Hey, this is Mat Boggs.
Welcome.
I thought today I’d bring you to one of my most favorite places on the planet – this
is Huntington Beach, California – to talk about a question that gets asked quite often
in my community, which is, “What do conscious men really want when it comes to relationships
and women?”
So let’s have a seat and we’ll chat about it.
So I thought this would be the perfect place to address this particular subject because
there’s a story that I think epitomizes the whole concept of what do men want when
it comes to relationships?
And it starts with this guy walking on a beach a lot like this and he stubs his toe and when
he reaches down and he picks it up, it’s a lamp!
And as he’s checking this lamp out, he rubs the lamp and a genie pops out of this lamp
and the genie says, “Ow.
Ah.
Thank you.
I’ve been trapped in that lamp for thousands of years and you freed me.
Thank you so much.
Oh man, I was crunched in there.
You know what?
In appreciation for you freeing me from the lamp, I’m gonna give you one wish.
Anything you want.
What’s one wish that you would love?”
The man thinks to himself and he’s sitting on the beach and he says, “You know what?
I’ve always wanted to go to Hawaii.
But I hate flying.
I will not fly and a boat would take way too long.
So I want you to build me a road, a highway from California to Hawaii.”
And the genie thinks about it and the genie’s like, “Oh my God.
That’s over 2,400 miles.
You know the depth of the ocean and the currents and the amount of concrete?
That is just a Herculean effort to get a bridge from California all the way to Hawaii.
Is there anything else that you want besides that?”
And the man thinks to himself and he goes, “All right, well, you know what?
I want to know what women want.
I’ve always been confused.
What do women really want when it comes to men and relationships?”
And the genie looks at him and he goes, “How many lanes do you want that highway?”
And the reason that joke is humorous, you know, anything that’s funny is always like
partly true and that men have been confused for years about what is it that woman really
want.
So if you want to know what conscious men want, conscious men want to know what women
want.
We want to know what you want.
And if you think about why is that?
What’s the underlining desires, the underlining desires for why we want to know what you want,
we want to know what you want because we want to deliver happiness to you.
You want to know what conscious men want?
Conscious men want you to be happy.
We want you to be happy for a couple reasons.
Number one is when you’re happy and you’re appreciating us and you’re in a good mood,
it subconsciously communicates that we’re doing a good job as a provider, we’re providing
and experience that you absolutely love, putting you in a good state.
This signals that we are good men.
And when you’re happy, you’re much more likely to make love with us, to have sex with
us, and that’s something that we also really want.
So conscious men want your happiness and we want to have sex because that’s part of
what makes us up as a man.
You know, after interviewing literally hundreds of men who had been married over 40 years,
they all had this one saying that they would say and that is, “Happy wife, happy life.
If momma ain’t happy, ain’t nobody happy.”
And that is because out happiness is tied to you being happy because it means we’re
doing a good job as a provider for you.
So my question for you is this, and I would love to hear from you in the comments: What
is it that makes you happy?
What is it that you really want when it comes to love and a relationship?
And post that comment below because one of the most powerful and sexy four-letter words
you have to use in a relationship is W-A-N-T, want.
When you’re able to clearly communicate what you want, clearly communicate what you
would love to your man, that is what I call a blueprint to your happiness and that is
one of the attraction triggers for men because that way we have the plan, we know what it
looks like to deliver happiness to you.
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