On this video, I'm going to give you some lines that are going to help
women chase you and pick you up. If you've been watching this channel for the past year or so,
you know I've been talking a lot about getting a woman to chase you where it sounds like oh, that's
nice. That's a nice thing to have. But in reality, it's the thing that you need to do. If you want to
build attraction, get a woman interested in you, get her invested in you, you need to get her to
chase you. You need to execute on the principles to make this happen. I'm going to be going over
some of that theory today and some of the examples of what it looks like, some lines that you can
use word for word to get her to come chase you. What happens when you get to the point when a
woman starts to chase you and go after you is you get to the point where she wants to see you again,
she wants to have sex with you, she wants to get into a relationship with you.
It's kind of crazy. But this is very powerful stuff and it's interesting. I see a lot of guys
who comment on the channel who I don't even know why they're even watching these videos,
who like to be haters and say things like oh, this guy doesn't know what he's talking about. Just be
yourself. You don't need this stuff. This stuff doesn't work. First of all, this stuff absolutely
works. If you don't believe me, try it and you'll see. But you have to understand that you want to
tap into the principles that make attraction work. It's not about trying to become someone different.
It's just following the rules. There's reasons why women are attracted to men. There's reasons why
men are attracted to women. And the good news is, you can tap into that. You can hack your way into
that. It's very important that you use this for those reasons. Let me give you the examples so
you understand what this looks like and then I'll explain why it works. The first one is this (and I
use this same word, which you'll see in a second twice in two different lines.) The first one is
"I'm actually slammed this week. How about next week?" What's the context of this? When you are
talking to a girl and you're setting up plans (and by the way, I hope this is true. I don't want you
to say this to say it.) But you say "I'm actually slammed this week, how about next week?" When you
say that to her when you're setting up plans, this shows her that you're busy, that you have a life,
that you have other things to attend to, that you're not desperate for her. Because neediness
is the number one unattractive trait. This line is powerful because it embodies the idea of
social proof. I'm going to go into that in just a second. Let's go to the next one because
it's all related here. The next one is "hey sorry, I've been slammed. How you holding up?"
This is a text message one. "Hey sorry, I've been slammed, but how you holding up?" So let's say she
text messages you and you don't respond for a while because you're actually busy. Well good,
be actually busy and then say to her "you know what, I've been slammed. I've been busy. I'm doing
stuff, but how you holding up?" So it balances it. It's not like you're pushing her away like sorry,
I'm slammed. Don't text me. You want to reward her a little bit but show her you've been busy. "Yeah,
I've been slammed, but how you've been holding up?" And then asking her how she's doing. And
then of course, if this is over text message, you want to continue to set up a date. Let's talk
about social proof for a second in terms of what I'm talking about here. Social proof is the idea
that there is proof that other people like you. They want you and they have your attention in
time. And this shows her oh, there must be something about this guy. This is a key principle
in persuasion. This idea that you want something that other people want. If you're with a girl
or a girl is with you and you see that that person has a lot of attention on them and they're busy,
you crave more of that. Of course, you can lie and you can copy and paste these messages
and not be slammed and sitting eating Cheetos and watching TV. But hopefully
this shows you which I've been talking a lot about on my other videos that you want
to remain busy. You want to keep busy, you want to be doing things so you're not focused on her.
And then you want to communicate that. That's the whole idea here. Let's communicate this
to her and let her know so she understands. Oh, this guy's not desperate. He's got a life
and he's someone who is valuable. The next one is called a false time constraint. I didn't make this
up. This is something that was created by the old pickup community somewhere probably around
20 years ago in the early millennia. And this one works very well. I'm giving credit to where
credit is due. It's not something that I made up. I did create the last two but this one is
too powerful so I have to share it with you. It's called a false time constraint. Basically what it
means is when you're going over and you're approaching a woman and you're starting to
pick her up and have a conversation, whatever it may be. You go over there you say "hey,
I have to go in a second but..." and then you give your opening line. And by the way, your opening
line doesn't have to be anything crazy. It can be as simple as hey, I wanted to come meet you.
So "hey, I have to go in a second but I wanted to come meet you." "Hey, I have to go in a second.
But I want to come meet you." What this is showing is that you are busy. You have things going on
and that you are not going to be super attentive to her. This releases the pressure. It allows
you two to have a conversation without her feeling pressured and makes her want to stay in the
conversation because she doesn't know who you are yet. You're a threat at this point. Okay, you're a
threat. You're this guy invading her space. What's going on? This is a great little intro to use
before your opening line "hey listen, I have to go in a second. But blah blah whatever it may be.
Use that and incorporate that in your approaches when you're going out and you're talking to women.
It really just gets her guard down and makes it easier to get in there. I'm going to tell
you how to use this in just a second. But real quick, I want to tell you there are more of these
lines and more all about flirting in my module called Effortless Flirting which is inside of
my Hooked program. I'll put a link down below at www.getherhooked.com. That's a full course
that teaches you how to meet women, how to have conversation that makes it interesting,
and builds the tension and gets her chasing you. If you want the full course on how to do that,
check it out down below. What are you going to do now that you know these lines and you
are aware of how this all works? What's the next step for you? Use one of these lines. Take one
of these lines and implement them. I want you to try this out. Specifically I think the false time
constraint is the most practical that you can use right now. The other ones are ones that are more
in the context of if you're talking to a girl. You might not be talking to any girls right now so
try the false time constraint. Go up to a girl and say "hey listen, I gotta go. But I wanted...
I have to go in a second but I wanted to come and meet you and whatever your opening line is.
Try that out, see how it works. Come report here. And by the way, I'm putting out a lot
more videos lately so if you want to make sure that you're getting the notifications of those,
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and hope this helps. I'll see you on the next video. Use it. It works and good luck.