what to do when you realize what it is you really want stay tuned hey this is
Damon Cart from NLP gym bringing you cutting-edge neural linguistic
programming tools and techniques to help you create the life that you desire so
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clicking the card right here quick recap first video you learn to stop making
excuses excuses are just distracting you from what it is that you want and in
some cases it's distracting you from what it is that you don't really want
that you were maybe feeling outside pressure to want something that you
didn't want to now you know that you've unburdened yourself with that you stop
distracting yourself with making excuses and then the next part is you get in
touch with that lack of satisfaction then the dissatisfaction that you
experience but you've typically been using other distractions to distract you
from that lack of satisfaction you push those distractions out you allow
yourself to get in touch with that not so good feeling but it's that feeling
when you connect with it that then allows you to connect with what it is
you want instead of the unsatisfactory feeling so once you do all that and you
have a clarity about what it is that you want what do you do now now it's time to
make your game plan now it's time to go to work on yourself
and this is not a one-and-done kind of thing now you're watching the NLP gym
Channel the whole idea about this channel is using NLP practicing NLP
learning NLP as if you were going to a gym to work out when you go work out you
don't go work out one time and think that you're healthy for the rest of your
life and you've got it all figured out I fell into this trap many times not with
working out but with in personal development I thought that I could go
and set some goals and accomplish them and then everything was gonna be great
or I even got to the point where I was studying non-duality and I thought if I
just become enlightened then everything will take care of itself I'll have this
whole life thing sorted out I won't be frustrated I won't experience the
negativity that I experience are the down times or the depression that didn't
work out either what I finally came to terms with is that just like working out
just like keeping your body healthy just like keeping your muscles strong you
have to work on you on a regular basis you have to work on you to be happy to
create the life that you want to achieve the goals that you want
so where's your plan what are you doing most people aren't consistently working
on themselves they're not consistently investing in themselves and probably the
excuses that they're using is they don't have the time and they don't have the
money if you don't have the time and the money to invest in you
where are you investing your time and where are you investing your money if
you're investing your time and money into other things other people's dreams
other people's businesses what's left for you now you might go get a cup of
coffee once a week or maybe twice a week and let's say it's twice a week that's
about ten dollars a week on coffee at the end of the month you've spent $40 on
coffee which is gone there's no return on that investment you drank the coffee
and you probably got some joy and pleasure out of it but now it's gone
what are you investing in then that is lasting what is what are you investing
in that is creating big change in your life really creating the life that you
desire instead of these short-term small incremental little things that you enjoy
now I'm not saying you should go straight austerity and cut all of those
things out of your life absolutely not we need those things to a certain
but who you're really investing in is the person who owns that coffee shop but
let's just be clear about that now there's nothing wrong with that like I
said but how much time and money are you investing in yourself and you're
investing in your improvement your own training in order to get the life that
you want to that you want to have most people I talk to you aren't doing this
on a regular basis they don't spend regular time with themselves planning
this out achieving goals working on their their physical health working on
their mental health getting clear about what it is they want having a clear plan
to create that and if so if you're one of those people you might be thinking
well I don't really have a clear plan a lot of you have taken and have taken NLP
trainings and you thought that that might have give that to you just by
learning NLP you thought maybe you know maybe I'll be able to come up with all
this stuff I'll just naturally create the life that I want to live now that
was not true from my experience and that's not true for most people's
experience did a lot of the things a lot of what I hear a lot of the complaints
that I hear about NLP training is well I don't have the time and I don't have the
money I for the people who do take the training they might say I don't have the
time to practice or I've learned the skills I've learned the tools I can do
this processes and techniques but when I go into my everyday life I don't know
how to apply it or if I get to do it or I can't do it like I do it in practice
that's another one that I hear often I hear that probably but that's probably
the most common one that I hear so you may even be learning NLP you may even
know NLP but you're not really applying it to your life effectively to create
the life that you want now some of you also have practiced the techniques
practice the processes and the tools but it's just not working yeah and you're
not sure why it's not working I run into that a lot as well so the big
announcement is is that I am creating a gym membership I am creating a
membership program an ongoing membership program that is inexpensive and is not
time-consuming wanted to take away all of your excuses
and more importantly I wanted to make this available to everyone I wanted to
make this available to everyone who is ready to start creating the life that
they desire of course I'm using NLP the focus though is not really to learn NLP
of course we will be doing that but that's not the focus the focus is
applying NLP the focus is creating the life that you want to live using NLP the
gym membership program is not open yet I haven't released all the details about
it I'm just putting it out there and now I will soon be releasing the details for
it so if you are interested in this you can get on my email list you can make a
comment right down below right here and I'll let you know more details as they
come out I want to go back to the the roots of NLP Jim now I want to go back
to when we were getting together and we're just breaking this stuff down and
making the changes in our lives that you're capable of that will satisfy you
that will rid you of all the distractions and all the excuses and
more than anything give you that incremental work that overtime is
exponential think about this if you're not doing any work with yourself you're
not taking the time to sit down and invest in your improvement where are you
going to end up in the next year or where are you going to be in 10 years
versus imagine just spending one hour a week with yourself one hour a week where
you work on improving yourself and your life that's 52 hours a year just think
where you'll be one year from now if you spent 52 hours working on you and then
just think 10 years from now 10 years times 52 hours are you going to be much
further along are you going to be much closer or maybe even possibly achieved
all that you want by then or what if you do nothing if you do absolutely not
then you don't do any work on yourself you don't take the time or maybe you do
sporadically you don't have a plan you don't have a time that you set aside to
do this you don't have a mentor or a coach or a guide or any of those things
and you just float through life for the next year the next ten years where are
you going to be then so the whole idea behind this is for all of us to get
together as a group as a community and work on this together and really not
just learn NLP but apply NLP to make the changes in your life that you want to
that you want to make and to create the life that you desire not just achieve
goals to really create the life that you want to live that you're going to be
happy and fulfilled living so all of that is what you're looking for and
you're ready to get started like I said more details are coming but go ahead and
shoot me an email put a comment down below and let's keep this conversation
going check out my website NLP-gym.com there you will find some free NLP
training as well as some free hypnotic inductions that you can download
directly to your phone your laptop your tablet or your desktop computer and get
immediate access also check out NLP gem on Facebook I
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