FOWLER SAYS IT AIN'T
GONNA HAPPEN.
>> Jason: WHAT'S THEBUZZ.
IT'S ALL ABOUT
♪ LET ME TELL YOU ABOUT MY BEST
FRIEND ♪
>> Tati: BLAINE IS HERE AND
JASON FROM SLO ROLL AND BLAINE
FOWLER, FROM WDVD.
THANK YOU FOR BEING HERE.
SAW YOUR COLLEAGUES.
>> LAUREN, WE GET THE BEST JOBS.
[LAUGHTER]
>> Tati: WHEN IT COMES TO BEST
FRIENDS, SHOULD YOUR SPOUSE BE
YOUR BEST FRIEND?
DO YOU AGREE WITH THAT MANTRA?
>> IN MY CASE, YES, SHE IS MY
BEST FRIEND.
SHOULD SHE BE?
DOES YOUR SPOUSE HAVE TO BE YOUR
BEST FRIEND?
I DON'T THINK SO.
YOU CAN HAVE A BEST FRIEND WHO
IS NOT YOUR SPOUSE.
>> Tati: JASON CARR?
>> Jason: WHY ARE YOU LOOKING AT
ME?
[LAUGHTER]
>> I THINK YOUR SPOUSE CAN
BECOME -- OVER THAT TIME YOU
BECOME -- MY BEST FRIEND, I GREW
UP WITH.
SO IT'S HARD TO TRUMP MY DUDE
I'VE KNOWN SINCE I WAS 5.
YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN?
BUT EVENTUALLY, YOU BECOME BEST
FRIENDS AND IT'S THAT THING.
>> I THINK YOU CAN HAVE TWO BEST
FRIENDS.
[LAUGHTER]
>> WE'RE WALKING THAT LINE.
>> HONESTLY, YES, MY HUSBAND IS
MY BEST FRIEND 100%.
BUT I HAVE A GIRLFRIEND THAT I
HAVE KNOWN.
SHE WAS MY LOCKER PARTNER AT
CASS TECH, AND SHE IS A REALLY
TRUE FRIEND.
BUT MY BEST FRIEND AND CONFIDANT
IS DEFINITELY MY HUSBAND.
>> Tati: I FEEL LIKE YOU GET
DIFFERENT THINGS FROM THOSE
RELATIONSHIPS.
>> I DO, TOO.
>> BUT I THINK WHAT HAPPENS IS
WHEN WE SAY OUR SPOUSE IS OUR
BEST FRIEND, WE FORGET THE OTHER
PEOPLE WE NEED IN OUR LIVES.
YOU'RE IN YOUR HOME AND AFTER A
WHILE, YOU GET SICK OF THAT.
AND YOU LOSE YOURSELF AND YOU'RE
LOOKING FOR YOUR SUPPOSE TO BE
SOMETHING THEY CAN'T BE.
SO MY BEST FRIEND, BUT NOT MY
GIRLFRIEND.
>> Tati: AND I CAN'T WAIT TO
HEAR FROM ALL THE FELLAS.
IS IT COCK FOR YOUR SPOUSE TO
HAVE A BEST FRIEND OF THE
OPPOSITE SEX?
>> NO!
[LAUGHTER]
>> IS YOUR WIFE WATCHING?
>> Tati: JASON?
>> Jason: I ONLY SAW WHEN HARRY
MET SALLY, AND I TOOK THREE
DIFFERENT DATES TO SEE IT.
>> I WAS 19.
[LAUGHTER]
>> Jason: BUT LIKE HE SAYS, NO,
BECAUSE THE THING GETS IN THE
WAY OF THE THING AND THE THING
AND THE --
[LAUGHTER].
>> IT'S OKAY FOR US TO HAVE A
FEMALE BEST FRIEND, BUT SHE
CAN'T HAVE A MALE BEST FRIEND.
>>EXACTLY.
>> I MEAN, YOU CAN ESTABLISH A
FRIENDSHIP.
I HAVE FRIENDS THAT HAVE BEST
FRIENDS OF THE OPPOSITE SEX.
