Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com.
Let me ask you a question.
What do you do when you're with a girl and she's playing hard to get?
Maybe you've been on a few dates or maybe it's a girl that you're pursuing and she's
just not giving you her all, maybe a little bit here and there and you can tell why she
playing these games.
I'm going to be teaching you what to do when you interact with a woman like this.
First of all, you have two options and I'm going to tell you which one I personally would
pick, but you have two options here.
One, you can play her right back to her games, which I will show you in just a second how
to do that because that's going to be the way that you're going to be able to get the
girl who's playing hard to get or two, you completely drop her and move on to another
girl.
I personally would pick the latter.
Number two, I would completely drop her.
I would move on.
I personally don't have any patients for any girls that play hard to get that want to play
games.
I'm just sick of those types of women.
If that's something that you want to do and you want to dive into that and play those
games, that's fine.
Maybe you really liked this girl.
Me personally, I would be out.
I don't want any girls who are playing games.
Yes, there is a little bit of game playing.
It's always a little bit of a mating dance.
Not every girl is going to be totally all over you, she's not going to be so easily
available, but I don't want to be with any woman who is going to be playing games that
are drastic like that.
That's a waste of my time that I don't feel like putting in the effort for that kind of
girl.
You on the other hand, this might be a little bit different.
You might be interested in this girl and you're like, well Tripp, there's just so
many things about her and yada yada yada, fine.
Well, if you want to get a girl's playing hard to get, then you have to play hard to
get right back at her.
What she's doing is she's trying to get you to chase her.
Because she believes that she's valuable.
She is the prize.
But that's what you need to be thinking on your end.
You need to be doing exactly what she's doing.
If she's doing that, you need to be the one who's trying to get the woman to chase you.
And by the way, if you play these games right back at her and she doesn't chase, you will
then go to option two and just leave her.
Because otherwise what's going to happen is if you keep chasing her, you're going to never
ending being this dynamic of you chasing her and her playing hard to get.
That's never gonna end.
Either you're going to try to play the games back to her and she's going to come towards
you or she's not going to bite and boom, you dropped her.
What do you do?
Only pursue her lightly.
Now you can be consistent with your pursuing.
When I say consistent, I mean every day texting her, texting her, texting her, no, you can
be consistent.
Meaning like once a week you could be asking her if she's available.
She wants to hang out.
And if she says no, well don't ask her the next day, but the next week ask her, then
the next week you can ask her then.
It's about having time and space in between the times that you're trying to message her
because you are a busy dude.
Of course, if she never agrees, well now she's not just playing hard to get, she's just not
interested in you.
But you can still do this.
What I'm saying is, pursue her lightly.
Most guys are just bombarding these girls a text messages basically available whenever
they're available.
You know, don't be so available.
If you're like, hey, let's hang out on Thursday.
She's like, I'm busy Thursday and I can hang out on Saturday.
But you were busy Saturday.
Don't just cancel your plans to be with her.
No, say you're busy too.
And then come back the next week and ask her out.
That's the mentality I want you to be thinking on.
Also, you want to be unpredictable, okay?
Predictability.
Predictability is one of the things that turns women off when they know that you're predictable.
Predictable is going to be you doing the same things over and over that every other guy
does.
And mostly that's going to be guys who are just super available and asking girls out
to dinners and texting them a bunch of nonsense and not even ever asking them out.
That's predictable behavior in this case, so you're going to be unpredictable.
You're not going to be texting every day, only maybe once a week, maybe once every other
week.
You're not going to just invite her to dinners, but actually do something interesting with
her.
You're not going to be texting her back and forth when you guys even haven't been intimate
or had sex yet, and you're just texting, texting, texting all day without ever asking her out.
Eventually you got to get her in person, so that's what she got to do.
This is more unpredictable behavior.
You're not going to be responding to her text messages so fast or calling her back so fast.
It's predictable when guys do that, is going to be unpredictable and you're not going to
respond so fast.
Again, I think you understand the theme here is you being more unavailable because that's
what she's doing to you and that's what hard to get is not being so what?...
available.
In order to ask her out, you're probably doing it over text and I have something for you.
It's the "7 Deadly Text Messages That Make Her Want You".
These are 7 text messages prewritten that you can send, so you can use these in any
case in terms of trying to meet up with her.
When you do try and meet up with, or you'll know exactly what to send, it's for free.
It's a little video, it's down in the description.
Go grab that so you can learn how to text these girls and get them to meet up and I'll
see you in the next video.