- Allow me to reintroduce myself Hi, my name is Torry and for work I do my husband
I am great at turning billionaires into millionaires by just marrying
them I don't have an OnlyFans I have one only fan and an endless subscription to
his wallet I don't shake my ass I shake my husband's assets dating a guy just because
he has a supercar fu, fu, fu ... marry a guy because he has a supercar and boom you own half of it
call me a gold digger at least I have gold - So there you have quite a typical stereotype
of Eastern European women the gold digger that contrasts quite considerably
with the other main stereotype in my opinion a canard which is that East European women
are the complete opposite of those radical Western feminists they are 'traditional' women
but what does that entail is it true that's what I'm going to explain to you in this video
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So let me deal with the gold digger/scammer/hooker stereotype first now this used to be the
main stereotype about Eastern European women when I first started to come here I actually came to
this city Odesa, Ukraine in 2009 I had actually been in St Petersburg in Russia and in Lithuania
Latvia the year before in the Baltics also been in Poland I know Poland is not Eastern Europe it is
the eastern part of Central Europe but basically the same stereotype applied when I was coming
from the West I was in Western Europe living in Western Europe at the time it's like oh the women
over there Conor, why are you going? They're all gold diggers, they're scammers or they're hookers
and let me deal with the gold digging part first I you know what is a gold digger a gold digger is a
person who looks for a transactional relationship that's based on money or resources more than any
sort of emotional attachment or interest or love or any of those kind of things normally that's
stereotypically a woman because of female hypergamy which is the trend of women to
seek partners or mates who are on the same socio-economic status level as them or higher
and in general just women have less access to money by themselves on average across the world so
that's normally why we have a stereotype of women being the gold diggers and I would say that here
in Eastern Europe there is less shame in being a gold digger than in the West it's more socially
acceptable or less looked down upon in general and as a result women are a little bit more open about
it saying I want the man for money or whatever I wouldn't actually say in reality that gold diggers
are more prevalent here second thing the scamming while I have dubbed this city in the past has been
scam central Odesa Mama because the amount of romance scams that were going on this was a center
for the matchmaking business, the marriage agency business were stereotypically a guy we'll say in
his 50s overweight, disheveled, not the highest value on the dating market back in somewhere in the
midwest in the the United States would come here and have a bevy of dramatically younger better
looking women from Ukraine all lined up all dying to meet him but of course in general this was not
the reality, there was a huge scam business around it whether it was with the matchmakers but also you
know these women who are the scammers they are looking for their victims right so they would
go to sign up to marriage agencies, deal with matchmakers in order to scam the guys and have
maybe an agreement with a restaurant around here or they get to bring the guy and go shopping
with him and lead them on they could also do a via Tinder there was actually a bar restaurant
just up there that was notorious before this war the Russo-Ukrainian War expanded in you know
2022 I see the restaurant is actually closed and has been closed for a while because there are no
victims or they would just hang out at you know a nightclub that would attract a lot of tourists
and the main reason for that there's just so many thirsty desperate men from the West coming here
trying their luck with local women without having any clue about how the social dynamics
were here in Eastern Europe they didn't have any good guidance and basically they probably weren't
used to being scammed back in their home country and very open to it unfortunately when they see
an attractive woman this is a stereotype that's actually not just here in Odesa but basically
around most of the region and you can take it a step further I made a video on the Baiguzhanki which
are a group of women primarily from Russia that teach other women how to extract resources from
men it's kind of almost hilarious you know the chutzpah that they have and trying to get guys to
pay for all their stuff all the time so you have these kind of scammers and again I think the main
I think there's a combination of a few different factors like the the local culture being a little
bit more about women being less emancipated and guys paying for stuff kind of become you know
leaves a little bit more open to this and you have disingenuous women to try and take
advantage of it the main reason is especially with foreigners the number of desperate simps and these
women will seek them out because that's their main objective and then the third part of this kind of
immoral should we say stereotype of Eastern European women is the hooker stereotype now I
think because of socioeconomic factors and the fact that women here are in such demand
worldwide for their beauty definitely there are a lot of women a significant number of women who
do go abroad to prostitute themselves or here locally I don't really ever come
across it I guess if you're not looking for you don't really see it so much and definitely they
just in general if you speak Russian or another local language here like Ukrainian in this
country Romania, Moldova etc then these kind of women in general whether the gold diggers
scammers are the hookers they tend to avoid you anyways because they don't see you as a mark
you don't look like the low-hanging fruit for them but yeah you should be screening for all of
these things you will see you know if a girl has a suspicious instagram instagram is a great
source of information because then you can see where she's been hanging out what kind of profile she has a
lot of the indicators are there popular place to go as a gold digger or as a hooker is the Middle
East so for example that could be Dubai not that it's automatic if the girl is in Dubai
she could have other good reasons to be there but is you know a potential red flag and that
does happen quite a lot for those factors that I mentioned but in summary once you're able
to screen through through that small segment of Eastern European female society part of that you
know the part that is engaged in either being a gold digger a scammer or a hooker/prostitute
then you hang up the rest of the society which is none of those things so yeah let's
get into the more common stereotype I think that we found nowadays which is the 'traditional' woman
here so now the tradwife stereotype this has become particularly prevalent in the last I'd
say about five years here in Eastern Europe and it's mainly because of the amount of marketing
that's gone into it driven by either scam what we call PPL sites which are pay-per-letter sites
this online chat of some sort where they try to be the ideal tradwife for a lot of guys in the West
and they just basically scam them or it's actually the matchmaking-marriage agency-romantic tour
business here that pumps a lot of money into describing Eastern European women who used
to be centered again here in Ukraine but also to the certain extent in Russia, in Belarus,
