- Conservative. - Sorry, sorry, sir.
- And he said if you actually. - sir, sir.
Sorry, sir, calm down, sorry.
- All your RCMP insecurity. - Sir, sir, sir.
- Help people up from getting. - Sir, sir.
- Justin Trudeau is sorry, just how sorry?
He is 19 times in a minute sorry,
that's veteran auctioneer status.
(man mumbling)
- This guy comes up to him
while he's out there with his sons filling up sandbags,
and just starts bombarding him by heckling him.
What does Trudeau do?
Tries to out-nice him and it doesn't work,
and the dude goes on and on, peppering him.
So in this video what we're gonna do is,
first we're gonna watch the video uninterrupted
and then we're gonna circle back around and watch it again.
And we're gonna count how many times he actually says,
sorry sir, sorry sir, sorry sir.
But most importantly, I'm gonna tell you
what he should've done.
To handle the situation like a man, like a strong leader,
like someone that people can get behind.
You see this little boy in the video,
watching to see what's going on.
He's like, is that what a leader is supposed to look like?
You may not have hecklers, but maybe in the workplace
someone tries to talk down to you.
I want you to know how to handle it.
So when we come back around,
I'm gonna teach you how you can do that.
So let's role the footage now.
We'll let it play, then we'll circle back around
and analyze it.
(men laughing)
- Alright.
- You know how long you've held up for?
People picking up bags.
I've been waiting along down the road for 30 minutes,
while you've been here soaking up the rays, you know!
- Excuse me, excuse me,
excuse me. - You're not getting my vote.
This is a free country.
- It is a free country. - It's a free country
and I'm trying to speak to him
and he won't even acknowledge me.
- Yes sir, thank you, I'm sorry for your challenge.
- It's not my challenge.
I'm a volunteer trying to help
someone save their home. - Okay, that's okay.
Sir, sir we've been filling sandbags as well,
- Yeah. - Okay, and I just--
- And you know while you're here.
- Yes, I'm here. - While you're here,
nobody can pick up. - Sorry.
I am here for-- - While you're here no one
can pick up sand. - I don't know that sir.
I'm sorry sir. - Well why don't you
make yourself aware.
- We are going to--
- You know, I was with a guy.
- Sir, I can see that. - Who was a staunch
conservative. - Sorry, sorry sir.
- And he said if you actually. - Sir, sir.
- Do work. - Yes?
- He'd change his vote.
And vote for you.
- [Barron] All right, ol' boys havin' a good time,
taking pictures, filling up sandbags with his sons.
- You know how long you've held up
people picking up bags?
I've been. - And there he is.
- Down the road for about 30 minutes.
While you've been here soaking up the rays.
- [Barron] Now watch the first thing that happens.
His body guard, that gal, comes over.
Put's a couple hands on him, pushes him back a little bit.
Tries to get him in check.
Usually she's the one who's responsible
for taking crowd control like this.
And also watch the bottom, left and right.
We're gonna count how many times he says sir and sorry.
- You know. - Excuse me, excuse me,
excuse me. - You're not getting my vote.
This is a free country.
- [Barron] Now you can tell at this point, when he says,
this is a free country, this is staged.
Like this guy isn't just goin'
hoping to talk to Trudeau.
He knows the news camera's there, he's tryin' to yuck it up.
So this isn't a deliberate attack on him.
- It's a free country, and I'm trying to speak to him,
and he won't even acknowledge me.
- Yes sir, thank you, I'm sorry for your challenge.
What I, I've-- - It's not my.
- [Barron] Okay, I wanna stop it right there.
So what do you think about Trudeau?
Do you like him or do you hate him?
There's not many people in between.
But regardless if you like him or hate him,
I do want to give him credit
for going over to address this guy.
The easiest thing to do, would've been,
totally ignore it and let his staff take care of it.
Now at the same time, it seemed like
it was escalating to the point
that everyone was hearing it anyway,
so he had to come over to do it.
So whether he had to do it by necessity
or he actually did make a strong move to go over
and address this man one on one.
I give him credit for that.
- My challenge, I'm a volunteer trying to help someone--
- Okay, that's okay. - Save their home.
- Sir, sir, we've been filling sandbags as well.
- Yeah. - Okay, and I just--
- And you know while you're here.
- And I'm, yes, I'm here. - While you're here,
nobody can pick up. - Sorry.
I am here. - While you're here
no one can pick up sand. - I don't know that sir.
I'm sorry sir. - Well why don't you
make yourself aware?
- [Barron] So what's he trying to do?
Trudeau in his usual form,
he's trying to out-nice the guy.
He's referring to him as sir.
He's using a very supplicative tone of voice,
sir, sir, I'm so sorry sir.
What does it sound like to you?
It sounds like someone reporting to their boss.
Trudeau!
Why don't you have those papers in on time?
Sir, sir, sir I'm so sorry, so sorry sir.
So, it's a strategy.
Listen, I understand he has a nice guy image,
and by going over to see if that would work.
Maybe that will work with some people,
but he sticks with it too long.
