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What's up?
TRISTAN: Last night after dinner,
Mia and I had got into an argument
that we never resolved.
So when she's upset, I'm upset.
Do you not remember how you were last night with me?
I was tired.
TRISTAN: You told me you were very disappointed in me
because I had told Dave that I'm still working
on rebuilding trust in you.
And it's like-- and you told me you were upset with me.
MIA: I had no idea about the trust issue until last night.
I was really upset about it.
Well, I just wish-- what I meant was that I just wish
you communicated that with me.
TRISTAN: I mean, I told you that there's a cloud hovering.
You don't know what, like, hell this has been for me.
And it was like, I actually needed somebody to talk to.
And I'm just like, dude, I've been going--
it's like, it's been so much.
MIA: Well, then that makes sense.
TRISTAN: And I'm sitting over there like, Dave, like--
and he was like, how's it going?
I said, yeah, we're still working
on rebuilding the trust.
I didn't say what it was about.
I didn't say that you had lied to me.
I just said that I am working on building trust with her,
but it's going to take some work.
It's-- you know, we're still fresh in this.
Yeah.
We have our frustrations with a lot of things.
Some from each other, some from outside sources.
But that's what a marriage is.
We just stay connected and get through it.
MIA: Yeah.
(SINGING) Dream on [inaudible] you belong.
TRISTAN: So do you guys want to go to the couch?
KATHY: OK. All right.
TRISTAN: [inaudible] I'm gonna sit right here.
KATHY: OK.
There is a lot at stake meeting with Tristan's mom.
I'm nervous because I don't know how she's going to respond.
So, what, two weeks?
The longest two weeks in the history of marriages.
MIA: Yeah. We met the other couples.
KATHY: Ooh, so how'd that go?
It was fun. I mean.
KATHY: How much did y'all share with the other couples?
TRISTAN: As far as the reason why we weren't, like,
there in Cancun?
We didn't want to focus on that.
And just talking about, like, whatever did happen,
it brought us closer together. KATHY: OK.
So and it's really accelerated the process.
And that's like what we're up-- like, opening in saying like,
hey, I love you.
They were just like-- MIA: Oh, yeah.
--they were, like, gasping, like.
That's a strong word for two weeks.
It's kind of quick for me.
Mia is absolutely amazing.
And she was worth fighting for.
She was worth staying for.
Her heart is gold.
It's just-- it's hard not to fall in love with her.
Yeah.
OK.
Y'all show-- tell me something that y'all came across
and it was, like, an issue.
TRISTAN: Do you want to talk about this now?
She gave me little pieces of the truth, and then she lied to me.
She didn't trust me.
So I was, like, in this heightened
state of, like, paranoia.
I mean, this is kind of difficult.
It was so scary, especially when you've never had
a run-in with the law before.
You're like, oh my goodness, what's gonna happen.
I was a prison guard.
And I pray for you, because I know
what they do to pretty girls.
Now, have you told him everything
that would affect him?
Because I don't want Ray Ray or Cockroach
coming up behind him going, you know, you with my woman.
MIA: Yeah. KATHY: You know?
MIA: Yeah.
I told him everything, like, detailed play-by-play.
KATHY: Not just of that issue, just--
MIA: Oh, just my past in general?
--everything.
Just everything that would involve
your relationship with him.
Trust, honesty, get it out.
And you know, let sleeping dogs lie.
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Amen.
I had many concerns.
I had a lot of concerns.
But as I was listening to her answer, I felt peace,
I felt at ease that she was sincere
and that she was telling the truth.
I'm really glad, because I had to look you in your eyes--
Mhm. [inaudible]
--and yes, ma'am.
I'm very relieved at Tristan's mom's reaction.
She's just being very understanding and supportive.
She wants Tristan and I to move forward with everything.
I'm comfortable now.
I am. I am.
- Give me a hug. - I'm comfortable now.
So-- mm.
Bless you, girl.
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