Welcome to Landria Onkka on YouTube here to help you break through fears and live an awesome life. Alright my
Friends who have ordered my t-shirt and copy cup
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Friend of mine who?
Sends me messages said I look at my coffee cup and I remind myself. What am I?
Manifesting. Well today we are going to talk about oh
I lost my train of thought we're gonna talk about how you can turn any situation around and
I'm going to demonstrate something to you. That's gonna make this very clear
it's still gonna challenge you because it's not easy to turn a negative situation around because sometimes we're just
Having a tough time seeing the world differently
Then then it appears to be at the moment
appears to be not is okay, so
Here's here's what I'm going to do with you. I'm gonna give you just one thing to think about
You know how I love to give you simple steps
So we're gonna take a negative situation where you feel like
Get me off the planet
Dear Lord, could it get any worse? Why is this happening me?
I'm a good person, you know, a lot of you are just amazing people giving loving sweet people
You're like why am I the one that's struggling or whatever?
You're not
You're not the one struggling everybody is
But you're seeing it differently and you
Absolutely have something going on. That's
Creating the situation's alright, and you're accepting it
so I did a video just before this called asking it is given which I
Use the term give and that's what you're receiving
I always like to give first I don't want to ask
Ask I'm I'm gonna ask I want something and you're supposed to give it to me
There's no giving in that so when you're giving when you're giving that's a more
Putting they're more expansive more. Joyful. I'm abundant
Don't lack anything and then I received that I received what I get. So when you are in a negative situation
All right, so, you know how you feel? It's it's very hopeless. I've been there before
It's like how do I get out of this? It just seems like a huge thing to Chapel
it's like if you don't have a job or you're struggling paying your bills, or
Relationship breakup and just really in the depths of the darkness, right?
We've all been there dark night over the soul and some people, you know
It's possible to go into that. Even if you have everything some people feel like oh my god, I have everything and
I'm feeling just so lost and and I have no purpose and as we know we've seen some very famous
You know have everything going for them
People kill themselves right actors and some other amazing people they exited they just couldn't take anymore
So my question to you is, you know, if you're in that situation or you're in a situation where you just feel very lost
That's a that's a big word for a lot of people just feeling lost. What is it?
I'm supposed to be doing I just don't feel purpose or whatever. I want you to remember
how do you
feel when you are on top of the world when you get that big check or you got the job or you got the
Relationship and something amazing comes to you. How do you feel?
How do you see the world?
I'm
Pretty sure that the majority of people
Will tell me that they don't have any problems that all of a sudden the person that bothered you. It's no big deal or
Something happens and you find it funny instead of you know
Getting ticked off or just the things that you know might bother you if you're not doing well
It's not a big deal and all of a sudden the world is right and everything's wonderful and you feel great and ah
They're funny in oh my boss. He's annoying
But oh, well, you know right don't we do this where we are projecting on the world what we're feeling in here?
you can do that constantly, but where people go off paths is when
when we
Expect the outside world to do that for us. So we're waiting for the job the relationship the money
to get us to that place where everybody's wonderful and they don't bother us and then as soon as we lose that
We go into oh that boss is a jerk and I want to get the situation and you know
I'm not worthy and oh, I can't stand that purse you get very jealous, right?
Because like somebody has something and they're greedy and they're mad blah blah
They're putting their wealth in front of my face and like and you know, if you had the wealth you'd be going. Hey, hey, bro
It's just that yeah, and so that what is that? That's all ego-driven
then then you know that the outside world is
Controlling everything for you
Yeah, that's not you don't want to be there because you will go on a rollercoaster ride
When you control that and you find that internal, peace no matter what's going on out there
You can be the happy person
Even if you I'm not saying you have to be jumping up and down like excited about you know
Struggling in any situation you can still experience that but it doesn't dictate your happiness. So you turn around and say you know what?
I'm going to go into a space where if I had all these things and they were wonderful
How would I feel and not because that solves my problem sir?
