Where do we begin?
Sam can be very annoying.
He thinks he is the smartest man in the universe.
He thinks he knows everything. That can be very annoying.
Because he can be very stubborn.
Sometimes that makes me lose my temper.
There she blows!
I’m not often wrong, am I?
Well …
She spends an awful lot of time on her phone.
That can be a bit annoying.
You’re in one of the most beautiful places in the world.
She’s not in the moment.
What he wants from me is to be present and to listen more.
I love him, but I think he wants to feel it more.
I see you, baby. I’m getting super close to you.
“Jack, will you hold me forever?”
“No, I’m gonna drop you off the boat.”
My arm.
Oh yeah! I see it!
Sam. You can’t pick that up.
No.
Such an idiot.
-Nice. I like it. -This is cute.
Time to have a little “cheers”.
I suppose one for myself.
There you go, my darling.
-Whoops! -Put it in the bucket.
I have always wanted to do couple’s therapy,
but Sam wasn’t open to it, so I’m really happy that he
came out of his comfort zone to try something new.
-Cheers. -Cheers, again.
In general, my attitude towards therapy is very pessimistic.
I don’t really see the benefit in it.
I understand that you have some kind of communication problem?
-Yeah. -So, yeah.
Could you elaborate on that?
Sam says that I don’t listen.
Sometimes you feel that you’re not being listened to.
It can sometimes come across as uncaring.
I think the same.
We both think that we are not listening to each other.
So, my challenge for you today is that you
should look at each other from a new perspective.
Do some activities where you’re allowed to look at each other
in a new light.
I think it’s harder to stay up.
I felt that he was a bit claustrophobic.
I’ve never seen him afraid like that.
He’s always so masculine and macho.
“I’m not afraid of anything.”
Dinner!
You …