hello there Sigma lovers I'm about to
drop some dating wisdom for Sigma men
that's hotter than your morning coffee
in this video we'll cover 10 unique
challenges Sigma men face in looking for
love and some simple but unconventional
solutions to make finding the right lady
a lot easier if you've struggled to find
lasting love in your Lone Wolf ways
stick around because we're diving deep
into the world of Sigma men and their
unique path finding lasting love much of
this video will be helpful to other men
looking for love and it'll also be
especially useful for non Sigma men who
attract Sigma esque women if you're new
to my channel I help men find attract
and keep their keeper or simply have
better relationships with women welcome
to just the tip okay first let's unravel
the unique challenges our Sigma men and
women face in the wild world of dating
and then we'll look at 10 surprising
Solutions number one lone own wolf
syndrome Sigma man you are the king of
Independence but remember while it's
admirable to be self-sufficient it can
make you seem like you've got a bit of a
fortress built around your heart finding
The Sweet Spot between self-reliance and
emotional connection can be a puzzle two
emotionally guarded expressing feelings
isn't exactly your strong suit my Sigma
dudes your introspective nature can
sometimes lead to an emotional
communication gap you may not believe it
but letting your guard down is like
opening a secret treasure chest rare and
rewarding number three fear of opening
up open vulnerability is also not a
strong suit for you but it is a crucial
ingredient in the recipe for love fear
of rejection judgment or simply being
truly seen might keep you from fully
connecting with a woman it's okay to let
someone see the real you more on that in
a minute four selective seduction Sigma
men don't don't settle for just anyone
You' got high standards which is
fantastic but it might feel like you're
sifting for gold in a vasy of Pebbles
your pickiness can extend your
singlehood but of course quality over
quantity is your motto and that's okay
five mystery man sigmas are born with
mystique and the wingman motto of always
leave them wanting more comes naturally
to you but you have to give them enough
to want more otherwise it can be like
trying to date a locked safe even the
right lady becomes exhausted trying to
break through so letting someone in
doesn't mean giving up your enigmatic
charm or all your secrets six introvert
struggles introversion is not a flaw but
it's often misunderstood and often
automatically and inaccurately gets
labeled as shy or socially awkward this
can be frustrating don't worry there's
nothing wrong with a quiet strength in
fact it can be TR sexy seven blunt
communication Sigma men prefer to get to
the point but not everybody appreciates
that kind of directness sometimes your
unbuffered words can come off as a bit
abrupt a little finesse and delicacy in
the delivery in conversations can go a
long way eight limited Social Circles
Sigma men tend to have smaller inner
circles this can limit your chances of
bumping into to new potential Partners
we'll look at how to comfortably stretch
those social muscles in a minute number
nine finding your tribe Sigma men Thrive
when they find like-minded Souls who get
them but because Kindred Spirits are
often also introverts finding them isn't
always a walk in the park or if it is
you're probably both in your mental
worlds wearing earbuds and avoiding eye
contact 10 alone time Balancing Act
Sigma men need their solo time Like
Oxygen balancing that need with a
partner's expectations can be a tricky
tight RPP walk finding someone who
respects your Solitude is essential
finding someone who appreciates it is a
dream come true now before we continue
do any of these resonate for you well
you might be a sigma so chin up sigmas
these challenges are just minor hurdles
on the path to love your uniqueness is
your superpower and when you find the
right partner who appreciates that weird
real you there is no better Feeling by
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that okay now it's time to equip you
with some Savvy and surprising
strategies to apply to these Sigma
dating challenges and it's all about
managing her expectations all right one
Lone Wolf syndrome embrace your
Independence yes at the same time you
need to leave room for companionship
it's okay to share your thoughts and
feelings gradually ually like unwrapping
a present one layer at a time it keeps
the Intrigue alive as long as you do let
her unwrap you a little if she's used to
someone who wears everything on their
sleeve and puts their cards on the table
you might say something like I don't
usually reveal this to anyone or I
rarely share this much with someone so
soon she'll know she's getting somewhere
and she'll feel special hopefully she'll
say thank you for trusting me two
emotionally guarded start small share
your feelings in bite size pieces until
you're comfortable with a full
conversation remember masculine
vulnerability is a strength not a
weakness to feel safe with her you can
decide in advance What feelings you're
willing to share and at what stage let
her know sharing feelings isn't a
natural skill set for me just saying
this is difficult bonus if you hold her
hands and use strong but gentle eye
contact hopefully she'll say thank you
I'll be patient three fear of opening up
opening up up can include sharing parts
of your history that are uncomfortable
for you to talk about start with small
disclosures and gauge her response as
trust builds you'll feel more
comfortable sharing some of the stories
