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Ostracized from across society. Just got to suffer from a little anxiety. Please help me
I say quietly through gritted teeth and after sobriety if you're an introvert
You will know that the struggle is real being an introvert comes with many advantages
Such as having excellent listening skills and an intense focus that allows you to achieve
Anything you set your mind on but there are also disadvantages
To being an introvert - here are five problems
Introverts have let's see if you can relate to any of these five number one trying to figure out
Excuses to leave parties early just going to social events is hard enough for introverts
but sometimes you cannot avoid them and you have to go but the worst thing is
Leaving the party when you've had enough
Introverts don't want people to suspect them or think badly of them
So they try and figure out an excuse to leave the party earlier than everybody else
Such as something urgent has just come up that book. Why is that immediate attention or there's been a family emergency?
however, if introverts use these excuses every time they go to a social event or a party people may
Become suspicious of them
So introverts always have to come up with a new excuse which isn't as easy as it sounds number two
Planning to avoid crowds if you're an introvert
you will probably know exactly when the supermarket or the store is the busiest but also the
Quietest you will also know what time you can eat your lunch in the canteen or cafeteria
When it's just you in there, it's not that interval don't like people
They just prefer to spend time alone and get stuff done without having any distractions
stopping them number three
Constantly being asked why you're so quiet
This gets very very annoying for introverts because it happens all the time. Are you okay?
Why have you been so quiet today? Is everything all right with you? You don't seem to be listening introverts constantly have to reassure
Everybody that they are fine and that they are in fact
Listening but to avoid suspicion they have to make an effort to force
conversations for the rest of the day or night
even when they don't want to but they don't want to arouse suspicion of
others number four feeling drained after
Everyday activities introverts tend to space out
Things or activities during the day and the night
This is because they need to have time alone and time to recover their energy
But sometimes this is uncontrollable and they can't always space out what they have to do all their activities
sometimes it's back to back and this is extremely difficult for introverts to have to deal with and
live with number five
Worrying about losing your friends the idea that introverts don't have any friends at all is false
Introverts love having a small circle of friends
they can trust but they
Constantly worry that they'll stop asking them to hang out as it's nice to hang out with your friends as an introvert
Only when you feel up to it, though
And that's why introverts worry about losing their small circle of friends
Because they don't always feel like being social or hanging out
I now want to hear from you guys and girls in the comment section down below
Are you an introvert and can you relate to any of the five problems?
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