- We look at your children as liabilities they're not assets to us liabilities
liability don't care how much you love them they cost us the same liabilities we don't like them
we don't want your liabilities we don't want to put because if I because think about it
let's say you and I are married right you married an old guy right you have my son
every dollar I make I gotta split 50 cents with that man's kid why do I as an alpha
male high value man whatever want to be putting my hard-earned resources into that motherfucker's kid
and taking from my child - So there you were listening to the wise words of Kevin Samuels
rest in peace he actually passed away recently and he used to give
advice primarily to men and women in the black community in the US but actually I
interestingly see a lot of overlap with the dating dynamics in Eastern Europe because
the black community in the US has a high rate of single mothers just like in Eastern Europe
there is a very high instance of single moms and on top of that high socioeconomic black men in the US
are more of a rarity than the average in the US and just like here since the fall of the Soviet
Union and the end of communism that transition a very painful transition to capitalism here in the
1990s into the 2000s that high socioeconomic value men have been in short supply also in
Eastern Europe so in countries like Ukraine, Russia, Belarus, Moldova and other countries
in the region so I'm going to react to a couple of clips from Kevin Samuels and explain why high
value men in general and in particular, in Eastern Europe don't date 30 year old plus single moms
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- I need you to understand you want a high value man to be a step daddy
See got y'all confused - Yeah I mean my son's father is a great man - It doesn't matter the kind
of man you're talking about can go get a 25 year old version of you without a kid
that's why I'm like I think you need ladies need to realize when you have children
high value is pretty much off the table especially in today's dating environment
- That is the key message that high value men the guys who are the top of the food chain
will have the highest socioeconomic status they can have the 25 year old actually in fact the
20 year old version without a child like the woman who's speaking there who actually I
think is quite attractive she's 30 has one child one thing she said was 10 years of age and that is the
reality now the solution to that for say a woman like this is either to make big compromises and
you know take a guy's lower value or share the guy who's higher value or
it's to look outside of her normal dating pool so if she were focusing exclusively on black men in
the US then obviously opening up that search and being interested in with their ethnicities in the
US or in another country maybe then she could widen her pool and actually have better chance and that's
kind of I guess the gap that the Ukrainian bride business was providing for the women
in her situation maybe an attractive above average looking 30 year old plus single mom in Ukraine
you know the the highest value guys when I say high value I mean the high value men on the dating market
in terms of like the demand for them those guys in Ukraine they can basically have a 20 year old
hottie without kids so not going to be looking most likely at a 30 year old but of course if
they decide that they're open to dating foreigners then you know that would expand her options and
they will be able to I guess use their beauty as an arbitrage and get a higher socioeconomic
status guy from abroad and when things were different like say in the 1990s, 2000s but travel
was different you know difficult information was limited communication was hard travel like was
extremely hard for Ukrainians than this Ukrainian bride business kind of provided a nexus between
the guys in the West and Ukrainians here like particularly the single moms nowadays of course
with Ukraine I'm speaking from Lviv, lovely Lviv it's early January 2023 they now have the possibility
because of the war most of the single women left Ukraine are still abroad mainly in the European
Union but also in the US like there's almost a hundred thousand now Ukrainians there so obviously
they don't need I have some other videos about why the Ukrainian bride business is dead I'll link
them up down below but for high status man taking on another man's child is a liability so it's just
something that's very unattractive for the high value man - Unless you're going after a man who's
in his late 40s 50s
- Mid-40s early 40s - Late 40s 50s because those are the guys who tend to be like I'm fine
yeah we're like whatever but if you mid-40 I mean you're talking about income a guy doesn't hit his
financial stride until 40, 45 to 55 so depending upon the kind of income you're talking about he
has to have time to get there - Exactly that tends to be what I've observed also with my clients over
the years is the high value guys who come to me who are under 45 they will I've never seen them
date a single mom in their 30s I have to really think hard have I ever had one
I really don't think so but the guys who are say over 45 well I've have some of them have even
married in fact single moms I had one who was with me a few years ago in Minsk in Belarus and
that was quite interesting because what I found is the few clients I had who were above 45 and did
actually and marry women who let's say older some of them married women without children who are over
30 or dated them long term and some of them married the single moms who were over 30 it was because
they already had children from a previous marriage and they actually weren't interested in having any
more so in that case it's actually better for them to be with a woman the new woman who already has
children because then naturally if she didn't have the children then actually she would still want to
have children and that might be you know if you don't what if you're a guy and you're in your
late 40s 30 50s mid 50s you you've have children already and you don't want to have any more then
you know realistically you probably especially here in Eastern Europe you'd want to have a woman
who already has at least one child otherwise she's gonna have that natural biological urge to have
children that's going to be a clash between you so for those kind of guys it can definitely work or
as you get they get older well you know a single mom who's 30 like that woman in the in the
clip with Kevin Samuels who's quite attractive yeah for some guys that's a compromise worth
making they're willing to take on the liability of her child by another man and invest the
resources into offspring that are not their biological offspring because yeah they see it
as a good enough trade-off shall we say and I see that it's interesting the clients who
had who were up to 45 and you know they could still date the hottest of the hot say in Kyiv
it changes in general what I see people clients and friends when guys get I mean you can be a top
guy we're talking about charismatic, tall, wealthy, good-looking, in shape, connected, have the social
circle and basically there's no real maximum age gap that's possible I mean over 18 of course
up until around 50 from what I've seen I know a lot of guys who are we'll say they're from
Western Europe and from North America who spend a lot of time we've spent a lot of time here in
Ukraine over the years who fit that and they tell me that yeah when they were 50 they could still date
the 19, 20 y.o. models but when they got to like 55 that became a lot harder they started to date
women who were say in their mid to late 20s maybe without a child but still in that age group
and then presumably as they get older they would then increase that and not just human biology and
how the dating dynamics work in general men hit their peak between 35 and 45 in terms of their
market value when they're dating women hit their peak between 20 and 25 in general this
is a generalization not exactly that range for everybody but that's the general trend so as a
guy while you you know we especially on these dating gurus especially these dating gurus
they like to talk about the wall undefeated for women that when women hit 30 they're
SMV or sexual marketplace value starts to drop as they lose the signs of fertility they never
really talk about what happens for men men it's not as dramatic but it also does start to happen
once you get over that 45 in general over 50 and upwards so that's kind of the trend
I've seen as well so that's pretty observant, yeah by Kevin Samuels pity he passed away so
if you're a high value guy and you're looking to expand your dating options like maybe those
black American women should have been looking for that by going maybe outside of their very local
ethnic group or what the Ukrainian women were doing by joining the marriage agencies trying to
meet foreigners you should be doing the same you should be thinking about where are my best options
going to be because if you're finding that well you're frustrated with your dating options back
home then believe me Eastern Europe in general is going to give you an absolute plethora of expanded
dating options because this is the region where on average in my experience having traveled all over
the world you'll find the highest concentration of beautiful women and that is what us guys
are primarily attracted to biologically that's just the way it is in the same way that while
high value men in general as I pointed out they have enough options that they are going to date in
general the women who are under 30 and don't have kids by other men that's just how we decide to
invest our resources привет nice dog there so if you were up for having an unforgettable weekend to kick you
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the last must be about five months I've been with a few clients to Moldova to Chișinău and also to
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about the main thesis of this video the main point that high value men basically don't
date single moms in their 30s probably in most places but definitely here in Eastern Europe
simply because they don't have to they have what they consider better options in terms of
dating so value as opposed to values I'll leave you on that point and see you in the next video
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