He loves me, he loves me not, he loves me.
There you go.
Now, there are better ways to find out if your man is totally into you than the old
flower technique that we used when we were kids.
In this episode, I'm going to break down 15 signs that your man totally adores you.
Check it out.
Now, we're going to go through these signs rapid fire, so buckle yourself in, pay attention,
here we go.
Sign number one is that he is active in his pursuit of you.
Is your man texting you?
Is he making plans in advance with you?
Is he pursuing you?
All of those actions suggest that he's thinking ahead, he's thinking about you, you are on
his mind when you are not around.
That's a great sign that he adores you and is into you.
Number two is he is present when he's with you.
Our attention is one of our limited commodities, and we will pay attention to what we value
most, right?
What matters to us we'll give our attention to.
So, when he's with you, is he pouring his attention on you?
Is he present and is he focused on what matters to him, which is you?
Number three is he pours maximum investment into his interactions with you.
In other words, he's not breadcrumbing you, just doing the minimum job required to keep
you interested, but he's taking you out on surprises, he's putting adventures together
where he's taking you out for a weekend or planning a cool secret hike and picnic with
you.
Is he pouring his own creative energy and maximum effort into the experiences that you
have together to create something amazing?
Number four is he's focused on you.
Slightly different than being present, this focus is he remembers what matters to you.
He's asking you questions about your life, he's curious about what lights you up, what
brings you life.
What do you love in your life?
And he remembers things about you and your family.
He's like, "Hey, didn't your mom have a big project that was due today?
How did that go?"
Or, "Hey, your sister's baby should have been due by now, did she have the baby?
What's going on?"
He remembers those things because you matter to him.
Number five is he is Mr. Progression, not Mr. Stagnant Man.
In other words, he's moving the relationship forward and he wants exclusivity with you,
because he's knows that if he doesn't have exclusivity with you, you could be out dating
other men, and that just burns him.
He does not want you seeing other men, because he's totally into you.
He adores you, and he wants to make sure that you and him are spending as much time together
as possible.
Number six is he's vulnerable with you.
A lot of men, we want you to think that we have it all figure out all the time, but the
truth is we don't.
So, when a man totally adores you, he's totally into you, and he sees you as a partner, he's
much more willing to open up and share the vulnerable side of what's really going on
in his world.
Number seven is public displays of affection.
Is he isn't ashamed to be seen with you, and he wants to hold your hand in public, he wants
to put his arm around you, he wants to kiss you in public.
These public displays of affection are a great sign that your man is into you and he's adoring
all over you.
Number eight, he wants to be with you, even when you're not at your best.
What does this mean?
You know, every one of us, we have times when we're on it, we're positive, we're feeling
great, we're having a great time, and days when we're not feeling great.
So, when you're feeling blue he'll be your shoulder to cry on, he'll hear what's going
on for you.
And most guys, when they're really into you, they want to help fix it.
We want to solve the problem, we want you to feel better.
So, if he's willing to be your shoulder to cry on, and willing to be with you, not just
when everything's great, but when you're going through a rough time as well, and be a source
of support to you, that's a great sign of how much he really cares about you.
Number nine is he's willing to be influenced by you.
This is an interesting one.
There's a researcher, Dr. John Gottman, out of the University of Washington, and he writes
a lot about this in his best-selling marriage books, that when we really love somebody we
allow them to influence us.
We allow them, we hold their political views with a certain degree of respect, and we'll
allow ourselves to be swayed.
We'll explore a new place with them, we'll see a movie they want to see, we'll load the
dishwasher, they want us to load the dishwasher, because we love them and we're allowing them
to influence who we are.
That's not a sign of weakness, that's a great sign of love.
Number ten is he mentions you in future plans.
He'll bring up vacations that he would love to take with you, or places he would love
to visit with you, and say, "Hey, we should go check out the Eiffel Tower, or we should
go to Mexico together, or Costa Rica together, or let's go rafting the Grand Canyon together."
A guy who's really into you is going to make future plans with you.
Number eleven, he remembers the little things.
He remembers your favorite food, your favorite ice cream, your favorite restaurant, a group
that you really like, and then makes plans involving the little things in life, because
it's those little things that can create big moments in a relationship.
Number twelve is your comfort is a priority for him.
So, when you're driving in the car together he wants to know, "Hey, how's the temperature?
Does it feel good to you?"
Or when you spend the night at his house he wants to make sure that he's got a toothbrush
for you, and your favorite shampoo ready to go, and he cleans his kitchen, he cleans his
bathroom, because he wants you to feel comfortable when you're around him.
Number thirteen is he offers to help, even when it's inconvenient.
You needed a ride to the airport at five a.m., he's the one to do it.
You need someone come over to your house for moving day?
He's there, he's got your back.
I'm not saying he's always happy about it, because no guy is perfect, but he's willing
to do it because you matter to him.
And number fourteen, and this one's big, is he wants to please you in bed.
When a guy totally adores you, you feeling good really matters to him, and he will often
want to make sure that he takes care of you before he takes care of, and you take care
of him.
Enough said.
And lastly, number fifteen.
There's no doubt in your mind that he's into you, because he vocalizes it, because he shows
it with his actions, because he's consistent in his behavior, and there's this feeling
of peace and security in you between you and him and the relationship that you share.
So, there you have it, 15 signs that your man totally adores you.
And I have a question for you.
When you totally adore a guy, what are some of the things that you do?
What are some of the signs that he can look for that lets him know that you're totally
into him?
Go ahead and post a comment in the comment section below.
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