IF MY GIRLFRIEND HAD ONE, TRUST
IS TRUST.
I DON'T PLAY THAT WHOLE LIKE,
WHATEVER.
>> BUT YOU PUT YOURSE IN A
PREDICAMENT.
>> LIKE WITH A GUY THAT'S NOT
MARRIED.
[LAUGHTER]
>> Tati: I THINK THE GUYS TRUST
THEIR WIVES, YOU JUST DON'T
TRUST THE OTHER GUY, RIGHT?
[OVERLAPPING SPEAKERS]
>> I DON'T TRUST THE OTHER
WOMAN.
I'VE BEEN IN PREDICAMENTS WHERE
I'VE HAD A MALE FRIEND, AND THEY
TRY TO CREEP IN THERE AND USE
WHAT'S GOING ON IN YOUR HOUSE.
[LAUGHTER]
>> AND WOMEN WILL DO THE SAME
THING.
>> Tati: WE ALL HAVE TO BE
FRIENDS.
BECAUSE I HAVE MALE FRIENDS, BUT
I'M COOL WITH SIGNIFICANT OTHERS
AND WIVES AND GIRLFRIENDS TOO.
>> ME TOO.
>> Tati: I HAD THIS CONVERSATION
WITH MY COUSIN, LIKE A GIRLS
SLUMBER PARTY ALL WEEKEND WITH
OUR ENTIRE PARTY.
SO HOW DO YOU BREAK UP WITH A
BEST FRIEND AND WHAT WOULD CAUSE
YOU TO BREAK UP WITH A BEST
FRIEND?
>> I DON'T THINK I EVER HAVE.
>> OH, I DEFINITELY HAVE.
>> I HAVE TOO.
>> BE HONEST.
I SAID, HEY, MAN, WE HAD A GREAT
RUN, BUT I FEEL LIKE -- WE
REALLY BREAK UP.
>> JASON, SIT DOWN.
>> WE NEED TO TALK.
[LAUGHTER]
>> WE'RE GOING IN DIFFERENT
DIRECTIONS, IT'S NOT YOU, IT'S
ME.
>> EVERY TIME WE TALK IT'S DOOM
AND GLOOM, AND IT'S SUCKING MY
ENERGY.
I CAN'T DO THIS.
IT'S NOT A SEASON, IT'S ALWAYS,
AND YOU'RE NOT HAPPY FOR ME.
>> THERE HAVE BEEN TIMES I'VE
NOT GHOSTED THEM BUT THE TIME
TOGETHER BECOMES A LOT SMALLER
BECAUSE KIND OF WHAT YOU'RE
TALKING ABOUT, TOO.
IF THE PERSON YOU'RE HANGING OUT
WITH IS YOUR BEST FRIEND AND
THEY'RE ALL DOOM AND GLOOM, IT'S
A BIG TURNOFF.
>> I HAD YOUR BACK FOR A PERIOD
OF TIME, BUT GOODNESS!
[LAUGHTER]
>> I MEAN, I'LL ALWAYS BE THERE
FOR YOU, HOWEVER AT THIS POINT
IN OUR LIVES, WE HAVE THINGS WE
NEED TO FOCUS ON.
>> DON'T DRAG ME INTO YOUR
DRAMA.
>> IF YOU'RE ON THE SIDE OF THE
ROAD AND YOU NEED SOME HELP, I
MIGHT STOP.
[LAUGHTER]
>> Tati: HE IS SAVAGE WITH IT.
IS IT POSSIBLE TO HAVE MORE THAN
ONE BEST FRIEND?
>> YES.
>> Tati: BECAUSE I HAVE A LOT.
>> I THINK SO.
>> LIKE WE TALKED EARLIER.
THE SPOUSE AND THEN THE ONE
FRIEND THAT KNOWS YOU FROM WAY
BACK WHEN.
>> I DEFINITELY THINK SO.
>> Jason: COLLEGE BEST FRIEND,
THE BEST FRIEND AT WORK, THE
BEST FRIEND IN LIFE IN GENERAL,
AND YOU CAN HAVE A LOT OF
DIFFERENT FRIENDS.