Today's an exciting day.
I get to meet with a subscriber of the YouTube channel.
I had a cool guy from Vietnam reach out to me.
I said, “Hey man, let's meet up.” and that’s what we're going to do.
Also, because of the rain, Uber Moto turned into an Uber car.
Don't worry Dat. I'm coming to meet you.
I have met with a lot of guys in the past in the YouTube channel, but it's been a long
time which is why I'm very excited.
I'm excited to sit down and hear some of his issues and what's going on.
I hear you all the time, see your comments down below and I get your emails.
There's something a lot different than reading versus being in person.
We're going to meet in the Highlands Coffee, which is like the Starbucks of Vietnam.
Hello Youtube. Hello guys.
I want some of the guys who watch the channel to really connect with, who's going through
similar issues.
Tripp: You were saying a second ago that you found the channel because you're looking for
a girlfriend?
Dat: I was on the friend zone for maybe five or six years ago.
Tripp: You were on the friend zone for five or six years?
Who is the girl?
Dat: Yeah, she was the girl in my high school.
Tripp: Oh, the girl is in his high school.
Yeah, that's happened to all of us.
Dat: She has a new boyfriend.
Tripp: She has a new boyfriend.
She's gone now.
Dat: Yeah, I'm very sad.
It’s ashamed.
Tripp: Yeah.
Have you been able to talk to girls?
Have the videos work?
Where you at?
Dat: I'm studying in college.
Tripp: He’s going to college.
It is not a lot of girls there.
Well, there's girls here, over there.
They're downstairs outside.
There's girls everywhere.
Why can't you talk to one of those girls?
Dat: Maybe because I go to school, go home, play online, browse Facebook and Youtube
and I don’t go out.
Tripp: Instead of going and talking to girls in person, you go on social media?
Dat: Some girls are responding but not happy.
Tripp: Which brings me back to my original question, why aren't you going outside of
social media to meet more girls?
Dat: I am so shy with girls.
Tripp: We got there eventually.
Let's say we took away your shyness and we stripped you completely away from it, would
you be able to go up to a girl and successfully get her number?
Do you know what to do?
Dat: Yeah, I know what to do.
Tripp: Let me ask you something.
When you're with your friends and family and you're just joking around, being with your
yourself and relaxed.
Are you being the exact same way with the girls that you're talking to?
Dat: No.
Tripp: This is a No.
This is a really key point here is.
A lot of guys have inside of themselves, how to be funny, how to be cool and how to be
charming with women.
The only thing that's stopping them is this layer of shyness.
Okay?
A lot of guys are asking, “How do I do all these things?”
The crazy part about it is you already have it inside of you.
The reason why you're not able to succeed is because you are not allowing yourself to
relax.
The real question is, “How do I relax when I'm in front of a girl?”
Dat: Yes, right.
Yeah.
Tripp: That's the real question.
A lot of guys don't realize that.
They don't ask that question.
They're not realizing that habit inside of them the whole time.
They can't access it.
What you're doing wrong right now is you're trying to meet women on social media.
You’re trying to meet women digitally.
You're not meeting women in coffee shops.
The idea that I'm trying to get across to you is that you should spend more time physically
in front of women,right?
It can be once per week at a bar or coffee shop or twice per week on the streets.
Right now, you probably have little to no experience talking to girls in person.
Right?
Dat: Right
Tripp: In order to get more comfortable, you need to do it over and over.
The key is practice.
The goal is to be more comfortable.
You got to get in front of a woman and start talking.
Can you do that?
Dat: Yeah, I can do that.
Tripp: Can you go there right now?
Just kidding.
He learned English on YouTube, there's nothing you can't learn on YouTube.
Dat: Yeah, it is powerful.
We wanted to get out of the Highlands Coffee to somewhere more quiet and chill.
I don't have much time.
He is going to come with me in my Uber which is close by.
He’ll take a little ride with me to finish our conversation.
It's crazy outside.
We got soaked. You wet? Yeah a little bit.
Tripp: Do you know that I have a program, a course online called “Hooked”?
Dat: No, I don’t know it.
Tripp: You don't know this?
Okay, I'm going to give it to you for free.
Dat: Thank you so much.
Tripp: You’re welcome.
When you join Tripp’s corner, my private Facebook group where there are other guys,
we can talk in there every day.
Dat: On Facebook?
I don’t know it.
Tripp: Yeah, on Facebook.
You don't know because you don't have access to Hooked yet.
Back inside now.
Right when we got there, we couldn't open the door stuck because it was so wet.
Tripp: What advice do you think you could give to a guy who's watching?
Dat: I think the key to success with a girl is you must be confident.
Confidence must be practiced for a long time.
We must have this attitude when you talk to a girl.
Tripp: Do you believe that eventually you will be able to meet a girl?
Dat: It is possible for me if I try it.
Tripp: I love it!
Come here. This is Dat. What's your name?
I don't know what they said.
I wanted this video to teach you not only the advice that I gave Dat, but also to teach
you that you are not alone.
You have the same issues that another guy completely across the world does.
Thank you for coming today.
Thank you for allowing yourself to be in front of a lot of people and telling your story
and your issues.
I know that your issues are very similar to guys who are watching right now.
Hope this helped.
If you got this far in the video, which I hope you did, I want you to send a message
to Dat in the comments below.
I want you to say, ’You rock Dat!”
I want to see 500 of these, it would mean the world to me and to him.
I'll see you in the next video guys.
Peace.