- If you feel like you're really small maybe you are.
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- I'm Dr. Lisa Masterson,
and I'm an obstetrician and gynecologist.
- My name is Dr. Kia Michel from Comprehensive Urology.
I'm a urologist.
- I deal with everything women and men as it involves
relationships and sex and fertility.
- Today we're going to answer
Google's most popular sex questions.
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It depends by what you mean by that.
So you can certainly have peeling on the outside,
you can have peeling on the inside.
- It might be discharge, it might be shedding layers.
That's something you definitely want to see a doctor about.
- If you haven't, you also want to make sure
that there's no history of diabetes
or you're developing diabetes.
- That could be a reaction to a lotion or a soap,
sort of a toxic irritant, but it does need to be checked out
because nobody wants to walk around with a peeling vagina.
If the lips are swollen then that's definitely
not a good thing because you're walking around
with something that's uncomfortable and protruding.
- So the inflammation can come about because of trauma.
Vigorous intercourse or penetration
or vigorous even external rubbing.
- It could Bartholin's cyst or a Bartholin's abcess.
Those things need to be drained by a doctor.
If your vagina or the lips again are swollen,
something you need to see your doctor about.
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- What happened before the penis started bleeding?
- If you have an STD that could be another issue.
- You can kinda break up the penis
into several different segments.
One if the urethra.
If there's blood coming out of there
then there's been some trauma to the urethra itself.
If the urine itself is bloody
you've got to make sure that
there's something more serious that's not happening,
and then there's the external penile skin.
You're not going to have too many issues
why the penis is bleeding apart from some form of trauma.
Sometimes self-inflicted, sometimes with a partner,
sometimes by a foreign object.
Why is my penis small?
That's one of the most commonly asked
questions that we have.
- I know every guy has a thing about their penis,
and really they want to know how
a woman's going to react to it.
- Turns out that most men are roughly about the same size
in terms of length which is about six inches.
We all see these pictures in the porn magazines,
and that may be outside of normal.
- Most men fit within that average
of roughly about six inches.
So if you feel like you're small,
you may not be as small as you think.
You may be very very much normal, very average.
- It's like breasts come in different
shapes and sizes, so do penises.
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Oh my god, women have such issues with having sex
on their period, and it may be their partner.
Some are squeamish, some don't want
it to look like a crime scene afterwards.
- If that's something you're comfortable
with and your partner is, sure.
- It can be the time where women have the most orgasms
because they're well-lubricated, they're relaxed,
all those hormones are let down,
and people should welcome and be good with it,
and then put down a lot of towels.
- you can still get pregnant so be careful.
If you're going to do that you still need
to use some form of protection.
- That's kind of a judgment call,
and I think it's really up to the person.
You have to decide what's comfortable for you,
and I think that's really the answer.
- For most women who have a urinary tract infection
if you have intercourse it hurts a lot more, so wait.
- So there's also called honeymoon cystitis
which is actually a bladder infection
you may get on your honeymoon if you have sex
for the first time, and I will tell you,
because I had it, you cannot have sex.
- Nothing's that urgent.
If you can just give yourself a few days of antibiotics,
make sure the infection's completely riddled of,
you're in a much much better place.
- Any infections you want to get cleared up
before you have intercourse.
I would imagine what you mean by that
is that you're hymen stayed intact,
and typically it breaks during intercourse
for the first time, but that doesn't necessarily have to be.
- It's also possible that the partner
was so small that that didn't occur,
but that's very very rare for that to happen.
- The hymenal ring can actually
even burst without intercourse.
So it doesn't really matter if it's there or not.
It's okay as long as it's not causing you discomfort.
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Okay, so you had sex and now you're peeing blood.
That's not a good thing.
- Most likely you have a urinary tract infection
which causes a lot of inflammation inside the bladder.
Go to your physician very quickly, get your urine analysis,
and your cultures done,
and only thereafter take some antibiotics.
That should help you quite a bit.
- You should call your doctor
because there is the plan B that you can take.
- Depending on where you are in your last menstrual period,
how many times you've actually missed the pill,
it could still be an important factor.
- And you can actually do this with your own pills
and sort of double up, but call your doctor
to have them tell you how to do it.
It could just be from sex.
Sometimes there's a reaction between the semen
and the vaginal fluids, and a lot of times
that can cause a specific odor.
- Probably there's an infection in there.
Chlamydia, gonorrhea, trichomonas,
those are the most common infections
that we see in women that cause these types of changes.
- It could just be from all that friction
going on down there, and it could be something else.
It could be that they gave you a bacterial infection.
So it's just important to get checked out
if you do have some odor that
you're concerned about that doesn't go away.
Maybe they didn't hit all your right buttons.
Everybody has a button,
and it may not be a button down there.
It may be on the face, it may be by the ear.
- There's so many different factors
that go into being able to achieve a good orgasm.
Have you been drinking a lot?
Have you taken any drugs?
Have you done anything else that can potentially
change your sensuality or your sensation?
- You just have to keep going at it, keep experimenting.
You should feel something.
That's the idea is that it should be enjoyable.
It should be connection.
If you don't actually feel anything.
Like say you cut your finger
and you don't actually feel anything
you definitely want to talk to your doctor
about that because maybe there's some nerve damage
or something that's going on that needs to be corrected.
That you so much for your questions.
They were absolutely awesome.
People need to know what they're bodies like
and not be afraid to talk about it.
- Just remember while Google and the internet
are fantastic resources for so many different things,
make sure that the questions that you have,
you sit down with a healthcare professional
and you speak with them.
- Get your diva on, or your guy diva on too.
It's so so important to love yourself
before you invite anybody else to love you.
- Be safe, be careful, and understand what your needs are.
Know about your partner, and have fun.
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