What do you think about when you hear the words "playing with a soft penis"? Is it surprising to
you? Even shocking? Would you even consider a soft penis something to ever include in a sexy fun?
Well, a lot of people wouldn't which is why today I'm going to address this very topic. So make
sure to stay with me till the end of this video for the entire truth about male soft wands. My
name is Helena Nista and I make videos that help you have the best sex of your life. And today,
we're discussing the pleasures of a soft c*ck. One of the things that I really fight against
in my work as a sexologist are preconceived ideas about what sex is or should be. Even this morning
I had a session with a client where I really had to work with him to show him that a fulfilling
and satisfying sex life doesn't need to look like anything prescribed by the society. Like,
I literally told him to stop trying to fit the round peg of his sexuality into the square hole
of societal expectations. And I really think that he heard me but we need to wait and see how well
he will apply this principle in his own sex life. And one of these pervasive ideas in our society is
that in order to play sexually the penis needs to be hard and erect. Well, that's simply not
true. For a variety of reasons the erection might just not be there. Fatigue, stress, performance
anxiety, age, health problems, emotional issues in their relationship and many other factors can
affect men's ability to get hard. But that doesn't necessarily mean that the partners can't have sex.
Yes, you heard me right! There are many different ways to play together in bed: manual stimulation,
oral stimulation, erotic massages, mutual masturbation, self-touch when we're together,
kissing, affection, etc., etc., etc. And none of these activities require a hard-on. You can even
penetrate your partner without an erection or a full erection if you both are willing and open
to it. The truth is a soft penis is still a very sensitive penis. The nerve endings are still there
and are still very responsive to touch. It can actually feel extremely good for a guy to have
his soft sausage handled and pleasured. It can also feel really fun and enjoyable for a woman.
It's easier to take the entire soft penis in her mouth during oral. And it can feel really lovely
and pleasurable on her skin. The intercourse - vaginally or anally - can feel more subtle and
more gentle to both of them. And if you're not sure how to insert a soft penis into a vagina
or anus, you'll need some quality lube for that. Next, a woman (or a man for that matter) can feed
the penis inside of her body with these sort of scissor fingers. You can even just rub your
genitals against each other without penetration which will stimulate a lot of different delicious
erogenous zones. And if your partner wants to feel something hard penetrating her you
can always use your fingers or a dildo. Sex toys are a wonderful thing to play with during sex.
Using your fingers is an awesome thing to play with and explore together. Don't let anybody
tell you that without a rock hard erection you cannot have sex. That's just not true! And the
only people who benefit from that propaganda are those who are trying to sell you Viagra and other
erection drugs. Don't buy into it! There's a reason why so many men struggle at different
times to get hard or to get fully hard. It's because that's how we're biologically wired. Your
system maintains a delicate balance of different functions and resources. And when your energy
levels are low or you're not 100% for a variety of reasons, your body will struggle to produce an
erection. If somebody is trying to convince you that there's a problem with you and that
you need to be fixed through the pill, run from them! Embrace your soft penis as a normal part
of being a man, whether that happens to you once a year or you're no longer able to have an
erection at all - plus everything in between. And invite your partner to play with you and
your soft wand in a non-demanding way, meaning not expecting that an erection needs to happen.
Only then you can start fully reaping the rewards of the soft cock pleasures. The
erections come and go that's normal. If they come, play with your hard-on. But if they don't,
embrace a variety of ways to play without it. And if you'd like to learn some amazing and powerful
ways to touch, pleasure and satisfy your partner then make sure to check out my online course How
To Pleasure Her. It's a complete guide for any man who wants to become an extraordinary lover and who
wants to create a mind-blowing sex life with his partner. This program is fully online so you can
follow it from the comfort of your home. And you can do it at your own pace. I shared my absolute
best resources, tools and techniques in this course and I really hope to see you there! Please
make sure to check it out, you'll find the link in the description bar below. And on a more personal
note, my YouTube channel has been growing really rapidly for the last few months so I want to
extend a very warm welcome to all the new viewers and subscribers. Sexual education is my passion
and I share free weekly videos on a variety of topics requested by my audience. So if my work
has been helpful to you in any way please consider leaving me a 'Like' and a comment below. I love
reading your notes and I always respond to them personally. And I also have a depth of gratitude
and appreciation for my Patreon community who support me with monthly donations. Your care,
love and support mean the world to me and allows me to keep going with my work. Thank you so much,
I really love you guys! Have an absolutely magical day and I'll see you next week!
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