Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com.
I know that there's a big debate in the dating advice community on the internet and the pickup
community all about the idea of money.
There's a lot of comments that guys write.
I see it all the time on my YouTube comments, on my YouTube Live comments, on my Instagram
page that if you want to get a girl interested in you, you gotta have a lot of money.
Here's the truth about this, yes, of course, money is great.
It gets you things, money is a is a way to be able to have a really nice lifestyle if
you have a lot of it and if that's what you're interested in.
If you have a lot of money, a girl is not gonna bat her eye at that.
She's gonna be like, oh, awesome, this guy has money.
That means that she could be part of an awesome lifestyle.
Okay, so yes, people like money, you like money.
I like money, women like money.
And that's okay.
However where people are wrong is that they think money is the thing that gets women attracted
that that is the thing like, all this money is the thing that women are interested in.
Sure, can't disagree.
There are women out there who are complete gold diggers and who are after men for their
money and nothing else and they want to live a very lush lifestyle.
However, money is not the most important thing.
In fact, money is actually one of the biggest causes of breakups and divorces because people
can't agree on it.
And sometimes, of course, because there's not enough.
But really because people look at money in a different way.
But how do women see money?
I'll tell you right now, women see money as a symbol of success and security.
Let's talk about the success part.
Success.
If you are making money that means that you are successful at what you do.
Being successful and being very good at what you do, is it very welcome to attract and
trade and in some ways, it's it's a masculine trait, because you're showing that you're
putting a lot of energy and direct focus and attention into one thing, and really being
very dominant with that one thing, and you're doing very well at it.
And that is very masculine, but it's also just very attracted, because you're very passionate.
Women like that.
Now, here's the deal.
Successful doesn't mean that you have to be a millionaire, it doesn't even mean you have
to be making or cracking six figures, you can still be very good at your job, and not
making that much money, okay.
But if you do have money is a sign of success.
Now, here's the thing, you could be six figures, you could be a millionaire, and you can still
be broke, you could be making, let's say 30 or $40,000 a year, and still be I wouldn't
say wealthy, but at least very comfortable in your situation.
It all depends on how you spend money.
So if you're thinking, well, triple girl never gonna like me, I'm making, you know, 25 $30,000
a year, I'm very good at what I do.
But I'm not really making that much money will still there's ways that you can figure
out how to spend money, there's ways you can figure out how to save their people who have
low incomes, that still figure out how to be able to manage a lifestyle that can be
still good for a relationship.
Ok.
So again, it's great, try to make a lot of money, try to make as much money as you can,
that would be great, then you can have a lifestyle, that's awesome.
But don't make money to attract women make money.
So you can have amazing lifestyle for you.
And of course, a woman will like that, but we're not making money for women.
Okay, I don't want to get to all over the place here.
So let me just rewind a little bit.
Understand that money is a good thing, you should have money you should be saving, you
should not be in tremendous amounts of debt.
And if you are, you should figure out how to get out of that.
But what I'm saying here is that a woman, she wants to make sure that if she joins you,
if she is part of your relationship with you, maybe a marriage with you, maybe kids with
you, then you guys are not going to be struggling financially.
Can you blame her who who wants that?
I know you don't want that you don't want to struggle financially.
And of course, she should be doing her part, if that's what you're looking for, for women
to be making money as well, and you guys combining, or maybe you're making enough money, and she
can stay at home and raise the kids, it doesn't matter, whatever kind of lifestyle you want.
But of course, she wants to know as a guy, you have your life in order that you're making
enough money to survive.
And then you're making enough money to be able to live a good and normal life.
And this is part of what it looks like to be successful.
Now on the other hand, this is also combined with the idea of security, right?
Of course, like I said, if she joins you, she wants to make sure you guys aren't strapped
for cash that you have that figured out.
And maybe you want to make sure she has that figured out again, I think I'm repeating myself
here when you get the idea.
Money is what makes you guys live, you need money, okay, let's not fight here.
Let's not be hippies here and say, Oh, we don't need money.
You do need money.
If you want to survive, if you want to feed yourself.
If you want to have entertainment in your life, if you want to travel, if you want to
do things, you need money.
So money is a good thing.
Don't think of it as a bad thing.
She is not looking to it to be attracted to you.
Some women are like I said, but that's not the main reason why she's going for you attraction
comes from the symbol of what money is.
And that is you being passionate and good at what you do.
It's very attractive to a woman, when you like what you do for a living when you're
doing it well.
And when she can see you do it.
Well, that's just really like off for her because that is what the man is supposed to
be doing.
He is supposed to be on his path on his purpose, and really focused on something and creating
something.
And it can be anything you want.
There's no job left out of this, I don't care if you're an engineer, I don't care.
If you're an entrepreneur, I don't care if you're a teacher, whatever it is, as long
as you love what you do, and you're good at it, or you're trying to be good at this is
what is attractive.
Now, I want you to check out my program called Hooked.
And the reason why I want you to check this out is because this program is going to teach
you what attraction is really about.
You're probably thinking it's about looks and money.
And it's not.
It's about building tension.
It's about being attractive in a way where you can display your personality.
So it's not so much about the outer qualities like money and looks and fame and status and
things like that.
Of course those things do help a little bit.
But it's more important to learn how to be able to attract her with your behavioral traits,
the way that you behave in front of her.
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