That makes me happy and this is why you know, I have nothing against anybody winning the lottery
It's when you think the lottery is gonna solve your problems and that's not that's not just the lottery
It's anything if you think the relationships gonna solve your problems
If you think that job's gonna solve your problems then that is the if I get this then everything you'll be okay
that's 100 percent ego driven and you absolutely
Will battle staying happy all the time because you're relying on all those things to happen. You'll always get challenges and probably more
When you are ego driven because it's trying to your own higher powers helping to break out of it
insane see, you know
You're going to lose this to realize that it doesn't make you happy and fine when you come to that realization
You're gonna go Bing and that's where awakening comes in. It's like I can't get any lower than this
Let it all go and you realize oh
None of this matters, none of it. None of its gonna make me happy. I'm just I'm done. I'm tired of
Struggling and suffering, right? So then you go into this awakened state you realize
None of this controlled my happiness. I can go to that state in that peace in a moment. Now. Here's your challenge
When you are in a situation, you're asking yourself. Why am I feeling badly right now?
Because I'm not getting what I want on the outside world
That's easy. That's a no-brainer, right?
But that is the ego that is in control now again, I'm not saying you won't experience
You know negative feelings or sadness or whatever but when you react against it or struggle it against it
That's when you go into a negative space and you fuel and give it power
My exercise today is not to fuel and give it power
So even I'm not telling you you're gonna go, you know, what happened around skipping around town all happy in this moment
But when you're fueling it
Saying you don't want it
Then you are absolutely focused on the very thing that you don't want which is the outside world
Which is controlling you, you're not happy and then it's this constant
I'm continually creating creating it and that's why so many of you continue to struggle with
finances and relationships and everything else
Right, you're so you're so
Focused on battling it and not wanting it. You're actually creating that
So I tell you go into it go straight into it. Look at it say okay
I'm broke all the time. And then when I get money, I'm broke again. Why why is this happening?
Well, something's got to change here
I cannot continue to be the same person and I do not want to be on that roller coaster of my ego having to have
Thing a certain way to be happy. I must change this
So which means I've got some spiritual
You know searching to do some work some meditation asking for the answers going into that space where I know
that this is not my happiness and
I must let that go and let it flow by like cloud and experience those feelings without
Failing them and saying I'm not gonna battle them. I'm gonna change it. I'm gonna change this
This is not what makes me happy and I can turn anything around
I'm done. I'm done saying it shouldn't be this way. It should be this way why I created it for a reason
What am I supposed to learn from this because I am not acting like the person whose abundant
I am not thinking that way I'm not doing the things that an abundant person would do. I'm not changing my patterns and
Until I do that this will continue to come around to me
So this is purposeful and it's good because it gives me the opportunity to change this situation
And all of a sudden the world can look good for me
I don't have to be angry at anybody else for doing anything because I'm feeling bad about myself
I'm not gonna project that out there because you
Receive what you give right you receive what you give so if you're projecting that out anger and they have money and that you're saying
People shouldn't flourish. I shouldn't flourish
It's bad day have money. I'm it's bad for me to have money because you're one of them you're whatever you're looking at
That's you. Oh
That person real Bowman. Oh that person
So I'm gonna ask you right now can you change this yes, you can turn all of this around all of it
Right now you can turn around and say okay
Here's the situation. I'm
Struggling with it. I don't want it. I'm gonna go into it and I'm gonna say
The world can be right and it's not going to be wrong because I'm not getting what I want. That's ego based
I am going to get happy right because I can change anything
and I
Imagine myself as that abundant happy person not because I got the stuff
but because that feeling that I get when I have this stuff
Can exist in any situation?
it really can I
Know it's tough. You're telling me I can feel like that when I broke
Well, you try and pay your bill Halen. I'm struggling. Remember I used to eat macaroni cheese
Every day I sprung for the 25 cents box. Not the 10 cent box
Kraft Kraft macaroni and cheese my mom cried when she found out I was living off of macaroni and cheese
So we've all we've all had our challenges it wasn't so bad I look how many times do you look back?
Finally on they go
I remember when we used to put our money together to go get french fries
Right 58 cents that I put in my gas tank to get home from school
From college. Oh
Yeah, you look back like you right ladies have a baby you're not thinking oh my god, I'll never do that again
You might think that at the time
but these are the these are the
lessons and this is the journey that
Makes us who we are and it's what you do with it on that journey
That's gonna determine everything from this moment forward you're creating right now. So if you're in a negative situation ask yourself,
How am I gonna turn this around? I must take action to be a different person I must
Think like the person who has everything because if I do that that's exactly what I'm gonna create and you guys stay on it
It's gonna be the toughest thing you have ever done because this outside world appears. So real
You're so not this
We're so not any of this and it's tough because we feel we feel and experience this material world
Very challenging very challenging. So that's okay. You're still in control
You get to do it all you're a whole imperfect strong and powerful loving harmonious and happy
blessings to you my friend namaste