Moldova in general and then you have I think a little bit more coming in
from the political side that well radical feminism has become a let's be frank about it a scourge in
the West and then the contrast to that is to talk about 'traditional' women see over there in
that place they're untouched by radical feminism because radical feminism is not a big thing here
in Eastern Europe so there are all these tradwives they're all there looking like supermodels and
pleasing their men non-stop and baking cookies and pumping out children and basically being this
complete polar opposite to women in the West or the radical feminist part of Western society so
this is obviously great marketing to guys that are frustrated with their options in the West
but the reality is most of these marriage agencies are basically pitching 'traditional single moms'
to you which is an oxymoron which is a really beautiful oxymoron to think about right so what
is the reality here let me start with the part of it that is truer than the other part and that
is that here in Eastern Europe women are less emancipated in general and as a result they
are more willing to sacrifice their career for example or what they have in terms of work in
order to focus on child rearing and maybe more domestic parts of the work that needs to be done
in a couple, also obesity for women under 40 more or less is very rare here in Eastern Europe as
I've also mentioned radical feminism not a thing here it's none of this 'body positivity' and being
you know 50 kilos overweight and been proud of it and yeah hating on men with like the radical feminists
that is definitely not something you're going to see in general I have other videos about this
about the obesity thing but under 40 more or less there's no obesity actually over it over 40 there
is actually a good bit of overweightness here in Eastern Europe but when they are
still on the dating market in general they are slim and trim so that part definitely has a lot
of truth to it think of it in terms of maybe what it would have been like in the West maybe in the
US back in the you know until the 1970s, 80s with second wave feminism as opposed to third
and fourth wave feminism which is radical feminism that would be where the society is more or less
and also she remembered that Eastern Europe was quite big you have the Caucuses for example which is a lot
more conservative and really traditional and then you have places like Ukraine,
Poland as I said Central Europe but the eastern part of Central Europe, the Baltics, Belarus, Russia
which are a lot more liberal I would say and less traditional than you're gonna find maybe also in
parts of Central Asia, Kazakhstan big cities like Almaty and Astana where I've been are less traditional
than you're going to find out obviously in the countryside and that's another thing
there's obviously as you'd expect a difference in terms of being more traditional the older people are
and also more rural they are as opposed to living in a big city which tends to be more
modern in mindset here is the bad news for all of you who have been roped in by the 'traditional'
Eastern European wife marketing you want to know what the divorce rate is in Eastern Europe?
It's higher than in the West because that's one of the big things that guys pushing that oh the
West are ruined look at the divorce rate look at the number of single moms
they don't even have an incentive in family law here to get divorced
and it's over 55 percent right just basically the whole region
in terms of like what's normally marketed like Ukraine and Russia and Belarus on top of that
number of children fertility rate lower than in the West it's 1.3 as a generalization around here
most of the West is somewhere between 1.5 and 2 that's not great that's a problem in terms of
the you know regenerating the population but 1.3 here so they're not having large families either and
they're getting divorced which means they normally the typical single mom has one child maximum two
and she's probably in her early 30s when she's divorced I did mention there are other parts
that are more conservative or more traditional the exact traditional that would be that well
sexual promiscuity is low and actually that women get married as a virgin or they're in they have
a body count use the new expression of one for life and you'd find that in say the Caucasus
it's a lot more common but you know I looked online because a lot of guys have asked me for info on
this under other videos I couldn't find stats for Ukraine but I found them for Russia in the
Moscow Times and it claimed that 40 percent of Russian girls lose their virginity before the age
of 15 and the age of consent in Russia is 16 right so wow is that a traditional society? Well probably
not what most people would think and my purpose in bringing this up is not to shame women or say
that they're not traditional they're all whores or something it's just to point out that this
traditional stereotype doesn't really hold water so if you are thinking that you're gonna just rock
up here in Eastern Europe and you're gonna go to a 'traditional' society that's a misnomer do I think
it's less woke woke is not even a thing here but it is not a traditional society it's actually one
of the reasons I like it a lot because I don't want to live in a society like I don't know
Afghanistan and the Taliban looks pretty traditional to me not very attractive you know what in
the past I've actually challenged some of my consulting clients who said they were looking for
a 'traditional' woman to come with me to Armenia for free in fact you know how many took me up in it
zero why well they're not as famed for their beauty and
they really do want to stay virgins until they get married in general so that wasn't very attractive
to these guys but we didn't have something we could agree on that is that in general the
women of Eastern Europe are on average a lot more beautiful than women in the West so regardless
of whether you think that they're 'traditional' or that they're 'gold diggers' there's a reason
why so many men in the West are interested in women from Eastern Europe and especially in coming
here meeting someone I guess in the past they were trying to bring the women back to the West which
for me just sounds like a terrible idea if you're trying to escape the West why bring a woman back
especially with family law in the West and actually anecdotally I talked to a guy who
used to have a Russian wife in Canada and he was in a group of Canadians that had women had wives
from Eastern Europe this is like maybe 15 years ago and asked him well after a couple years how
many of them are still together? He said well less than 20% because when they got there and
realized how family law works and they already had their they already had their residency the
guy kind of became superfluous to requirements so what I recommend is if you can do it then set up
your lifestyle to come here to Eastern Europe so you don't have to deal with all that hassle
so regardless of where you lie in this debate perhaps a little bit semantic at times about
what the stereotypical Eastern European woman should be the traditional tradwife or actually
a just money grabbing gold digger I think we can all agree that Eastern European women in general
are the most beautiful in the world this is the region in my opinion having traveled to around 100
countries where I have seen consistently the most beautiful in my opinion of course and if you want
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