we make decisions based on self which later place us in a position to be hurt
what is up everybody this is Chris from the rewired soul where we talk about the
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makes you subscribe and ring that notification bell so yeah I just I just
endured 46 minutes of Tana mojo explaining about how little Sam
cheated on her and Noah Cyrus doesn't like her and yeah TLDR she started
hooking up a little and he begged her for a relationship she got into one for
with him for like five minutes found out he was hooking up with a bunch
of other girls there you go there's the toussis all right but anyways like at
the end of the day at the end of the day like tam o jo is a young woman she's
trying to figure things out it's gonna take her a while to do so and if you
idolized Tana mongeau if you look up to Tana mongeau that is cool that is totally
cool you do you boo but one of the reasons I take topics like this and I
want to discuss them is because a lot of people can identify with Tana mongeau
health in my younger days I can identify with Tana mongeau and one thing that we
have to look at is are we the common denominator do we have a broken picker
right so one of the things that animals are discussed was one of the things that
made her want to finally release this video about lil xan cheating on her and talk about this situation was
because of what just recently happened with Brad sousa right so like here's the
thing some of us just have a broken picker like I used to have a broken
picker I kept getting into toxic relationship after toxic relationship
after toxic relationship right why do women treat me so so so badly and we
start to get this victim mentality that every person is terrible right now not
to say that men haven't screwed over Tana mojo not to say that women haven't
screwed me over but the thing was I was the common denominator I had a broken
picker kept finding certain types of women and
then I was surprised by the results like my type used to be like crazy feisty
women I didn't like women who had like their stuff together or their life
together I didn't like that was boring right but then I was utterly shocked
when they take was crazy women and then crazy stuff happened you know what I
mean and this is a process of we're gonna look at that we got to step
outside of the situation so basically like 10 emotion like discusses how like
she she had this type and why she was attracted to lil xan and knowing damn
well like she mentioned like you know he hooks up with a lot of women and he
could do it you know all this and I'm not you know whatever right but like at
what point do we notice about somebody so you might be somebody out there and
maybe you do you like me you like looking at you know for specific types
of women right or you're like Tana and you you like bad boys right oh I like
bad boys but then like we're completely baffled when that person does that so at
what point do we look at this and we start saying like whoa
well is there something down deeper like why am i attracted to this type of
person why am i drawn to this type of person and this is one of the billion
reasons why so many people need therapy like we do not understand why we're even
seeking these people out why are we drawn to these people why aren't we
drawn to somebody who just has like a chill life or even their life together
you know what I mean a lot of it goes back to childhood and the relationships
that we have with our parents anyways go to therapy you'll figure that out right
but one of the things that help me out a lot and maybe something that you need to
do or somebody like Tana mojo needs to do it stay single for a while like I
realized that a long time ago and I stayed single for over a year and a half
when I first got sober because I realized that I was like strangely and
oddly and insanely attracted to a certain type of woman and even after a
year and a half like on the scale of that you know type I was dating I
knocked it down a few few notches well I'm still attracted to that that certain
type but the youn half reason why that was so beneficial to me
so beneficial to not only stay single but not hookup was because I learned how
to be comfortable being alone one of the reasons that I feel that so many of us
get into these bad relationships is because when we are so afraid of being
alone when being alone is our biggest fear we keep setting the bar lower right
so we see certain behaviors in another person we see certain red flags but
we're so afraid of being alone and not having somebody there with us to show us
love and attention and affection that we will lower our standards and get into a
terrible relationship and waste our damn time all right so I'm gonna talk about
her situation with Jay Paul even though I'm pretty sure it's fake but before I
move on to that I want to talk about out of twenty-twos situation in this okay
and one of the reasons why I I keep covering the James Charles topic and I
cover these youtuber topics is because like I want all of you watching this or
these videos to take a look at your friend groups right like when I'm
sitting there watching youtubers and when people are talking about their own
character or the character of the youtuber they're watching when I say
character like what are their morals what are their values what are things
like that like people have these like friends and they are just right or die
for these friends because this is such a good friend Mike out of 22 sounds like a
garbage friend and let's not even talk about his his shady past and the
problematic things that he's done and the things that he's been accused of but
let's just talk about this he hooked Tana mongeau up with or wanted to hook her
up with lil zan knowing damn well what lil xan was like all right like think
about that for a second like is that a good friend is that a good fun would you
want one of your friends to hook you up with somebody who behaviour behaves like
that the only reason I'm bringing that up is because when I listen to little
sand on the recent no Jumper podcast I don't like that I just not a fan of adam 22
but a lot of people recommended I watch that
of the no jumper podcast but anyways in that no jumper podcast adam 22 again was trying to
hook those an up with Tana mongeau like what dude what because this situation
with Tana mojo in Lausanne happened a couple years ago like she said like and
you're just like hey you know what you know it'd be a good idea Tana you should
go through that again because you know little Zen has grown
and changed a lot no heck no and especially the fact the sad sad sad fact
and I know a lot of people question tennis mode motives for being vocal
about this but she had that relationship with Mac Miller right little Zen if he
doesn't get his act together he's going down that same path but anyway it's like
check in with your friends see who your friends are recommending that you date
like if your friends like certain people like I don't know like ask yourself like
why do they want me to be with this person is it because they're good and
loyal to me and they treat me right well it's because they like to party and go
crazy and go nuts use drugs or is it because they they buy me things in
travel places like why are why are your friends wanting you to get with certain
people or sometimes we have friends who want you to kill us somebody just so
they can reap the benefits to you know what I mean but the last thing I want to
talk about is another video I endured this morning drinking my morning cup of
coffee with Tana mojo's new video with Jay Paul about them being parents now I
am 99.9% sure this whole thing is fake or whatever they're probably just
looking up but I like to check out the comments to see what other people are
saying about videos you know yeah Jana Jana this is why I ship this
relationship like are you out of your mind like does anybody forget who Jake
Paul is like does anybody forget what Jake Paul did to Alyssa violet what Jake
Paul did to Erika castel like if Tana mojo dated Jake Paul it would probably
be top 10 worst decisions of her life alright and 10 has been a lot a lot of
bad decisions but like Jake Paul has years of doing this type of behavior and
one of the things one of the things is this like teddy mojo has been open about
being you know she's fine with being in open relationships and and things like
that that's cool one of the things that I think is the
biggest issue for most people is they don't know what they want they don't
know what they want and it seems like tanah mojo has been on the receiving end
of that more than anything from her account of stories is that she finds men
who say they want to be monogamous and she's like cool that should be loyal to
them but they go do their own thing but there's a problem I see with a lot of
people like you guys I'm 33 years old I have friends around my age my friends
in there you know mid to late 20s and things like that and one of the biggest
issues is people don't know what they want like if you want to just hook up
with people and not have a serious relationship do yo thang boo the the
problem that happens with a lot of people is that mixed signals start
getting crossed and everything like that like I truly believe that's one of the
downfalls of James tall's with his relationships with gage Gomez and that
waiter from Seattle was that there weren't clear conversation set up
beforehand right there weren't clear conversations about listen I'm not gonna
promise you anything serious I don't know how far this is gonna go I'm
questioning my sexuality I just want to see where this goes you know what I mean
like a conversation like that but so many people so many people don't have
that honest conversation because they are too quick to want to get their rocks
off they're too quick to want to get the person in bed and then they're wondering
why the other person got caught some feelings you know what I mean so like if
you want to be in an open relationship you just want to hook up with people do
your thing just have an honest conversation with somebody beforehand
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