>>> Today we're trying something
a little bit different, invited
some of Hollywood's most famous
exes to talk all things love,
parenting, relationship.
>> So excited.
Mom and entrepreneur, shares
27-year-old son with ex-husband
Will Smith, welcome.
Look gorgeous.
>> Thank you.
>> CEO, part of the cast of
"Hollywood exes" got real about
relationship with martin
Lawrence.
Welcome.
>> Making boss moves and married
to Eddie Murphy 15 years.
Share five children together,
Nicole.
Ladies, love this relationship
talk.
>> Welcome, first y'all look
fantastic.
>> Thank you.
>> Last week was Valentine's
day, talking about San Antonio
zoo, they have a revenge book,
right?
You could announce your exes and
name them after a cockroach, had
rats to name after them and feed
them to snakes.
People like to have fun but you
sound like in healthy space.
>> Watching the news, like what?
>> I have a couple of cockroach
names.
Not him.
>> We didn't marry the
cockroach.
>> You did it all and did well.
That's why we have you on to
talk.
"Cosmo" did an interview and
singer found out her ex was
dating Kendall Jenner was worst
day of your life.
How did you feel when your exes
moved on?
>> It was difficult because so
public.
I remember it was -- that was
the hard part, so public.
If you move on first, it's okay.
I think --
>> Different.
You know, being married to a
celebrity -- this is my issue.
I kept seeing him.
Kept seeing him on busses.
>> Hard.
>> Billboards, it was like arg,
you know what I mean?
Even with other ex, it was
awkward, see them move on stabs
you a little bit.
>> No matter what.
>> Then just hope it's good
person they're with, wish them
nothing but best.
>> That sounds nice, would take
me a beat to get to that.
>> When I separated and
divorced, I tried to move on
first, I don't know how he felt
but -- no, he didn't know
because of the rebound part, you
know, try to move on.
I think no matter, him or me,
probably hurt both of us.
I think because 16-year
relationship is it long time.
>> Of course.
>> I wished him -- couldn't wish
him well, I wished him okay.
>> There you go.
>> Fair enough.
>> I got to the well.
>> You just want them to be
happy too.
That's what matters.
>> Just not happier than me.
>> There's something to that.
Want them to move on, but you
want to be in good space.
>> Of course.
>> But you're right, it is
difficult for any person but
elevates that much more in the
public eye, everybody's up in
your business, got to be
stronger.
>> Plus Kendall is fine.
>> And then if they happen to
be --
>> Young, gorgeous.
>> Beautiful.
Stunning, so that is --
>> Older and less attractive,
you straight.
Right?
>> Something about that as
female, if they move on to
really younger, as I approach
50, I imagine that might hurt my
feelings a little bit.
>> Yes, I was in a situation
like that, I shamed somebody for
doing that.
I did.
>> Really?
>> Now I'm in same situation and
like it.
>> Younger?
>> Just pay attention to --
>> No.
>> No problem being longer as
long as I still live.
>> I know that's right.
>> More hot topics to break
down.
Including would you ever be okay
>>> We are back with some of
Hollywood's most famous exes,
Sheree Zam piano, Nicole
Mitchell and shamicka.
I can tell you right now,
wouldn't want someone kids to
call someone else dad.
>> That would kill me.
>> Helped raise Jasmine since
she was year old.
Out of respect for her, that's
mommy, sacred word for her.
Chose not to have her call me
mommy.
Respect for her mom.
>> What does she call you?
>> Micka.
When they have to take it, how
is that?
>> Trey went through a stage
calling Jada mom.
She didn't tell him to do that,
something he did.
Friend of mine called me, are
you okay?
I'm okay.
Because what I understand he's
doing is trying to find a new
normal.
So he's trying to fit in that
family dynamic, that's his way
to do it.
I did not take that personal.
>> Didn't bother you?
>> Not at all.
>> Sheree.
>> I think it would bother me.
I'm the mom.
You could call her whatever, but
not mom.
>> If she said -- told him I
want you to call me mom, that
would be an issue.
>> What's the line then, ladies,
between a great stepparent and
overstepping?
>> We do bonus, not step.
>> I like that, bonus.
>> Okay.
What is the line?
>> Communication.
It's going to happen.
>> Having the conversations.
