did you know that originally with sex education pretty much they just told you
that don't do it right but they licious realize like people are gonna do it
anyways so let's just teach them how to be safe about it
that's kind of what I realized about Tana mongeau if I just tell you guys not
the water you're still gonna watch her so I might
as well teach you out of watching the right way what is up everybody this is
Chris from the rewired soul where we talk about the problem but focus on the
solution and if you're new to my channel my channel is all about mental health
and what I like to do is pull them in topics from the YouTube community try to
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how to watch 10 m Oh Joe the right way listen up all right we have been killing
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follow me on instagram alright so yeah let's talk about Tana mongea so I give
Tana a lot of crap on my channel I try to teach you all what you can learn from
her like what not to do and all of that but here's the thing and I don't know my
mom just being a talent I'm talking a lot about tough love like I hope you all
realize like I I do love everybody I don't think anybody's hopeless I don't
think anybody's a lost cause you know I'm able to see the good in all people
and sometimes it's a that's a fault of mine but like I want to throw a
disclaimer I still don't think people should look up to Tana mojo as a role
model but but what I want to say what I want to make really clear and this is
gonna be for future videos too is that nobody not even you nobody is all good
or all bad some of you have been following my channel we talk about black
and white thinking black and my thinking is people are all good or all bad
no most humans most humans unless you're a psychopath like most humans
have good qualities and bad qualities and something I want to teach all of you
like we're not gonna rid the world of anybody who's screwing up I'm messing up
or whatever that's not gonna happen but in every one of our interactions every
single day I want you to kind of look at each person you know whether it's in
person at work in your family or even on YouTube try to see which good qualities
you can identify take the good leave the rest okay
that's what we're also trying to do with ourselves with our mental health let's
look at the good qualities that we want to hold on to then let's look at the bad
qualities and let's work on those or get rid of them
all right so with Tana mojo a very polarizing but I wanted to do this video
real quick sorry for my long intro some of you liked up some of you don't but a
tenable joke I've been really analyzing one people watch channel like why on
earth do people watched Tana Mongeau and I made a video not that long ago like I figured
out why people watched Anna and that video was mainly based around how we
watch youtubers of people on reality TV who justify our poor behavior but
there's another group of people who watched Anna who is really fascinating
to me and that's the first thing I want to talk about is Tanner can teach you
how to have fun all right Tanner 10 is a girl she's who parties
she loves to party always has fun always has insane story times and stuff like
that and like a lot of what I want you to
realize is the balance so I saw a lot of people comment that they watched Anna
because they're very introverted they don't go out much and they kind of
watched Tana to live vicariously through her crazy lifestyle right but but what I
want you to take from that is just to learn to have fun and do things and go
out like if you're watching it like I hope what you realize like this is
something I just I will I will never get it through to enough of you write some
of you might get it but I have no different than you Tana mojo is no
different than you Tana and I are the exact same people like we are all the
same some of us just happen to hop on YouTube and get some followers that is
it so what I want you to take from this is that antenna can go out and have fun
you can have fun I try to teach people is I'm a sober man
I don't drink I don't use drugs all right I have so much fun it would make
your brain explode all right like I have a blast all the time my son and I just
went out to breakfast had a great time my beautiful girlfriend who I miss so
much right now could she's in Sacramento for the week anyway so and I have fun we
have great conversations so those of you who are watching Tana to kind of live
vicariously and see how she goes out and have fun like you can do that too but
with everything I'm gonna talk about like take precautions all right like you
can go out and have fun just don't be getting into fights and things like that
so the next good quality about Tana is that she's a successful young woman like
there was no denying that she is a successful young woman she's young she's
making her own money she's independent right she has merged she goes on tour
and all those things like that to me is something inspiring like no matter who
the youtuber is like I look like again I'm not a fan of Tana not fan of Jay
Paul not a fan of Logan Paul there's a lot of youtubers well I'm not a fan of
but what I want you to take from that it's like anybody can do this anybody
can pick up a camera like you guys I've sorted out my youtube channel on my
phone that's it you know what I mean and like now you know with my books and like
my patreon and the merch and all that like I'm fully supporting myself I
support my son you know what I mean I have my own place through what I'm doing
on my own right so I I hope that you guys can look at that and say okay if
this young woman can do it what can I do to get to that level of success now with
the next couple talks where I talk about like you need to find out what works for
you you need to find out how you stay mentally healthy you need to find out
how you're gonna be successful without causing problems and drama and getting
into all this stuff right but I hope watching these youtubers gives you hope
like we again we are just normal people right we are no different than you or
anybody else same thing with celebrities like I don't
get starstruck like people are just people like I always try to teach you
guys that money and all these other things are not just gonna eradicate your
depression I'm gonna do a video or send out an
email soon about the difference between happiness and not being stressed cuz
those are two different things I see a lot of people who say no if I had money
I'd be happy none in N&L if you had money you'd be less stressed about
