- I'm going to be telling you five lies
that men tell women.
This is really important to know
because you can then identify if he is actually
being sincere with you or if he's simply lying.
Hi ladies, my name is Ieva Bereisaite.
I am one of Greta's high value women coaches,
and today, I'm gonna be telling you five lies
that men tell women.
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Lie number one that men say to women is,
"Let's go back to my place and watch a movie and chill."
The truth is very simple.
If he is saying this to you, he basically wants
to sleep with you.
If you, however, want to be in a happy,
long-term relationship with a guy,
make sure you wait until you do sleep with him.
Don't do things like invite him back to your house
or go to his house after,
because he might still have very different goals
to yours, right, especially obviously
in the starting stages of dating.
When you give yourself time,
and hopefully a couple of months,
he will see behind the physical attraction
and actually notice that you guys fit well together.
Obviously, this will also give you time
to see if he's the right guy for you
and it will give you time to get to know him better.
So the next time you hear a guy say,
"Let's go back to my place and watch a movie and chill,"
you'll know exactly what he means by that.
Lie number two is that he doesn't call you his girlfriend.
So let me break this down, because it is very important.
Let's say he's having a hard time
making you his girlfriend or calling you his girlfriend
when you're around other people.
Have you been dating for awhile
and is he not calling you his girlfriend,
or making things official?
Now again, when is it the right time
to be a girlfriend-girlfriend kind of couple?
This comes down to every single couple individually.
For some, it's a little bit faster,
for some, it's a little bit slower,
but if you see that everything's going well
and you guys are having a wonderful time,
and you should already be girlfriend and boyfriend
but he is not making it official
and he is not calling you his girlfriend,
even though you've been dating for ages
and you only date each other,
then it's not a very good sign.
And the reason being is if a man is really into a woman,
he will want to make her his girlfriend.
He would be proud to call her his girlfriend, right?
And mind you, men know exactly what they are doing,
and the way I see it is, since a man knows
exactly what he's doing and he's not taking the step
to make it official even though it should be
since you've been dating for such a long time,
then to me, it means that he does not want to commit.
So if he ever says something like,
"Labeling is not important to me,"
or "calling you my girlfriend is not important to me,"
then I wouldn't believe that, okay?
Because it should be important to him, okay?
It should be.
So also watch out for that lie because it does happen often.
Lie number three is when he says,
"I'm gonna leave her for you."
If you're dating or seeing a man
who is married or is basically just taken,
and you are that mistress, then get out of that situation.
Whatever you do, do not get involved
in anything like that.
And if you are in this type of situation
and he says, "I'm gonna leave her for you,"
well it's definitely not something
that you should be setting your heart on
and it's definitely not something
that you should be believing.
There are a lot of games and lies
going on here, especially in this type of situation,
and there is no way and not a single reason
why a woman should believe a man who is taken
or especially married, that he will leave his wife for you.
You're not doing yourself any good
by being in this type of situation.
The truth is, he cheated on his wife,
let's say with you, or whoever is in that situation, right?
There is nothing holding him back
from cheating on you later on with someone else.
And if a relationship is built on a lie,
especially a lie this big, it's not good
and you should definitely remove yourself
from the situation.
So if he's saying that he will leave his wife for you,
then get yourself out of it.
Do yourself that favor and leave him,
and leave the situation.
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Lie number four is when he says he loves you,
but his words do not match his actions.
Notice when he says that he actually loves you.
Does he say he loves you when it's the evening time,
you guys are gonna go to bed,
so is he saying he loves you to get your cookie
or is he saying he love you because he genuinely means it?
Ask yourself how does he treat me?
Can I see that he loves me through the actions
that he takes, or is it just a way
that he uses to charm me?
Does he, for example, show you that he cares
by calling you his girlfriend in public?
Does he hold your hand and introduce you to his friends
when they are around?
Maybe he's already calling you his family
or buying you gifts or maybe even saving up
to get you something special.
Is he paying for you, and is he really building
that connection with you, and does he listen to you
when you do speak?
Make sure to check if his words match up to his actions.
This is extremely important because it's the actions
that we should be looking at and not being charmed
by the words.
Again, also remember that it does not come down
to the gifts, right?
Because every single man does show his love
in a little bit of a different way, right?
Some men are more romantic,
some men are not, and it's a little bit different
for every man, but how does he show
that he cares for you?
How does he give you his attention?
What is your guys' connection to one another?
This is important to note.
So ask yourself, how does he show me
that he loves me?
Does he show me it at all?
You should be treated well or very well
in a relationship, but remember,
you also have to treat yourself well too.
If you, for example, have really high standards
but you are not high value yourself,
then it doesn't really match up okay.
So it's important to develop within yourself
for example, through the high-value journey,
then you can automatically level up your standards
because you're leveling up yourself.
If he tells you that he loves you,
and he takes the action to show you that
and it's just not words of charming,
it's actually heartfelt love,
and you can see it through his actions
in one way or another,
then it is the real thing.
If he tells you he loves you just to get you into bed,
then he's not genuine, and especially
if his actions don't match up to his words,
it might mean that he's only interested in the one thing
which is your cookie.
Lie number five is "I'm busy."
Does he go silent or just suddenly out of nowhere
start saying "I'm busy?"
Let's say that you guys have been seeing each other
very often, and you have slept together
a multiple amount of times through seeing each other.
You didn't wait a couple of months
to get past the physical attraction stage,
you just kind of gave your cookie away pretty soon.
Because of this, he might start texting you way less
and giving you less attention.
Has he started to ask you out really rarely,
like maybe spontaneously meet up every two weeks or so?
If a man very often starts saying "I'm busy"
and just really doesn't have the time to spend with you,
then it means that you are not his priority.
It also means that he's just not that into you
and when you recognize that,
do not let him string you along.
Of course, a man just like a woman can be busy, of course,
everyone is busy.
However, when you notice a constant pattern
of him saying, "Oh, I'm busy then, I'm busy then,
"we'll just meet up a different time,"
and then he just spontaneously calls you up
in the hopes that you'll jump for him
and if you don't, and he'll just be saying,
"I'm busy, I can't really see you right now," blah blah blah
and he's just constantly busy,
it's not a good sign at all.
Of course, everyone is busy, right?
But if you constantly see that he is not meeting up with you
and the reason is that he's busy,
it's not a good sign.
Every now and again, people can really say,
"I'm sorry, I'm busy on that day,
"but what about a different day," right?
But if you constantly see that he's just not
making the effort and he's saying
that he's busy, it's definitely not a good sign.
So be aware of this and if this is happening to you,
do not let him string you along.
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