- Where did you guys first meet?
On Grindr - On Grindr.
- [Zed] You was down the street, like, 200 feet away.
- It was a little more.
- You thought I was a catfish.
- I thought you weren't real.
- I was like, just come through! See for yourself!
And we just clicked instantly at the door,
and then the rest is history, you feel me?
- Yeah, we making it together.
- Yeah, baby.
- How long have you been together?
Three years? - Yup, yup.
- Feel like 30 though. - Feel like 30 years.
- I want 30 more. - Oh shit!
- Or 40. - Oh shit!
(both laugh)
What's your first memory of each other?
That movie night.
- [Ray] I don't remember that. (laughs)
- I actually forgot it,
'cause I don't remember what movie we watched.
- Was it the free movie? - It was free.
See, you remember it was a free movie!
- I love some free stuff. (both laugh)
What was your first impression of each other?
Oh, that's intense.
Okay, my first impression of you was,
"Oh my God." Like, "Oh, I need to level up!"
Like, look at this freaking king!
This is like God in front of me!
- I was like, "This dude crazy.
Like, he's super handsome, super cool."
You had your swag, and we just vibed instantly.
- Do you remember your first kiss?
- Yeah, in the shower!
- The golden shower! - The golden shower?
- The godly shower.
- It wasn't a golden shower, but it was a golden shower.
- It was a dirty shower! (Zed laughs)
- [Ray] It was golden because you was in there!
- It was the heavenly shower,
- 'Cause God was,
he literally like he was peeing down on us!
When did you first realize you love each other?
- You had said it first.
- No, - Yeah.
Yeah, you did. - I did?
- The way you said it sounded almost like a breakup.
You was like, all messed up with your feelings and stuff.
- [Ray] Yeah, I'm like, "Why do I love this dude?
Like, I love him?"
- [Zed] And then, like, I thought we was gon' break up
and he was like, "Yeah, but I love you and shit,"
and I'm like, "Aight, cool!"
- What's the best thing about each other.
You're creative out of this world.
- Aww. - You think so big,
and I'm like, bub, we do not have the budget for that.
(Zed laughs) Like, you gon' have to
bring them back to a zero.
You on 35, like,
- I be having big ideas, but, you know,
you be making sure we make 'em happen, you know what I mean?
So, it needs that ying to my yang.
- Yeah.
- What are you most attracted to in each other?
Everything.
I mean, you're super handsome, you're sexy,
fine, smart, creative.
Everything, baby!
- Same here.
Like, obviously, look at you. Everybody know that.
But you mine, so don't know that.
- I'm all yours, baby. - You feel me?
'Cause I'ma step, but I'm just saying, like,
you everything. (Zed laughs)
What's the best gift you received from each other?
Oh, it's so simple.
I remember, on my birthday,
you got a picture of us together on a cake.
- Yeah.
- 'Cause I never had a birthday growing up.
Like, it wasn't nothing we'd really done.
- [Zed] And the best gift that I got from you
was that bench press, you know?
I love working out. I'm not going to lie.
- [Ray] What's one word
that best describes your relationship?
Ooh. I'm thinking it gotta be a big word!
- A rollercoaster! - Rollercoaster?
(both laughing)
Oh, a rollercoaster beautiful though!
- I love the thrill.
- [Ray] I love, like, (gasping)
It keeps you going!
- Keep you going, though.
- [Ray] What do you appreciate most about each other?
I just appreciate you being here.
Like, honestly, because I have grown
the most I ever grown in life with you.
- [Zed] With you, like, I feel like
I came more into the man that I was meant to be,
you know what I mean?
I feel like I've found myself,
I found my grounds,
and you allow me to like, just be myself a little more.
You pushed me to be myself, and that's good,
so I'm in a good place, and I'm happy.
- Same.
- [Zed] What is something you say too much to each other?
- Clean up. (laughs)
- Pick them clothes up!
- I've been OCD lately.
I'm like, I love cleaning this.
- I'm glad you picked that trait up.
I'm wondering where'd you get that from.
- From you! - Oh, okay.
What's something you don't say enough of to each other?
- I appreciate you, baby.
- Yeah. I appreciate you, baby.
- [Zed] I'm so glad you're in my life.
- I appreciate you, baby.
And I'm elated you in my life.
- Amen.
- [Ray] Is there an adventure you want to go on together?
- Yes. - Yes!
Adventure next is,
- I want us to go to Africa.
Like, do safari or something like that.
What do we dream of together?
- Just being ourselves and just enjoying this life
and not letting nothing come in between us
and what we built together.
What's something you couldn't have done without each other?
- Being this open and honest with myself.
- What would you do without each other?
This life without you would be like, so messed up.
I'd be all over the place without you,
because you, like, in the center of my life!
- Do you see yourselves getting married?
Ah, ah,
we're not gon' give y'all all the tea.
That's all I can say.
- Do you see yourselves growing old together?
Man, old? We're gon' be lost together!
- You stupid. Nah, nah.
- But it's gon' be me and you! - We gon' be good.
- Keep riding this ride 'til the wheels fall off,
and then we gon' buy some more wheels if they fall off,
and keep riding it, you feel me?
- Is there anything else you'd like to say to each other?
Bae, I love you.
- Bae, I love you. - Let's do this.
Would you like to kiss each other?
That's all we do.
- [Ray] All the time! - [Zed] All the time.
Come on, give me another one.
- [Zed] (kisses) There you go.
♪ If loving you is wrong ♪
♪ I don't wanna be right ♪