Hallo powerful
galactic beings, welcome back to another video. A spiritual narcissist is someone who appears
to be very spiritual, but has no true personal development, or deep knowledge of any spiritual
tradition. They use spirituality as a way to make themselves feel special or better than others,
when in reality they are really lonesome and looking for narcissistic supply.
A person who uses spirituality, esoterism, or religiousness to manipulate and exploit others.
Most spiritual narcissists are covert narcissists. Overt narcissists express their narcissism through
a belief that they are special and exceptional. Covert narcissists often express their narcissism
through a belief that they belong to an organization or movement (i.e. a religious,
spiritual, or esoteric movement) that’s special and exceptional. When you encounter people who
publicly and frequently claim to be any of the below, or claim to have accomplished any of the
below- without having any objective evidence to support their claims- consider it a red flag that
you might be dealing with a covertly narcissistic personality. These are the spiritual or esoteric
identities covertly narcissistic personalities are currently claiming to be: Empath, Super Empath,
Intuitive Empath, Heyoka Empath, Twin Flame, Spiritual Warrior, Light Healer, Energy Healer,
Enlightened or Spiritual God or Goddess. They even claim to be very Clairvoyant or Clairsentient.
Spiritual narcissism is much more subtle and sneaky than narcissistic personality disorder.
It can strike all of us, before we even realize our inner peacock has been aroused.
“Simply stated, spiritual narcissism is the unconscious use of spiritual practice
and insight to increase rather than decrease self-importance.
Spiritual narcissism is the kind of unstructured rationalization that leads people to believe
whatever is most convenient, for their self-image at the moment. This is the person who becomes a
Catholic because they want an excuse to yell at sinners, and then claims only God can sit in
judgment, when they get caught sinning. Spiritual narcissism describes a narcissist who attempts to
use metaphysics to validate their behavior. This is a person who can't just do things,
they have to invent a justification for why the things they are doing are so right,
they are the most righteous things anyone could ever do, which is why they are doing them.
This can also describe the flavor of spirituality, in which the person petitions the deity for direct
intervention, or otherwise positions themselves at the center of the universe of their religion.
Narcissists lack genuine personalities. So, they mirror their targets. If you find you have “so
much in common" with a new person, your likes are their likes, and your dislikes are coincidentally
their dislikes as well, raise your antennas! They may be mirroring you. This is the soulmates hook.
You will also notice that they will spend more time telling you who they are,
rather than showing you. As time goes on, you will notice the words they used to describe themselves
do not fit their personality at all. But, they will fit yours, because you are not healed.
Passive-aggressive behavior and irrational and unexplained anger, are also major red flags.
Pay attention to how a person treats you the first time you say, “No.” Or when things don't go their
way. If they give you the silent treatment, grow cold, and pull away, do not overlook it.
Most importantly, if someone pulls away, or goes silent, after you set a boundary and
never pursue them. This is how they groom you to be the chaser in the relationship.
It's emotional abuse and manipulation. Pay close attention to people who portray themselves as
victims. Nothing is ever their fault. Everyone including the family pet, has done them wrong. All
of their ex's are crazy and mistreated them. They are great, but no one appreciates said greatness.
Simply put, it is not good. No one should have a laundry list of bad experiences.
If they do run, because they are the common denominator.
Narcissists tend to have a history of failed or short-term relationships.
Believe it or not, it's hard for Narcissists to find people to deal with them long term,
due to their instability and poor behavior. They don't have anyone they are genuinely close to.
This is due to their inability to bond and form true attachments to people. Their relationships
are shallow and based on surface-level. They will refer to someone as their best friend.
but you will notice they barely speak. Or, that the person is never really around them.
Or, only shows up when it's time to party, and so on. They may also speak down on poorly of said
best friend behind their back. Narcissists tend to be condescending, two-faced and downright mean.
Based on my experience, they cannot talk about deep subjects (like fears or emotions).
Or how a situation truly made them feel. Or, what their childhood was like in detail.
They don't want to go there. It is because they can't. They don't know themselves well
enough. They can't connect on a deeper level. They also live in a world of dishonesty.
They are very dishonest with themselves about who they truly are. Underlying issues between
Narcissists and their Mother's (abuse, neglect, don’t get along, and so on), seems to be common.
People that who have displayed strong Narcissistic tendencies, all had bad
relationships with their Mothers. Their Mother's also displayed strong Narcissistic traits.
There are healthy adults who have toxic Mother's. However, if you are spotting several red flags
in an individual, including this one and pay closer attention. If you ever feel the
need to ask yourself, “Who in the hell is this person?”, you will know you may be dealing with a
Narcissist. Narcissists are painfully inconsistent (their pathology and dysfunction is consistent).