certain things but it doesn't guarantee your happiness all right but look at
somebody like Tana who's a young woman who is very successful and even though I
don't agree with young women watching Tana mojo like if I had a daughter Tana
mojo would not be someone who she watches but again young women are gonna
watch Tana and I hope they can just see despite all the bad qualities that it is
possible for a young woman to become successful and independent alright so
this next one I just made a video don't be friends with Tana mojo but again I
don't think anybody's all good or all bad so her friend Zac bad Zac I just
realized he's a rapper too he got beat up by this dude Bryce right Tana was
there for him Tana was there for Zac that's a great
quality like as friends we need to be there for our friends now I think Tana
went about it in the wrong way I think Tana was very petty I think she
was very childish in our video I think there was a million other things she
could have done that would have been much better to help her friend Zac in
that situation but like I said not everything is just black and white the
fact that she was there for Zac was something good right like we need to
learn how to be there for our friends one of the issues that I see with a lot
of friendships or relationships is a lot of this just take take take take take
right but we also have to kind of dissect the friendship a little bit so
if any of you watch tennis story time with Zac like what I would say is I
would I would have a conversation like how do we how do we avoid these
situations in the future right like you guys just to make it clear I don't have
any friends who are getting into fights on a regular basis anymore right
because either a we both matured and grew up together or be they're not in my
life anymore one thing that I would say though that
you can also learn from Tana in this kind of topic is that Tana tena does she
is mindful of Zach's good qualities right like she
pointed out the good qualities in BadZach so tena does see that right so what I
would say to take away from that and what you're gonna learn from Tana is to
find people who have similar qualities okay now I could dissect BadZach and these
qualities like in a whole nother video but I think it's important to realize
that there's a lot of people who are very helpful kind and generous but it's
still extremely problematic or have a life that's unmanageable all right the
last thing I want to talk about he actually came up on Twitter to go from
you know what let me give her a shout out real quick she's one of my favorite
people on Twitter by the way follow me on Twitter too this is from and so I
said like my original title for this was white Anna Bojo is a good role model and
an replied and said I think she could be an example of just doing what you want
despite what other people think for better or for worse also she's a good
example of having a non-monogamous relationship instead of cheating right
so yeah let's talk about sexuality real quick like I think I think it is a good
example like you guys I had some people come in Jason oh right like you guys
like I cannot express to you I could not express to you like how much better your
mental health would be if you quit caring so damn much about what people
think about you so kind of like a mention too that like Tana is great at
not caring so much about what people think of her right like you guys like it
is it is screwed up and it's gonna sound like I'm some like white knight or nice
guy or whatever would I say this like it is very screwed up how if a guy hooks up
with a lot of women you know he's like a player or a pimp right but if a girl
does that it's a completely different view like that's nuts
so like I'm glad that Anna like it's very open and vocal about that and I
hope women understand like not even women but guys understand too like you
know like we're all just people just do you think if you're not hurting anybody
if you're not running around spreading STDs or like whatever it is I can harm
other people do you think boo do you think all right and I also like what ads
say - like you guys I know monogamous
relationships are like the normal like I'm in one that's what I like that's
what I prefer that's what works for me myself interested we are just committed
to each other 1,000% but there's nothing wrong with open relationships I've got
some videos about that in the past like if you're polyamorous or if you have an
open relationship do you think like I said as long as you're not hurting
anybody who cares you know what I mean we we hold back ourselves so much from
doing what makes us happier what we believe in like you guys morals morals
are all about perception right like my morals are different than your morals
right like a great book I read on this is called the moral landscape but anyway
it's like as long as you're not hurting anybody like do you think now it does
get a little like gray area when it's like oh is my is my sexuality hurting my
parents right but then a lot of times when it comes to parents family friends
wherever it is like I want all of you to know right now that's more of a problem
with them than it is with you okay let me repeat that real quick a lot of
people who judge you on your lifestyle if you're not holding anybody that is a
problem with them that is not a problem with you all right
so like I said like I'm glad that 10 is very open and honest about about these
things but you know on the negative side of it I don't think it's good for you
know her young viewers to you know witness that all the time I hope her
younger viewers are having conversations with their parents they're being smart
and all those other things but for all of you in your 20s and things like that
who are watching this I hope that kind of inspires you to be a little bit more
brave a little bit more fearless and care a little bit less about what people
think of you alright so again again like the point and the goal of this video
like I'm not telling you to go subscribe to Tana and you want to you can but if
you're gonna watch Tana watch her the right way for example I have people in
my life who I don't look up to as role models but I look at them and say what
can I learn from them what parts of them can help me or help
my mental health alright so I hope that helps all of you out let me know down in
the comments below like what good quality focus on the good quality what
good quality can you take away from Tana Bojo alright let's get a little a little
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