This guy clearly is not dissuaded by that.
And listen to the other guy's tone of voice.
He sounds like he's in control.
He sounds like he's the boss.
Now this video isn't about vocal tonality,
but if you do wanna improve the strength of your voice
so when you talk you sound more like this guy,
and don't sound like Trudeau,
you wanna learn about vocal tonality,
you can touch or click up here in the right corner
or go to charismamatrix.com/tonalitycklist
and you can download a checklist that'll go through
five things that's completely free
to help you get some strength and power behind your voice.
So watch how Trudeau continues on this frame
as opposed to mixing it up with another strategy.
- We are going to--
- You know, I was with a guy.
- Sir, I can see-- - Who was a staunch
conservative. - Sorry, sorry sir.
- And he said, if you'd-- - Sir, sir, sorry.
- Actually do work, he'd change his vote.
- I was here. - And vote for you.
- Sorry, sir.
- [Barron] How long can you continue to do that?
His status is going down and down as this guy is going up.
And the sad thing is,
this guy eventually stops and backs off.
But don't you get the impression
that as long as this guy was continuing to berate him,
he would've just sat there and said,
sir, sir, sorry sir?
There's nothing that's changed at that point
he needs to step up, raise his voice and say,
listen, clearly you came over here to make a point.
If you had to wait here, that's part of the deal.
I came out here to fill sandbags
and also to take some pictures
so people know what's going on out here.
You need to know your role.
Now you have been heard, we know what you wanna say.
Now go stand over there, the conversation's over.
He needs to tell him like a strong leader,
what he needs to do.
Not continue to take these lefts and rights
and bolo punches.
- Sincerely-- - I just spent half an hour,
can you listen to me sir, now that I've listen to you?
- Yeah, I'll listen. - Okay.
- [Barron] And in there once again,
who's in control of that?
Can you listen to me?
Yeah, yeah I'll guess I'll listen, little Trudeau.
I guess I'll listen.
And look at the look on the guy's face (laughs).
- I could be here with my kids.
- [Barron] Looks like some anchoring football coach
who's offensive line isn't doing any blocking.
- We've just filled 10 bags for 15 minutes.
- But you were held people up. - Which isn't enough.
Sorry, sir.
- All your RCMP insecurity. - Sir, sir, sir.
- [Barron] Trudeau, Trudeau needs to watch my video.
How to deal.
Three ways to how to deal with someone
who keeps talking over you.
Because he just gets bombarded,
I'll put a link to that in the top of the video.
He just keeps getting bombarded,
and has no strategies to quiet this guy.
He needs, he's a leader.
Look at how many people are watching.
Look at that dude in the right corner.
Like he's a little kid,
He's trying to learn what leadership is all about.
What Canada's all about.
And all he's seeing is the leader
get stormtrooped by this dude.
- Held people up. - Sir, sir.
- From getting their stuff.
- I can understand your frustration around security.
I have frustrations with security,
everyday of my life right now.
That's something that I, that unfortunately
is a reality of my life. - But look at the time
you've taken. - But I'm happy to be here.
- You're about to open these dams.
- I'm happy to be here to speak with you,
to listen to you, to speak with all your--
- And that's not the point. - To encourage more Canates
to come out and volunteer.
More people are coming and volunteering
because I-- - I volunteer, but I was--
- [Barron] Okay, so that was
the most important point that he needed to make,
but it didn't even come across.
What did he say?
He said, well we're also out here,
to get more Canates to come out and volunteer.
That's what he said but he should've been more clear.
Just wasn't good communication.
He says, listen, we are out here to fill sandbags,
but we also need to take pictures.
So to someone like you,
it may look like we're just sitting out here.
But the biggest value that we can add,
is to get social awareness out here,
to get some pictures taken.
He wouldn't even have to explain himself to that extent.
But he tried to but because he was so low competence
in what he was saying.
He didn't even take the time to articulate it correctly.
And so it landed on deaf ears.
- Thank you sir. - Try for an hour waiting
- Thank you sir. - While you were here.
- For your help. - For the photo opp.
- I have frustrations-- - The most insincere
thing I've ever seen.
- I'm sorry sir.
That's unfriendly and unneighborly today.
- [Barron] And so, then finally when the guy leaves.
It's like when the bully leaves, and the little kid's like,
I was gonna beat you up the whole time.
The guy leaves, now he's 10 feet away
and he says, that was unfriendly.
- We're here to help.
- Do me a favor.
Do not get pushed around like Trudeau did in this video.
If you don't have a strong commanding tone of voice,
I'll put a link in the description below.
You can get the checklist for free and get it handled.
Have you seen Trudeau?
Trump is at this G20 conference.
Trudeau walks into this event, doesn't know anybody.
He looks like a kid who's walkin' into a party,
and doesn't really know anyone,
and he's tryna look cool and throwing stuff around.
And Trump ends up ignoring him.
We're gonna break down that situation as well.
If you haven't seen that, I'll put the video right here
or you can click right here
to download that tonality checklist.
I'll talk to you there.