Hello, YouTubers!
My name is Lisa Force and I’m a relationship coach and dating expert.
Today I’m going to be talking about something that us girls all hate: BREAKUPS!
Yes, breakups are the worst, especially if you weren’t the one who initiated the breakup.
But if you aren’t ready to give up on this guy yet, then there are definitely things
that you can do and say to make your ex boyfriend fall for you again.
And these little known tips and tricks will be revealed to you in this video!
But you have to be quick, because the longer you wait around, the greater the chance that
your ex boyfriend might get away from you forever, so make sure you watch this whole
video all the way through.
So let’s jump right into it, ladies!
Step Number One – Get Over Him!
Yes, I know the whole point of this video is to try and get your ex boyfriend back,
but believe it or not, one of the first things you need to do in order to get him back is
get over him.
This may seem a little weird and counter-intuitive, but hear me out for a second.
Begging, pleading, and arguing with him won’t convince your ex boyfriend to come back to
you – if anything, doing these things will only push him further and further away.
So by getting over him, you avoid the natural urges to just pick up your phone and text
him like crazy.
“WHY WON’T HE TEXT ME BACK So how do you get over him?
Good question!
There are several things you can do to take your mind off of him.
Working out is one things you can do -- exercise and physical activity increases the amount
of “feel good” hormones in your body, so if you’re in need of a lift in mood to
take your mind off this guy, then definitely go to the gym or go for a quick jog.
The second thing you can do to take your mind off your ex is to just have a good old GIRL’S
NIGHT.
(Paaaaaarty tiiiiime) Yes, spending time with some good friends will help you have fun AND
take your mind off the breakup.
The third thing you can do to take your mind off your ex boyfriend is to date other guys.
I know, I know, that’s probably the last thing you want to do right now, but dating
other guys can be fun and there’s no quicker way to forget about an ex.
Not to mention that it might make your ex boyfriend a little jealous, and this could
work to your advantage, but more on that later.
Step Number Two – DON’T TALK TO YOUR EX.
Now, I’m not the only relationship expert on YouTube, but you can bet your bottom dollar
that they all advocate this step.
YouTube relationship expert Brad Browning calls this the “No Contact Rule”.
What it entails is exactly that – not contacting your ex boyfriend for a period of about 30
days.
So no calling, no texting, and no Snapchatting.
Why?
Well, in order to make your ex miss you and want to be with you again, he needs to know
that he could LOSE you.
Men are a lot more emotional than you think, and if you use this tactic well, then you’ll
be able to turn the tables entirely.
For more information on this, check out Brad Browning’s video on exactly why this “No
Contact” rule works… just go to LisaForce.com/GetHimBack to check out Brad’s amazing new video.
Now, during this “No Contact” period, it’s quite possible that your ex boyfriend
will contact you.
What should you do?
Well, in my opinion, you want to continue IGNORING him for now.
If he continues to press you or if he actually has something important to ask, just send
him something quick and easy.
Right now, you want to give him the impression that you’ve moved on, so getting into a
long conversation with him isn’t going to help at this point.
Step Number Three – Contact Him!
Okay, so that long 30 day period of “No Contact” has passed and you’re ready to
reach out to him again.
But what do you say and how do you say it?
Well, first of all, I recommend reaching out to him by text message.
Why texting?
Well, texting is “non-threatening” – it’s the most non-invasive method of communicating.
Second, you don’t want to just say something boring like “hey” or “what’s up?”
Saying these things will give off the impression that you miss him and that you just want to
talk to him.
Again, for now, you don’t want to give off that impression.
You’ll want to text him for a good reason.
So asking him an important question or sending him a funny YouTube video is a great way to
break the ice and re-establish positive communication with your ex.
So send him something super funny and say, “Hey, here’s a really cool video!
Thought you might like it.”
Sounds pretty easy, right?
Right now, the goal is to simply start a positive interaction with him and eventually, establish
a quick and friendly meet-up.
Come up with a good reason to meet with your ex – don’t just say you want to see him.
So after a few friendly messages, you can say something along the lines of, “So I
know you’re super good with computer stuff and I’m looking to buy a new comp!
Think we could quickly meet up so I can pick your brain?”
That’s just a simple example but I’m sure that you can think of something that’s more
applicable to your situation.
If you do come up with a really cute message to send your ex boyfriend, say it in the comments
section below!
Once you meet up, then things can get REALLY interesting.
Which brings me to the next step…
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Okay, back to it.
Step Four – Rebuild The Attraction!
Now, at this point, you’re probably freaking out and getting psyched to see your ex boyfriend,
but if there’s one rule that you should follow is that…you need to KEEP CALM!
Don’t make the fatal mistake of breaking down, crying, and professing your undying
love for him.
You need to maintain composure here and make sure that you remain positive, upbeat, and
happy.
You’re not going to be able to guilt or beg your ex boyfriend to come back to you,
so keep that in mind.
Remember, if you want to learn the complete method on how to get your ex boyfriend to
fall for you again, then go to LisaForce.com/GetHimBack to watch Brad Browning’s free video on exactly
how to do this.
Okay, so you know that you have to portray happiness…but the secret ingredient to actually
getting him back into your life is something called emotional attraction.
You can create emotional attraction by doing a few things… and here are a few ways to
do it.
Number one… flirt!
Yes, just plain old flirting can go a long way.
If you’ve forgotten how to flirt, here are some sure-fire tips.
Make eye contact with him.
Touch him when you’re talking to him.
Smile and laugh at his jokes.
Touch and preen your hair when you’re talking to him.Creating physical attraction is going
to be a huge goal here, so make sure you dress to the nine’s too.
The second best way to create emotional attraction is make sure your meet up is exciting and
stimulating.
So make sure that you two are laughing – use humor, tell hilarious stories, and crack jokes.
Laughter, as you know, equals attraction, so knowing your ex boyfriend’s humour and
showing him a great time is critical.
And again, if you want to learn every little trick in the book, please go watch Brad Browning’s
video at LisaForce.com/GetHim Back – it’s well worth it and will tell you everything
you need to know to get him to come crawling back.
Finally, number three, make sure you do not bring up anything negative and no talk about
your relationship.
Now is not the time.
Right now, you want to create attraction, not annoy your ex and push him further away.
So don’t get angry at him and don’t ask him why that girl was texting him during the
last weeks of your relationship.
You should treat this little meet-up like a date!
So that’s all the time I have for you today!
Remember that I’m always releasing more videos on how to get your ex back (among other
relationship topics), so please click the like and subscribe button right below this
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Thanks and talk to you ladies soon!