I am doing my sadhana seva very regularly
and at the same time I have run into
having multiple partners drinking and casual sex
I feel I am more open to life and having all the fun
but my sister doesn't approve of it
am I not doing the right thing?
if not how do I pull myself out of it?
I have become habituated
and feel a need to repeat the cycle
it is injurious to your body
your mind and your spirit
you must know that its harming you emotionally
it is draining you physically
and on a spiritual angle it is making you weaker
it is high time you move away
from being promiscuous
suppose someone else is promiscuous
you have a life partner and that partner is
promiscuous would you like it?
no you want people to love to be loyal
to you right?
and so you need to have
it's okay in a teenage you have
before you choose your life partner you move
around keep looking for somebody
you like someone one day you like someone else
another day but you have to grow into
some mature life where you can see
all these pleasures are so momentary
you are saying in your own question
you want to get out of it why you want to get
out of it if it is so pleasurable? if it's so joyful?
it is not
because it is also causing a lot of pain to you
it causing suffering to you too
so that's why at some point of time your
spirit your soul will say no I want to get out of it
and when that moment comes don't miss it
grab it and move on
you have to take that step to move out of it
there is a story about one Prince called
Shrona you have heard about Shrona's story?
he was like that very promiscuous
he was in Uttar Pradesh
and he was so promiscuous
and one day he's concubine she was having
so many bangles and the bangle sound
was there and the sound of bangles disturbed
him somewhere and he said too many bangles
remove them
just keep one
when he had only she had only one bangle
it didn't make any sound suddenly he realized
what am I doing in my life? it's too much noise
and then to make this story short
he became a seeker and then
he happened to meet Lord Buddha
and he became a devotee of Lord Buddha
he learnt meditation then his life blossomed
so whether it is lust it's anger or hatred
all these emotions
or even the company that seem to give you
a lot of pleasure at some point of time
you will find it them so meaningless
and sooner the luckier sooner the better
and if it is sooner you are luckier you know
if you are luckier it happens sooner
let me put it that way
if you are lucky you will have this distaste in all
this will come soon in life yeah