you keep locked away you might let her
know talking about my past is
uncomfortable but I want to do that with
you hopefully she'll say thank you I
appreciate you opening up to me four
selective seduction so yes keep your
standards High you won't be happy if you
don't but before you completely write
her off for something probably trivial
give her a chance she doesn't know how
you operate sometimes a diamond is
hidden in plain sight but you're so used
to expecting rubbish you don't notice
her Sparkle don't dismiss her too
quickly she might surprise you this is
where you need to manage your
expectations and ask non-defensive
open-minded questions like tell me more
about your thoughts on that so you will
learn about her and hopefully not
disqualify her five mystery man maintain
your intriguing aura yes while also
dropping more than a trail of
breadcrumbs in advance of meeting anyone
figure out what parts of your life your
interests your dreams could be least
uncomfortable to share when you do meet
someone deciding in advance what you're
willing to share helps you become
mentally prepared for that situation
it'll make you more approachable while
also preserving your innate enigma six
introvert struggles this one is simple
communicate your introversion let her
know you're an excellent listener and
deep conversations are your Forte if
she's an introvert she'll get it if
she's an extrovert explaining what it's
like to be an introvert in a world
seemingly brimming with extroverts can
be a GameChanger she may not be able to
empathize but she'll know what to expect
from you and hopefully say something
like thank you for letting me know about
your need to limit social interactions
seven blent communication this one I had
to practice with people close to me
because I lacked delicacy in the
delivery the fact is most people are
more influenced by how you made them
feel than by the facts learn the art of
finesse while being direct is a strength
because you're really strong in it
you'll have a better interaction If you
sprinkle in some gentleness small talk I
know and even humor to keep
conversations enjy able for others to
stay true to who you are you may see
something like well my first response is
but I can soften that to for you
hopefully she'll say thank you I
appreciate you doing that for me eight
limited Social Circles because of the
parts of you that seem like rough edges
to non sigmas your friends are lifers
they appreciate the UNH you however if
you haven't met your lady love through
them you may need to expand your
horizons I know now join clubs or groups
that challenge your interests and you'll
meet new people who may appreciate your
quirkiness even if you join a group
unlikely to attract women to it you may
meet a new crew who have single female
friends hopefully you'll say yes to
expanding your Social Circles nine
finding your tribe seek out events or
communities that do align with your
interests you're more likely to find
people who understand and appreciate
your uniqueness at those type of events
of course as a reserved laner you will
have to actually talk to others to get
to know them 10 aone time balancing act
when you do meet that special someone
communicate your need for solo time
early in the relationship a woman who
respects your space will make a great
match and if she needs her own space
even better monitor yourself to make
sure you're not just avoiding intimacy
as a form of
self-sabotage you might say I need a a
lot of alone time please don't take it
personally hopefully she'll say thank
you for letting me know I'll try not to
take it personally of course you
probably know interactions like these
are ideal and often don't happen
automatically but that doesn't mean you
can't make an effort and Learn and Grow
now let's make a quick summary of the
secrets to Lasting Love for Sigma men
and then a word on sigmas versus Alphas
secret number one embrace your Sigma
Swagger Sigma men have a unique brand of
swagger and Charisma Own It Be genuine
be you two quality over quantity Sigma
men are extra Discerning by Nature a
pretty face or hot body isn't enough for
you and that is okay sacred three
communicate like a champ Sigma men are
often introverts but that doesn't mean
you get a pass on communication opening
up is essential four secret four keep
the mystery alive Sigma men are are
mysterious by default Embrace that trait
while letting her slowly peel back the
layers secret number five invest in
self-growth never stop learning and
growing especially when it comes to
understanding the intricacies of
relationships the more you know the
better equipped you are to get out of
your own way where you need to all right
we've unraveled the Mysteries tackled
the challenges and set you on a path to
Lasting Love but are you wondering if
Alpha's actually finished first if yes
watch my video on the differences
between Sigma and Alpha men you'll find
it surprising Illuminating and you'll
learn a little more about yourself in
fact even if you feel predominantly
Sigma you may also have some Alpha
qualities you might be surprised to
discover being Alpha isn't about excess
aggression or bullying you might want to
watch that next no matter what label you
apply or avoid dating is a Learning
Journey Don't Be too hard on yourself
take each experience as an opportunity
to learn and grow stay true to your
authentic self stay open to love and let
your quirky charm shine through remember
finding lasting love is not about
changing who you are it's about
embracing your great unique traits and
sharing them with the right woman you
got this lots of love God bless