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star seeds welcome back to another video sometimes life just doesn't turn out the way that we want
it to we can feel like we have failed while other people seem to be doing greater and better things
than we are believe it or not everyone feels this way from time to time while your feelings
are valid you need to think about if this is a temporary feeling or if you feel that it has got
so bad that you need to figure out how to start a new life starting a new life does not mean
that you need to move to a new country and get a whole new identity you don't need to take it that
far unless of course you feel that things really are that bad and cannot be amended anymore let me
tell you you can always fix whatever has happened but only if you have the idea or mindset to do so
you can always start something new because you are the co-creator of your own reality once you
have decided to let go of toxic situations and those things that are pulling you backward the
universe will take notice your environment will take notice and even the people around you will
notice there is a big change in you that might mean removing toxic people from your life getting
a new job leaving your toxic partner or getting a better handle on your financial situation it can
be very overwhelming and lonely but the biggest emotion that seems to take over is fear and couple
with anxiety whenever we are going through life storms or we are in the middle of what seems to
be the hugest obstacle ever we really don't see a way out or how we are going to make it through but
everything will always work out at the end because the universe is always working in our favor
however no matter what the situation is you can start a new life from where you find yourself with
these 10 simple steps so here are the 10 things to consider when thinking about how to start your new
life number one what are the reasons behind your decision reasons will always determine whether you
will be successful at achieving something or not if for example your relationship or your job is
making you miserable and you are always suffering from stress and depression then you have a very
good reason for wanting to start over you will likely have much more motivation to keep at it
because you don't have any choice if you want to better yourself once you understand why you want
to start your new life you can then get a much better perspective as to what you need to do
I would also tell you to believe in yourself this one might be hard for some of us to do
because all our lives we have been told we are stupid or worthless which is not true
you are special and you have to start believing in yourself your personal power and all the special
gifts talents and skills you have that make you awesome just that New Path you are about to walk
through and always remember that you are not alone you are always guided on all levels number two
look at the things that have gone wrong in your life before the ones that went right before you
can fully begin your new Journey you need to take a look at the things that have gone wrong for you
As you move forward you have to access what has gone wrong in the past and make peace with them
not only that you have to correct your past mistakes so you don't repeat them during this
transition period go within chosen ones accept what has already happened change the ones you
can and leave the rest of the universe I know this might seem really basic and you might feel
that you don't need to assess the past but you must your inner healing starts from the
past and not the present if you don't make peace with the past it will only come back
to haunt you especially when you least expect it accept the past heal from it and move on
number three think about the kind of change that you want to make in your new life start to
consider the kind of change that you want to make when you enter that new level of your evolution
is it an internal change that needs to happen do you need to learn to give yourself more credit
do you need to have more self-belief do you need more confidence
is your job the complete opposite of you there are lots of things to think about here
if you are serious about how to start a new life then you might need to make some really
difficult decisions that will probably affect other people because not everyone you call your
friend want to see you evolve so be prepared for that as well you need to be strong enough to be
content in your decision to move on in life and leave certain things behind number four consider
your friendships friendships can either work to our success or to our detriment there are
friendships that we have that will pull us up and help us keep our eye on the ball and there
are friendships that tear us down take a look at the type of friendships that you have currently
are they helping you in soaring to new heights or do they make you feel bad about yourself
if they are not positive relationships then you need to let them go you should only invest time
in the things that will help you to become best version of yourself during this age of Aquarius
friends that make us feel bad about ourselves are not good for us and they should be among
the things of the past you should never feel bad for letting go of these types of people as they
only want to see you feel bad about yourself number five become content with your decision
any decision that you make to start a new life you have to be content with it ultimately you
will be responsible for your own decision as to how much of your life that you want to start again
no one can do that for you before you start to make any serious changes to your life think
through them very well and make sure you are happy with them as you do that spend time alone doing
random things or absolutely nothing read relax grow expand and evolve whatever you have to do
just do it and find the joy and beauty in all of it we think we know who we are but really we don't
and not only that we are evolving into higher and improved living beings
you need to discover Lots about yourself both The Good the Bad and the most
ugly part of yourself number six don't compare yourself comparison is a killer of all things
in order to start your new life you must make yourself the main focus
that's not to say that you will become a selfish person but it does mean that your attention will
be on yourself and the things that you need to get done in your life you have to resist
the temptation to look at other people to see what they are doing and compare yourself to that
comparison could be one of the things that caused you to feel that you are failing
stop looking at other people no one has it all together that's just the truth
we are all trying to work out who we are what matters most to us and how to achieve our dreams
regardless of what you think other people have achieved all is not always as they seem
you can never fully know what that person has gone through to become who they are today or
even what they are still going through up to this moment the only person that you should compare
yourself with is that you have yesterday number seven forget about labels people have put on you
we all have labels pinned on us by other people by friends families and Society you don't have
to accept them if they harm you some may say you are beautiful but have no brains or that you can't
cook or that you are a selfish person choose what you want to believe about yourself if people think
that you are selfish but you know that deep down you are not then forget about it if on the other
hand lots of people say the same thing then maybe it's something that you need to work on we need
to work on some labels and others which have been birthed from the jealousy of other people
the label that someone puts on you does not define you as a person number eight focus on your dreams
make a list of all the things that you want to achieve this list is what will keep you
going throughout your journey take your big goals and break them down into smaller more
manageable ones that won't seem so scary use this dream as a motivator to keep you going forward
sometimes we all need a bit of carrot on a stick to keep us moving when you take time to focus
on the things that you love and that make you happy you won't have time for anything negative
it will help to develop you into the new you that you want to be number nine challenge yourself
keep on challenging yourself every day to do better and be better it is never too late for
you to change your life around starting a new life does not mean that things will just miraculously
change overnight you have to work on it a little bit every day it is a continuous effort
learn something new a language knitting swimming playing piano or whatever tickles your fancy
there are many free courses to be found on the internet remember as we get older our brains gets
older as well feed it something different every day wake it up and make it get excited about life
number 10. be mindful of the steps you take during this Ascension period
never underestimate the power of mindfulness
being mindful means that you are always thinking and considering things before moving forward
mindfulness is all about being aware of your circumstances and being present in the moment
starting a new life is something that can be done at any time no matter how old you are
as long as you know your reasons behind it and can be fully committed to the process you can do it
starting a new life should never be about another person
it should always be about you and how you can make your life better for your own benefit
nevertheless starting a new life alone can be overwhelming you will have many sad moments as
you walk through the Lonely Road of transformation you will have the many I can't do this moments
you will also have many lonely moments starting a new life alone is beautiful
and exhilarating but it doesn't come without struggles sad moments anxiety and frustrations
it won't be pretty all the time but it will be worth it believe in yourself
enjoy your company make a list draw your strategies and get out of your comfort zone
do more things that bring you Joy and remember this is your life to leave it's up to you totally
up to you to create the life of your dreams as a spiritual being having Human Experience
I hope this video was really helpful to you see you in my next video peace love and life
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