Have you ever met an INFJ and wondered if they were flirting with you or if they were just being polite?
This video looks at how you can tell the difference between a genuine INFJ and a fake INFJ who is just flirting with you.
1st, display more interest in your personal life and feelings.
INFJs are often very private individuals and it can be hard to know if they're flirting with you.
However, there are a few things you can do to increase your chances of being flirted with an INFJ.
First, be sure to display more interest in your personal life and feelings.
This will show the INFJ that you're interested in them and makes them feel closer to you.
Secondly, pay attention to their body language.
If the INFJ is leaning in towards you or touching you lightly, they may be flirting with you.
2nd, being more spontaneous and daring in their behaviour.
INFJs are often drawn to people who share their unique interests and sensibilities.
They may take the time to get to know someone better and express their admiration, interest, or support for them.
INFJs may also flirt more spontaneously and daringly than others, as they enjoy testing the waters and seeing how far they can push someone before being rejected.
This can be a fun way for INFJs to explore new possibilities and grow in their relationships.
3rd, being more affectionate and intimate.
INFJs are often deeply affectionate and intimate with those they care for.
They may be more restrained with strangers, but they will be more demonstrative towards those they are close to.
When an INFJ is flirting, they may express their love in a variety of ways, from simply being affectionate to more overt displays of intimacy such as kissing or touching.
In order to know if an INFJ is flirting, it is important to pay attention to their body language and the way they are speaking to you.
If you feel like your partner is trying to show too much affection or become too intimate too soon, be cautious and ask them what they are trying to accomplish.
Only allow yourself to become emotionally attached if you feel like the relationship has a good chance of lasting long-term.
4th, They Give Up Their Alone Time for You.
INFJs are known for their intense and deep relationships.
They often give up their alone time for people they care about, and they are often very flirty.
Some signs that an INFJ is flirting with you might be subtle gestures, such as taking longer to answer phone calls or texts, being more affectionate, or initiating conversations more frequently.
If an INFJ is really interested in you, they will make more overt displays of affection.
5th, They Bare Their Soul to You.
INFJs are often very sensitive and intuitive people, and they can often tell when someone is flirting with them.
They may be more expressive in their interactions with the person, or they may take on a more playful or coy attitude.
If the INFJ is interested in the person flirting with them, they may return the interest in kind.
6th, They Share Their Intuition with You.
INFJs are very in tune with their intuition and can often tell when someone is flirting with them.
They will typically be able to sense the emotions of the person and will be able to read between the lines.
This can make it difficult for INFJs to determine if someone is actually interested in them or just trying to be friendly.
However, they will usually be able to tell when someone is sincere and is genuinely interested in them.
7th, They Get Awkward Around You.
INFJs often find themselves struggling to understand and decode the subtleties of flirting.
They are usually quite good at reading social cues, but when it comes to interpreting one's intentions with regard to flirtation, they can be bewilderingly naïve at times.
There are a few ways that INFJs can know if someone is flirting with them.
The first is simply by observing the way the other person interacts with them.
If the person is acting unusually flirtatious or openly affectionate, then it's likely that they are trying to make a connection with the INFJ.
Another sign that someone may be flirting with an INFJ is if they make subtle references to their interests or passions without actually saying anything outright.
If the other person seems interested in what the INFJ has to say, then it's likely that they are flirting with them.
However, if the other person is dismissive or seems uninterested in what the INFJ has to say, then it's more likely that they are not flirting with the INFJ.
8th, They Find Ways to Physically Connect With You.
INFJs are often drawn to others who share their interests and values.
They are naturally intuitive and may be able to read body language, tone of voice, and expressions to discern if someone is interested in them.
If an INFJ senses that a person is flirting with them, they may try to deepen the connection by engaging in shared interests or activities.
They may also try to show their interest by touch or by taking charge of the conversation.
Ultimately, the INFJ is looking for a partner who they can connect with on an intellectual level as well as on a physical level.
If an INFJ senses that someone is not interested in them romantically, they may become withdrawn or defensive.
9th, They Analyze You.
INFJs are known for their deep and insightful analysis of people and situations.
They use these observation skills to deduce whether or not someone is flirting with them.
INFJs look for subtle cues in the other person's behaviour to determine whether or not they are interested in them.
For example, an INFJ might notice that the other person is constantly touching them, getting close to them, or making unusually suggestive remarks.
If they feel that the other person is being overly flirtatious, they may decide that the other person is not interested in them and move on.
10th, expressing a greater desire for intimacy.
For INFJs, expressing a greater desire for intimacy can be a delicate balance.
On one hand, they want to be seen and appreciated for who they are.
On the other hand, they want to respect the boundaries of their partner's comfort zone.
Some indicators that an INFJ is flirting might include: being more physically affectionate than usual (maybe giving long, deep kisses or holding hands), communicating more openly about their feelings (perhaps sharing personal stories or admitting desires that are outside the norm), or taking extra steps to make their partner feel special.
Ultimately, it takes a lot of sensitivity and intuition on behalf of the INFJ to know when it's time to let their guard down and show vulnerability.