Jasmine is 24 now, since she was
ten months, been in her life, I
think it's talking to each
other, having that conversation.
If there's an issue, you have to
communicate both sides.
>> Any jealousy?
Trying to put myself in your
shoes, come back, say I had the
best time, doing all this stuff,
just gets me right here a little
bit.
>> No.
>> I don't have problem with, in
good space, being great towards
my child.
That's what matters.
>> Completely different if
they're a hot mess.
>> Kid going I don't want to go
over there.
>> Alternative is worse.
>> Rather have the positive.
>> Right.
>> That's true.
>> And that's a sign they're
being treated.
>> Main thing, if you put the
child first in every situation.
>> Everything you do.
>> Take your emotions out of it.
>> It's important though to find
your girlfriends to you can
friend.
You have to heal too.
You have to go through your
stuff.
But when it comes to your
children, don't do it in front
of them.
>> Never let them.
>> Game face on.
>> Got to have healthy
communication with your ex too,
especially coparenting.
No matter where you are in
different places, got to be
united with the kids.
>> Of course.
>> Yeah.
>> I see a lot of women make the
mistake of putting their
feelings of what's going on on
the kid.
>> That's bad, yes.
>> Talking bad about the parent
to the kid, not cool at all.
>> I see that.
>> Leave those feelings to
yourself or express it to your
friends, whoever is close to
you.
Don't put that on your children.
>> It's a clear line right
there.
>> Absolutely.
>> We're talking to a block, do
you talk about sex with
girlfriends?
I sing like canary.
>> Kiss and tell?
>> Not --
>> If you're going out with a
guy and you're intimate, tell
him about it.
>> Kissing and telling.
>> Depends on what did.
>> Details --
>> What you saying --
>> I think girl telling too
much, girl might want to find
out for herself.
>> Too much.
>> That's what I told you, I
know girls like that.
>> You have your girlfriends --
>> Friend since 13 years old.
>> Yeah, but not --
>> Got to --
>> Yeah.
>> If they think too.
>> Want to find out for
themselves.
>> Very true.
>> Girls in the vault we talk
about parenting and being
married and love life.
>> I don't want to give my guys
the visual.
>> No.
>> But conversation, meet
someone, did you get some?
Did you get some?
>> Keep it general.
>> Right.
>> And then high five and move
on.
>> All right, guys.
Celebs like Cristin Stewart,
Kirsten dunst over pets.
How does this work with the
three of you?
Pet situation?
This is a big thing, would be so
hard.
>> What happened?
>> I got all the animals.
Soldier, sparkle, taco, three
dogs.
And that was martin's father's
day gift, I'll just take him to
be with the kids.
But day I moved into my house
after separating, found a dog, I
named her Dorothy, was outside
in the trash can trying to find
food, she was a stray.
Found her, couldn't keep her, he
took her.
>> You got all the dogs, gave
him the stray, worked out great.
>> It did.
>> I like that.
>> Dorothy now, that's her man.
He loves her, she loves him.
Sweetest relationship they have.
>> All worked out.
>> I got two dogs, one of them,
if someone said they wanted,
could just give that little
thing.
>> Bad right now.
>> Keep it real.
Get another one.
>> This stage of the game, take
the dogs, the kids, leave the
furniture.
>> I got the Guinea pig.
>> Dang.
>> Take it all.
>> That sucks.
>> I would have an issue if I
was dating somebody, they had
pet and had to share custody
with the ex.
That's a problem for me.
Now you got to keep seeing her.
You know what I mean?
>> Kids though --
>> Kids are different.
>> Let's accept it.
>> Give her the pet.
>> Parting gift right there.
>> Just give it away.
>> Dogs, as long as you feed
them.
Recently Khloe Kardashian's best
friend had baby shower and after
posted relationships don't work
out way we hope always, been
alone.
Only thing that matters, we're
good parents.
Only a little bit of time but
that's attitude you've got to
have.
>> Put the children first, you
have to.
With them being happy and seeing
you loved each other at one
point, still love my ex-husband,
we're a family.
It makes them grow and
appreciate who we are as parents
and strengthens them.
>> They deserve that.
Didn't ask to be here.
>> Exactly.
>> You ladies rock.
>> Got to come back every
Tuesday.
You guys are doing it.
>> Very encouraging.
Nicole, don't get a dog around
her.
Get that dog out of here.