None of what they do makes sense. What they do and say in the beginning, will never add up once
the newness wears off. They leave you with tons of unanswered questions. You don’t feel that way when
you are interacting with other people. Most people are consistent in their thoughts and behavior.
You feel a comfortable familiarity, with time. Narcissists cannot provide that feeling,
because they lack a true identity. Once they stop mirroring you (they get bored with pretending),
you will see you have no clue as to who he or she is. When you spend too much time around a
narcissist, they will invariably reduce you down to their low vibrational level.
Everything the narcissist does, all the narcissist's harm inflicted upon you, is done to
protect their delicate ego, and obtain supply of course. It may seem the narcissist actively wants
to harm you out of spite; but that is usually not the case, typically narcissists harm you to
protect themselves, although it may be hard to see any real distinction. Maybe you live in the
same household as a narcissist, so any sign they see you may be chirpier than them, more uplifted,
at a given moment, prompts them to use a weapon in their armory to cause your energy to crash.
Maybe they blame you for something. Maybe they stare at you as if you have done something wrong,
but don't tell you what. Maybe they poke at your badly resolves issues or past traumas,
or any other trigger of yours, to cause you anxieties or even to get a rise out of
you. You may notice you have more demonic thoughts when spending much time around the narcissist. You
may find you get mental flashes of skulls or other things which you have seen in past horror movies.
You may find new, or old nightmares recurring. Narcissists are accompanied by bad entities.
If you spend too much time around them, these entities end up becoming your company too.
Narcissism is a spiritual problem, and narcissists are the center of their own universes. They are
the focal point around which all else revolves. They thin k they are more special than others,
more entitled, more grand, more beautiful, more deserving. Whether or not they have and
own everything, they should have every last thing. If anyone else has anything at all,
the narcissist is bitterly envious, for that thing should be his or hers. He or she is the only one
who counts in their own inner world. Others exist for the narcissist's service, pleasure and use.
If others have something the narcissist covets, be it a material or spiritual commodity.
then the narcissist must get it out of them, and if the thing cannot be gotten out of them.
then it must be destroyed, for every desirable thing in the narcissist's universe must belong
to the narcissist. Once any other no longer serves the purposes of the narcissist, once it has been
mined of valuables, it must be destroyed for the narcissist cannot have others owning his property.
The other must be so destroyed that either no others want it, or it is dead and disposed of.
The narcissist has no feelings about his or her destruction of others, or their suffering
while being destroyed, because he or she has no empathy. Others are not real to him or her.
For any truly, deeply feeling, empathetic person, I think it is simply inconceivable,
in the grand scheme of things. The human monstrosity described this above as the
result of a parental accident, or even abuse. Is it a coincidence that the entity described
as a narcissist is the same entity described as other-named evil entities in other holy texts?
These recorded testimonies, thousands of years old, believed to be the inspired Word of God,
were recorded in far-flung corners of the world. Especially, before the age of mass communication.
Yet all tell the same story, of an evil entity, a Prince of Darkness, who opposes the most high
creator, good, truth, light, love, and endeavors to darken the hearts of all men and women for
eternity, who wishes to dethrone the most high creator and rule over the hearts of men and women
in God's place. If you don't believe in God, you can change this term to Good, and the words speak
of the same truth. there are some truth in both perspectives. The child may be abused in the home.
There may be a psychological adaptation made as a means of coping with the abuse. Or there may
not be. There is scientific evidence now that the brains of narcissists lack the necessary
development to support empathy. I don't believe narcissism develops due to an accident of birth.
In my view, the egg comes before the chicken. I believe all material realities are germinated in
the spiritual world. Humans don't create spiritual reality. Spiritual reality creates humans.
A narcissist is a spiritual reality before he is a material, human narcissist.
From the spiritual perspective, this does not mean that narcissists are eternally
damned. It means they made a wrong choice in the eons-long, before the human journey to perfection.
They chose the quick, fraudulent path. They made this choice prior to their human births.
At least in some cases, they met auspicious circumstances once here. Destiny and fate are
intertwined. Also, we all choose wrongly before we develop the moral fiber to choose rightly.
We all travel the same path with our individual variations. If we have the strength to make good
choices, it is because we developed that strength through suffering the karma of our previous wrong
choices. Is it possible for a narcissist to be eternally damned? Of course no, because there
possibility of redemption unless they strives towards the light of truth, goodness and love.
I hope this video was helpful to you, see you in the next video. Peace, love and life.