so a brand new statement just came out from the Jaclyn Hill camp and a lot
of people aren't very happy because they feel like Jaclyn Hill is using her
mental health as an excuse for everything that's gone down with her
lipsticks so that's exactly what we're gonna be talking about in this video but
do me a favor and make sure that you stay tuned to this entire video because
we're going to be talking about some very important mental health subjects
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anyways yeah let's talk about what's going on with Jaclyn hill and those of
you who are new to my channel this video isn't necessarily about Jaclyn hill I'm
using this story as context but the goal of my videos is to help all of you out
because mental health is something that we all need to care about
and whenever topics like this come up we need to really look at it and see ok
well let's let's maybe look at this in a different angle but there are definitely
some issues with the way Jaclyn hill is handling this situation so just keep in
mind like I want you to look at this story and reflect on it and see how it
affects you personally alright so anyways this is an Instagram post from
Jaclyn Hil'ls mom which she put out yesterday and it says
I want to thank each and every one of you for your wonderful messages thoughts
and prayers for Jacqueline during this time as her mom it has been
heartbreaking in so many ways it was difficult and very disappointing enough
that some of her lipsticks had issues but the onslaught of hate lies and even
betrayal has by far been the worst part it has been shocking no one deserves to
be beaten when they are already sad and down but this post is not intended to
focus on the negative but rather the positivity that has come from this from
the bottom of my heart I want to thank those of you who are true and loyal
followers and Friends of Jacqueline I've always said that she has the very best
followers of all you all are the most kind sweet and beautiful Souls inside
and out and Jacqueline truly loves you I love you it has always been an honor to
meet you whether it's in person or through a written message I'm so very
grateful for each and every one of you and I wish I could personally give each
one a hug thank you for having faith in her and forgiving her please know that
Jacqueline needs some time but she will be back stronger than ever she is
surrounded by love and support and she will get through this she will dust
yourself off learn from her mistakes and try again after all she has a dream to
fulfill as long as I have breath in my body I will always be her cheerleader
please join me in continuing to cheer her on as true friends do and thank you
for having courage and being kind so yeah after that post there is a lot that
has been said about this now one thing I do want to mention because I saw some
other people saying like oh my god this post is getting so much hate like I was
scrolling through the comments to put in this video because I'm about to read a
few and like there's a lot of love and support and that's really good to see
all right like people do need to be held accountable and that's what we're gonna
be talking about and especially with the aspect of mental health from that how
that affects you and all of that but it does look like Jacqueline does have a
lot of loyal loving supporters alright anyways here's just a few comments that
I saw from the aspect of her saying she needs a break for mental health bullying
and attacking are not okay but I don't think all the negative feedback comes
from hate it's a public safety you at this point but she decided to run
and hide she is the CEO of her company it's completely unprofessional
I know mental health is important but how about public health and safety why
not just recall them if she actually loves her fans I'm really sad and
disappointed on how she handled the situation next one says quote unquote
she needs time she's a brand owner it's incredible that poor Jackman needs a
break but every other company who's ever had a bump in their road of success has
had to take the loss they hit the backlash and move forward and work their
butt off but Jacqueline has another failed launch and she guesses the leader
stuff from social media after disrespecting her customer slash fanbase
Wow just wow Jacqueline sounds like the last person who should be running a
company and last one I think this is one of the best comments and it's
professional and it makes sense but it says I think people can take the stalks
of hay too far but I have to say well I haven't been a CEO I was part of the
senior management team in my company for many years if I made an error of course
I did as everyone does what I didn't do was expect my staff or family to tell my
clients it was okay because I was a nice person and had to take some time away
from my mental health my clients would have left and I probably would have been
fired instead I would own my mistakes and ensure I fix them for my clients so
their bottom line wasn't impacted that is how you run a business most social
media influencers particularly the young ones or those who started young and know
no different do not seem to understand good business practice perhaps as
Jacqueline said she needs to get back to what she's good at
tutorials even if her heart isn't really in it maybe she can find the passion in
that again not everyone is cut out for running slash owning a business as much
as they may like the idea of it so yeah I want to talk about a couple different
angles of this so like I said that last comment right there like I think that's
really really true so the first thing that we need to understand is that
mental health is impacted in everything you do whether it's good or bad if
Jacqueline Hill had the most successful launch if you had the most successful
project that you were working this could affect your mental health
that can make your ego blow up if you have a possitive syndrome maybe you
think that you're really not that good enough and this is all fake and doubt
about it now but the failure yes it's gonna impact your mental health but
here's the thing like we have to be proactive about our mental health we
have to be resilient and this is something I had to learn a long long
time ago because you never know when life is just going to slap you right in
the face and you're gonna have to trudge forward because here's the thing and
this is why I feel a lot of people are very upset that mental health is being
brought up in Jacqueline Hills case because when you are the brand owner
when you are the face right when you are the head honcho like you don't have that
luxury anymore like that lecture we went and went bye-bye it's kind of like being
