9 Love Lies Every Woman Should Know.
Women get carried away by fairy tales, Hollywood movies and soap operas.
There is nothing further from love than that.
Of course there are a few similarities, but the others are because we reproduce them,
not because they should be so.
So enough of all of that because only makes you suffer and does not let you find true
love.
So look at these lies about love that we should stop waiting and reproduce.
Enough, please!
1.
THE BETTER HALF.
According to these stories about the twin souls, who have a platonic origin, we are
incomplete beings in eternal search of our other half.
This makes us frustrated because we don't find it, even when we have a partner.
When things don't go as expect it, it makes you think that it is not your "better half".
In addition, we feel insecure because "we need something" and we are in eternal sadness
too.
Well, this is not so, we are all self-sufficient and there is not a completely perfect person
who is our "better half".
2.
LOVE IS SUFFERING.
Loving is not to suffer, no, never.
To have a beautiful and stable relationship it is necessary to strive.
Both parties must do some work for the relationship to bear some fruit, but it should not necessarily
hurt.
While it is true that by loving one can end up suffering for something extraordinary that
can happen, but not the other way around.
It is not true that by suffering we are loving.
If you're suffering, get out of there!, Definitely not your "better half".
3.
YOU BELONG TO YOUR PARTNER AND HIM TO YOU.
You can say "He's my boyfriend", just like you say "She's my friend" or "She's my mom",
but that does not mean that he's yours.
The same thing backward, do not allow yourself to be manipulated by that "you are mine, why
did you do it?", Much less to be seduced with that "I am your owner" that seems to charm
you.
Be free, as long as you give yourself freedom, the relationship will be much more mature
and respectful than when it is not.
4.
ETERNAL LOVE.
We have also been taught that we should seek whoever wants to marry us to live an eternal
love, right?
Sounds fabulous to many people, but not to others.
Just not all believe in eternal love and not because of that they are bitter.
Both men and women believe that love can end and is no drama for them.
So let's think of a couple as someone we want to accompany us in life, with whom we want
to share everything.
That's fine, but do not do it for fear of being alone or because "it should be."
5.
YOU ARE NOT "ONE".
Remember that we are individual beings with our own criteria and that having a partner
does not make us dependent or unable to decide.
We can consult with our partner something that afflicts us, but that does not mean that
you will decide what he tells you.
We remain free and above all individuals.
Let's stop unifying everything like friends and tastes.
Let's be a team but let's continue to be authentic.
6.
IN LOVE EVERYTHING IS POSSIBLE.
This is not true, some people are motivated by agents very different from love.
Loving can motivate you to fight for that person and solve problems with it, but you
can not survive on love.
There are people who love a lot but simply can not deal with certain things.
So do not expect him to do what you do, because we all love differently and that does not
mean we do not love.
Love, definitely, can not do everything.
7.
LOVE IS THE ONLY IMPORTANT THING.
If you do not have a partner, what does it matter!
If you do not feel comfortable with yourself, how do you expect someone else to appreciate
you?
And when someone looks for you, you deny it or you do not believe it possible.
If someone does not want to date you, you feel insufficient.
Enough!
Having a partner is not the most important thing in life.
You are strong and self-sufficient, you have a thousand things for which you should feel
plentiful.
8.
LOVE WITHOUT EXPECTING NOTHING IN EXCHANGE.
"When you love, you do not expect anything in return" ... No, no and no.
We are all selfish, although we are not given much, it is true that sometimes we do not
reason well and we do not care and we continue giving, but there comes a point where that
ends.
Besides, that is not called love, but an obsession.
When you truly love, you love yourself and you know that it will not do you any good
to receive nothing.
It is emotional intelligence and true love must be intelligent also.
9.
YOU DO NOT KNOW WHAT YOU HAVE UNTIL YOU LOSE IT.
Well, yes and no.
Sometimes we left a person and we realized that it was a good match and we ruined it.
It also happens that we realize that leaving it was the best thing we could have done.
Besides, being a good match does not mean that he was the ideal person for you.
On the other hand, MEN also leave and "realize that they love you", come back and again
ruin it.
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