] What are you thinking?
- I don't know, I think she might be a virgin.
- [Interviewer] What's the answer?
- I am.
- Yeah.
Ah ha.
(laughing)
- Okay.
- Why are you still a virgin?
- Intimacy makes me really uncomfortable
like at the very last second I'll be like,
I don't want to do this anymore.
Like I'm into the idea and everything
but more the idea than the actual doing.
- Well my advice would be not to do anything
that you don't feel comfortable with.
- Yeah I'm definitely like on that path.
- Good.
- Can I ask you questions?
- You can ask me as many questions as you want.
- Okay, fill in the blank.
Baby can you put your blank in my blank.
- Penis in my hand.
- Baby can you put your penis in my hand.
- Are these lyrics,
I don't know? - (laughing)
- Do you masturbate?
- Do I masturbate?
- I just wanna check all dots here.
- Yeah, no, I mean.
- You don't have to say it out loud.
I got you. - Sorry mom.
- (laughs)
- Are you single, are you dating?
- I'm dating someone right now.
She's actually my housemate.
Don't tell anyone.
- You live in the same house?
Separate rooms?
- Separate rooms so that's been interesting to navigate.
- Okay, I think you are not a virgin.
- I'm gonna go ahead and say he is not a virgin
and if he is then he won't be after today.
- I am a virgin.
- Damn it, Turquoise.
- You are?
- I am.
- You live with your girlfriend.
Why aren't you sleeping together?
- I grew up in a pretty conservative Christian home.
It still has some amount of influence over
sort of the way I think.
It's definitely like there's sort of a fear that like
I wanna have a kid so bad some day
but I don't want to have that kid when I'm in a place
where I can't provide for that child.
- Are you waiting for marriage
or just waiting for the right one?
- I think, I'm waiting for me honestly.
Whenever it comes it comes.
- Yeah, literally.
- Literally.
- So okay, how old are you?
You look super young.
- I'm 18.
- Oh wow, yeah you are.
- What's your type?
- Dark hair, dark guys, not like too pasty.
- Hella specific.
- (laughs)
- Do you watch porn?
- I do.
I was like really scared to say that for a while but.
- Sad. - Yeah, I know.
- Sex education is very based on boys
and what boys are permitted to do and what they aren't
but it's never really talked about with girls.
but I think it's positive.
- So what do you do for a living?
- I coach gymnastics.
- Can you do the splits?
- I mean I can like, tuck my hands under my toes.
Like I don't know - Let's see that.
- Okay.
- Love that.
- Are you single now?
- No, I'm dating somebody.
- Do you like him?
- Yeah.
- Like a lot?
- A lot a lot.
- Okay, yeah.
Is there anyone in this scenario very religious?
- My dad is from Yemen so he's Muslim but not like intense.
- You're such a fun size.
I literally could just be like, hey come on.
And I can like flip her.
- I don't think you're a virgin because how excited
you were to talk about your boyfriend.
- She is not a virgin and if you are then
we're gonna figure that out soon.
- I am not a virgin.
- Good, I love that for her.
- When did you lose your virginity?
- 2 years ago, I was 16.
It was consensual completely.
It was safe.
I don't regret it.
- Okay I love that.
- I'm Michael. - Hey, oh my god, hey Michael.
Your eyes are like hi ya.
- Thank you.
- How old are you?
- I'm 32.
- What's your sexual preference?
- I'm gay.
- Same.
- Okay. - Surprise.
- (laughs)
- Pornhub or Xtube?
- Neither.
- You don't watch pornography?
- Mmm-mm.
- You're rare human being.
- What's your background?
- Raised Christian and then my dad's side of the family
was Catholic.
- So we're 32, we're gay.
Bitch, if you haven't got no dick yet,
I don't know what's gonna happen.
When did you come out?
- I would say I was 28.
- I feel like since you came out so late
you probably were a secret sucker.
- Okay.
- The mouth was working.
- I think I understand what you're saying.
- I could you see being a virgin.
- [Interviewer] What's the answer?
- Yes I am.
- Yeah, awesome.
You wanna tell me all about it?
- My religious background.
That was always stressed to me
that you have sex after you get married.
- Do you have any gay friends?
- Yeah.
- I think a lot of them don't really understand it
but they're pretty (laughs)
They're supportive of me - Tell them
as a person.
- I support you.
- Thank you. - And I really hope
that you find Mr. Right. - Thank you.
- That's gonna break that back wide open and marry you.
(laughing)
- But not necessarily is that order, right?
- Hopefully, it's in that order.
(laughing)
- [Interviewer] Raise your hand if she got you right.
Good job. - That's not bad.
- Ah oh.
- Yes.
- [Interviewer] Pretty good.
- Okay, I'm happy with that.
- When's the right time to have sex?
- There is no right time to have sex.
Have sex when you feel like you
met somebody who you can trust.
- Is sex important?
- I think sex is very important.
It's not important to everybody.
It kind of depends on your sexual orientation
and your sex drive and what you're interested in doing.
- [Interviewer] Do you think there are any harmful
stereotypes of queer people being more sexual?
- Oh, for sure.
Everyone thinks that queer people
are just like raging and having sex all the time
but it's not like that.
I don't actually have sex as much as I talk about it.
You know that girl that like talks about doing stuff
'cause she doesn't really do it?
But then the quiet girls really the one that's
out here acting wild?
(laughing)
- That's me.
- [Interviewer] All right, good job you guys.
- Thank you.
(clapping)