Why are pictures so important when it comes down line dating? Pictures are everything. Let's just
break it down for a second. Can you imagine if a woman saw a profile and there were no pictures.
She would have no reason to swipe. I mean, that's on the obvious common sense
end of the spectrum. Now let's go a little bit further down the spectrum. Now you have pictures,
but they're crappy. They're low resolution, it's hard to tell who you are, it's like
you're wearing some clothes that don't look good on you. Maybe you're wearing sunglasses
covering your face. Maybe you're with a bunch of friends and can't tell who it is.
You got to understand that as much as men are more visual, men are more visual creatures. If they
end up seeing a woman, they're going to be more attracted to her at first due to how she looks.
Now, online dating... it's the same thing in terms of how women view it. In person you can get away
with being maybe not the most attractive guy and still attracting the woman because
your behavior is what goes further. And that's what makes her attracted in person. But online,
all you have is photos. You can be a little witty or whatever in your bio and that helps
too. But everything is based on your photos. So you want to have the best photos on your profile
so that you can have the best chance of her saying, oh this guy is an attractive guy. This
guy looks good. Yes. This guy is someone I want to swipe right on. The idea here is for a guy,
he might swipe right on a lot of women, on a lot of women, because it's visual, it's visual for
him. It's visual for him in terms of the fact that he is more attracted to a woman's looks
while women are also attracted to a man's looks as well. When it comes to doing this all online,
even though she's more attracted to his behavior in person, online it's all about what's happening
with the pictures because that's the only vibe that she can get from you. That's the only sense
that she has from you is those pictures. That's all she has to work off of. If you get
new pictures and nothing happens on your online dating profile... so you try to get new pictures,
the problem is a few things – one, it's possible that maybe you're a person who is not photogenic.
Your pictures just won't be that great in terms of what you look like and you're going to have to
do what you can do. This is also by the way, this is last resort we're talking here.
That your pictures are that bad, even if you get the most professional photos with the best person,
that they're that bad that nothing's happening. But by the way, I've never
seen that. I've never seen that. I've never seen someone go and get amazing professional photos
and they don't get matches, they don't get any matches. I've never seen that happen.
What I'm saying is as long as you get professional photos, you are
going to get matches. If you're not getting enough matches, then you need to be either
swiping more... you need to be swiping more... and you need to be spending more time on the apps.
And you need to be on more dating apps as a whole or dating sites. You need to be... you should be
spending at least an hour a day. You should be spending at least one hour a day swiping. If
you want to get the best results. If you want the optimal results to get the most matches,
you need to be swiping for one hour per day. Most people do that anyways and do even more than that.
My suggestion is you sit down for one hour at the same time every day and just swipe and message.
And by the way, that's it. You don't have to be worried about getting bombarded by messages all
day and having to respond. Just use that hour, say it's 5pm every single day, you'll use 5pm every
single day to go in there respond to the messages and do your swiping and that's it. Don't even open
the apps and sites until you go back the next day at the same time. If they message you on the app
in that hour you respond. But I would close down all your apps after the hour and not even
pay attention until the next day. Yes, you do not pay attention to any messages or anything
until the following day to make this a more efficient process for you. Also,
it's going to look like you're a person who is busy so you're not going to look needy if you're
just always very responsive. That helps too. Pictures are what helps tremendously. That's
what's going to get you over the edge. Most guys put the worst pictures up. They put bad angles
of them. One of the reasons why selfies are usually bad... there's all the statistics that
if you have selfies, like if a man has selfies on a dating app, statistically, it ends up that those
pictures do the worst... is because you're taking a selfie like this. You're putting your, you can't
see what I'm doing right now. But I'm putting my phone at this weird bottom angle. Guys don't
usually know how to take good angles, it's always too close and at a weird angle. That's why selfies
never look good. And that's why you need to have someone professional who's going to guide you and
get the best angles of you to make you look the best. After you get your dating profile pictures
then put them up then get on all the sites and then after that, you can start swiping. I would
completely delete your account. It's just a waste of time. You're not going to get the optimal
result of bad pictures. Delete all your accounts. Don't even start until you have good pictures.
Let me give you a little tip too. In every city, not every city has online dating photographers,
but some do. What you want to make sure you do is when you're trying to look for a photographer,
if there's no online dating photographers in your city, you can just get a wedding photographer.
Their whole job is taking pictures of people so they know how to take pictures of people
and that's what these pictures are, pictures of you. Getting a wedding photographer is a great
way of hiring someone to do your photos for you for your online dating profile.