a parent like imagine if you were being a parent and you're just like hey sorry
I can't I cannot parent you right now because of my mental health like some
people do do that but we don't really think too well of them because our kids
still need us so in Jacqueline Hills case like there
are people out there who are still dissatisfied and they need answers they
need a recall you know I know they release the refund but a lot of people
want the recall and I see a lot of people are confused about that and just
real quick to touch on that a we call gets the contaminated items out of
people's hands all right it takes them out of people's hands like I don't get
why that's hard to comprehend like if there's something potentially dangerous
out there it's not about just giving the money back we have to make sure that
anybody who might become physically ill or hurt by the lipsticks that product
needs to be removed from their hands that is why you do a recall all right
but anyways again like when there's people expecting something from you or
who are counting on you you have to be there so like I worked in a drug and
alcohol treatment center for over three years and we specialize in mental health
and one of the one of the worst parts about it was was like I followed up with
all the clients after they left I've talked to clients I talked with their
family members and everything like that and I experienced a lot of death a lot
of death all right and sometimes I would get a phone call about death right
before I had to do a group and that is one of the reasons why I
have to work so hard on my mental health even though I do you know the rewired so
full time now like the YouTube channel writing books and all that like I still
have to be mentally well for all of you like imagine if I got the phone call
that somebody passed away and I'm like hey everybody sorry I can't do I can't
do a group screw all of you but my mental health is screwed up and I need
to you know whatever right and like don't get me wrong like I do think that
more companies and businesses do need to allow for it you know mental health days
and things like that but like part of a lot of our jobs is that we have to work
through it like one of the reasons that I didn't take a bunch of sick days when
I was working there or anywhere else is because other people are relying on me
for me to just like take a day off like now don't get me wrong if I was sick I
took a day off cuz I get everybody else say well I'm just saying like one of
those lazy sick days like other people have to pick up my slack and that I
think is what people are really upset about
so in Jacqueline Hills case or some of your case like you have to trudge
through it you have to work through it you have to get through that even though
you're not mentally well during that time you still have to show up you have
to suit up and handle that business and once everything is taken care of now you
can take your mental health break but kind of like that commenter said like
not everybody is cut out for this like there's a lot of things that people want
to do but they're not cut out for it like when I look at Jaclyn Hills case
but it's not just Jaclyn hill it's a lot of us right like we don't like asking
for help and I see this a lot with entrepreneurs and business owners where
they don't hire certain teams or whatever to save money and all this
other stuff but then all of the pressure goes on them right because CEOs of
bigger companies like if if they were in Jacqueline Hills position they have
teams of people who are designed to handle this stuff right so it's not just
one person managing all this so if you're a control freak like just realize
how you being controlling is affecting your mental health okay but in the case
of Jacqueline Hill here's something that I want you all to think about
which kind of bothers me when I see people saying oh she's just using mental
health as an excuse none of that like we see this all the time we see so many
people saying that and I really hope that people understand the difference
between mental health being an excuse or being a reason alright because there's a
big difference now don't get me wrong some people do use it as an excuse but
what happens is my worry is the stigma my worry is that other people will be
afraid to talk about their mental health in fear that other people are going to
say you're just making an excuse you see what I mean because just people watching
this and reading these comments they might be like oh well I can't open up
about my mental health or people will just think that I'm making an excuse for
this and here's the thing we need more people talking about mental health not
less all right but the last thing I want to say is therapy therapy therapy
therapy I wish I wish that once once youtubers hit like a certain a certain
amount of subscribers or fan any celebrity any person like even if you're
just working your way up the corporate ladder like you had to have a therapist
you just absolutely had to have a therapist I had my therapy appointment
this morning a cougar like I was able to talk to my therapist about being anxious
about my launch of my book and everything like that we were able to
talk through it I was able to break down like you know these fears and these
belief systems and everything like that like if you have the resources see a
dang therapist like there is nothing there's nothing good about taking a
break if you're not working to improve and strengthen your mental health so I
do hope the best for someone like Jacqueline Hale but I hope she's doing
something with this break and not just trying to put out the fires but also
like seeking a therapist and it proven a mental health maybe it'll help her like
the last video I did retrace her steps and help her take in the criticism and
see what other people are seeing because the problem is a lot of us are so
delusional and we lack this self-awareness that we don't understand
why everybody's so upset right we can't see it so a therapist can help us see
what that issue is right and like this is why I make these videos because so
many of you are sitting back here judging Jacqueline Hill
looking at oh she screwed up this launch and everything like that but what should
ask you right like what are you doing like are you somebody who is just
completely lacking self-awareness and you don't know why it seems like the
whole world's out to get you is it because you're not noticing
something about yourself you need to work on that ish alright but anyways I
do hope jaclyn hill comes out on the other side of this thing i hope this
gets straightened out i hope she does not give up on her
dreams or her passions but she definitely does need to improve alright
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