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MIA: What's wrong?
I don't want to ruin this trip,
but I talked to Dave this morning,
and he told me something that really upset me, so--
I have a lot of built up resentment towards Mia.
I was talking to Dave, and he told me
that you said I kicked you out.
You did. You told me to leave.
But that's-- but that was-- you said you were uncomfortable
and you were leaving first.
And then I said, well, if you don't want to be here,
then you can leave.
But in your mind, you're telling everybody
else Tristan kicked me out.
MIA: This is just crazy.
Tristan and I had a heated conversation,
and started packing up my stuff and literally threw me out
like it was nothing.
Oh, you can keep that.
TRISTAN: OK.
I'm trying not to cry, but now I have all my stuff.
This is literally what he just did.
All my stuff is out.
He literally just put all my stuff out,
and he doesn't care, as you can see.
See how easily he just slammed the door.
TRISTAN: The perception was I make
all the decisions without her.
She doesn't feel like she has a voice.
I take out my frustrations out on her.
And I kicked her out because I was unhappy with who
she was as a wife.
And it's all-- that's all bull--bull--[beep]..
I'm trying to keep cool.
You have a perception on things.
I have a perception on things.
Other people have perception on things.
Blah, blah, blah.
But the stories that you say happen
don't happen how they really happen.
To me, you left, and it hurts.
Mia paints a picture that she is the victim almost each time,
and it makes me feel pissed off.
Because, once again, she goes back
to that place of being passive aggressive,
trying to throw me under the bus.
See, that's why I'm saying you twist.
You twist stories.
You make me look like a monster, and that's crap.
Because, now, that's why I said it makes
me look like the bad husband.
That hurts.
Because I've had your back from day one.
You're so consumed on--
"Oh, oh, my goodness.
You kicked me out," or whatever.
"You didn't just stop me from leaving."
You expect me to have the perfect--
That's where I could say that you're hiding
feelings [inaudible].
But you expect me to have the perfect reaction
to every situation. - No, I'm not.
You've never had the perfect reaction to any situa-- like--
Really?
Yeah, you haven't had the perfect reaction.
The perfect reaction-- so from the beginning,
when I was told you were a stalker,
and the reaction was to choose to believe I saw
something different and stayed by you,
that wasn't a perfect reaction?
I wasn't there for that.
You're right.
Since you weren't there for that, it doesn't matter.
I was there for the aftermath. (SIGHING) Oh, gosh.
Here we go again.
I just feel like we're talking in circles
and bringing up a lot of things that have happened in the past
that I thought we were over.
My whole thing is that you don't have my back.
That's-- - How?
If I say that everybody has different perceptions,
how is that not having your back?
I wasn't the one at girls night, or whatever,
saying all this stuff, like I'm criticizing you.
Trust me, it doesn't feel good to--
OK.
--have all my stuff moved out.
It doesn't feel good.
It wasn't moved out.
You left.
And again, that's perception.
I'm feeling betrayed, because Tristan
and I committed to each other that we
would work through our ups and downs in our arguments.
And I'm starting to think that that's not the case, that he's
wanting out of this marriage.
However you take it is on you.
I feel disrespected.
I feel like my voice isn't being heard.
I'm sick and tired of being sick and tired
of the same petty arguments, the same lessons
that we aren't learning.
We're failing the same test over and over and over again.
And I'm tired of it.
And you're just so disappointed.
Oh, I know.