How do you know if you're putting men up on a pedestal? We did a video a few weeks ago
on seven reasons you should never put men on a pedestal. And today, I'm giving you a
10 question quiz, and if you score any more than three, then you're putting men up on
a pedestal. Don't forget to download the 12 Text Messages to Make Him Yours and stick
around, this one will be fun.
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How do you know if you're putting men up on a pedestal? Now, we did a video, as I said
a few weeks ago on seven reasons you should never put men up on a pedestal, but at the
same time, you want your future partner to be amazing.
You want your partner to be amazing. So how do you know the difference?
Today, I've got 10 questions and if you score any more than three,
you're putting them up on a pedestal.
Number one, you're worried that any small misstep will be enough to push him away.
So if you're constantly fretting that one full stop on a text message or
one little insecure thing you said on a great phone call
or even one silly thing you did on an otherwise great date
will be enough to push a man away, then give yourself one point.
Number two, you overlook his flaws.
So you can't name incompatibilities between the two of you.
You can't tell me things that you don't like about him.
You're blind to any flaws that he has as a man. If that's the case, give yourself one point.
Number three, are you constantly aiming to please him sexually without return?
So anytime there's sex involved, are you worried that you have
to please him and work to please him and meet all his needs in bed
without getting the same back in return? If so, give yourself one point.
Number four, are you scared to make fun of him?
So you feel yourself biting your tongue when he does something or says
something goofy and you can't call out the dork that he is?
If so, give yourself one point.
Number five, does the effort feel one directional?
You always feel like you have to work and put in so much effort
to keep things alive with him and keep his interest,
whereas, he's not indicating the same in return? If so, give yourself one point.
Number six, do you always feel like you have to be at his beck and call?
So I remember the very first woman I ever crushed on feeling
like I had to be there to drive her places and pick her up from the airport
and be there to study with her whenever she needed me.
Otherwise, she would lose interest. Needless to say, we never got together.
If you always feel like you have to do things for him to keep his interest,
it's a sign you're putting him on a pedestal and you give yourself one point.
Number seven, are you constantly feeling like he has more options than you?
Are you constantly feeling like he can choose from all these women
that he could leave at any point for another woman
whereas you feel like you don't have any options in men?
If so, give yourself one point.
Number eight, do you feel like you can't relax around him?
Like if you relax, you're going to say something silly or do something silly.
You can't act around him like you would around your best friend.
If so, it's a sign you're putting him on a pedestal and give yourself one point.
Number nine, are you overly threatened or anxious by any situation
where other women are around him?
You constantly feel like he could leave at any point just because another
woman is introduced to him or like he's going to want to leave
if he's around other women. If so, give yourself one point.
Number 10, are you constantly worried or feeling like he's on the verge of leaving?
If you're constantly feeling like he's right on that edge of losing
interest and maybe you even have to play games, play hard to get,
resort to tactics to keep his interest and stop a man from leaving,
it's a sign that you're putting him up on a pedestal. If so, give yourself one point.
Well that's the quiz. If you score any more than three, you're putting men up
on a pedestal, and the good news for you is if that is you,
I've got a video coming out on how to stop putting men on a pedestal.
It'll be out in a few weeks time. When it's out, I'll pop the link in the description
and in that video, I'm going to show you the practical steps that I teach to clients
who I feel are putting men up on a pedestal. You're going to learn
how I help clients, the, the things that I actually use, the steps they take
to stop putting men on a pedestal. It doesn't help your attraction,
it doesn't help their respect towards you, and it certainly doesn't help
you feeling like the prize that you are. So make sure you watch that video as well as
the video on 7 Reasons To Stop Putting Men On A Pedestal.
Don't forget to download the text guide, 12 Irresistible Texts to Make Him Yours.
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