- Why men play the disrespectful game?
Does it actually get the girls?
And most importantly, how to handle it
if you're stuck in the situation.
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So, without further ado,
I want to share something with you ladies.
So I wanted to share an article
on a website called 'This is why I'm single'.
Woman tweets about the first date fail
and it sparks a debate about dating etiquette.
Alicia Wright told a story on Twitter
about a first date she had.
"On this first date, we went to a coffee shop,
it seemed as though it started
off right with him going up to order for them.
But when he comes back with some dessert that he ended
up not sharing, not even asking her if she wanted any."
So this is what she says,
"yesterday, I met a guy for coffee
and he asked what I had liked to drink
and went and fetched the order.
And he came back with two cake pops
and I was like, Oh, that's cute.
And then he ate them both in front of me.
So like he's clearly a monster, right?"
Then she says, "it's a whole day, almost 24 hours later
and I'm still marveling over this man
who is on a date and buys two whole cake pops,
which is equal to the number of people on this date.
And doesn't offer a single cake pop."
Pay attention ladies, she says, "it's been 24 hours
and I'm still thinking about this guy."
So even though it was a very disrespectful thing
that he did, she still thinking about him.
"You know when someone does something
and it just kind of gets under your skin?"
This was that for her.
Then guys behave disrespectful
a lot of time, the goal of that is to plant a seed.
So you would end up thinking about him for longer.
Can even be a dating strategy
and I know that sounds a total and complete absurd,
but in a way it tells, but I'll tell you more about it soon.
"She just couldn't understand why someone would buy dessert
and not even offer or think about getting one for her."
"To add insult to injury, they were cute little
Valentine's day cake pops.
So you would think that you had especially one
to share both with someone, but no, he was happy
to keep his cake pop Valentine's experience so long."
I want to share something with you ladies
which has actually happened to my friend.
And if I'm totally honest, I'm not surprised by this at all.
And here is why.
So my friend went to a cinema date with a guy.
It was not the first date, he was late
and she went in and as she was sitting in the cinema,
he walked right past her
and sat on the VIP seat far behind her.
The insane thing is that this type
of mistreatment made my friend like him, even more.
Now, some "dating experts," even coach men
to mistreat or disrespect women on dates.
I said it gives mixed signals and make some women
like the guy even more.
And not to mention that it does plant a seed
in a woman's mind and when she keeps overthinking
the whole thing, which is exactly what happened
to this girl.
The goal is to create intrigue and in a way
to even be a challenge in the most disrespectful way
that you can think of.
However, the only women who "like" this type
of mistreatment are the ones that usually have issues.
Due to this, a lot of men approach women
by being disrespectful, sarcastic, or vulgar first.
The sad part is that it does work with some women,
which it gives then men the green light
to approach all women like first.
How do you stop such a thing?
Especially if you're texting, you can say,
I'm sorry but rude men are not my type
and stop replying to him.
If it's in person and it's on the first few days,
cut the date short and go home literally after few minutes.
If he runs after you, you can say the same thing again,
disrespectful men just aren't my type.
Or if you don't want to kinda point it out, you can say,
you know, I kinda just realized that you're not my type.
And let him figure out why.
And if your guy starts being disrespectful,
not straight away on the first few dates, but later on
in dating or a relationship or serious relationship
or even marriage, check out my video right here
how to set healthy boundaries.
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